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    last night at work i had a great custmer he kept buying vips from me and buying me drinks and stage tipping me it was great but anthor dancer went over to him when i was on stage (i relize this happens) he promised me a dance after my stage set so i went right over to him I did not care that she was there (I am getting more aggresive in the game) he went and got his dance from me to be polite i asked my custmer to tip her for her time then she came over to me and asked me to help her get a dance from she said i was hogging him and she needed to get a vip I did not think i was hogging becuse he wanted me to sit him (he is very drunk and having fun) then when my regular custmer came walking in she used it as a chance to get to him becuse i then got alot of people talking to me at the same time and got lost but that was fine he still bought anthor dance from me later. but my question is did i do the right thing and is it right for a dancer to ask you to get vips for her and am i obligated to to it. thanks you guys i luv you all.

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    Quote Originally Posted by krchab99 link=board=9;threadid=9971;start=msg120125#msg1201 25 date=1086795246
    is it right for a dancer to ask you to get vips for her and am i obligated to to it.
    I don't think it was an ethical question on her part. I guess I'm pleased to see she talked to you about it before going in for the kill, but if you get up, your customer is up for grabs! This is especially true while it's slow.

    Your obligation is to yourself. If you want to help her, fine. I have girlfriends that I help out and other girls I work with that I wouldn't....but that's me, and I don't feel obligated to do it.

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    Default Re:unfair play

    The post was pretty hard to follow! But I think I got everything right hehe.

    Quote Originally Posted by krchab99 link=board=9;threadid=9971;start=msg120125#msg1201 25 date=1086795246
    but my question is did i do the right thing
    It sounds to me like not only did you do the right thing, but you handled it exceptionally well, courteously and professionally. You even went the extra mile for your co-worker, which is an extreme rarity, by instigating the customer tip your co-worker for her attempt to swoop in while you went on stage.

    You sound like a very sweet and endearing dancer, and likely the reason why you became so busy later and have steady regulars. Customers pick up on this nature and it's something they find rewarding in the SC's.


    and is it right for a dancer to ask you to get vips for her and am i obligated to to it.
    This is a question you have to ask yourself since there is no right answer, and too much relies on your particular club and your own character. On the "obligated" part- you are in no way formally obligated to make sales for other dancers!

    Looking out for your co-workers is always a "nice" thing to do, but they are big girls and can sell their own VIP's. If they can't, then having them spoon fed to them by others really doesn't help them grow as successful strippers, does it? If you really want to help them, maybe throw a few tips in the dressing room if they are new, or giving them the URL to this website or other dancer resources. Help them to help themselves.

    On the flipside, having like-minded co-workers to sell "doubles" with can be a good thing since when someone strikes oil, it can be give/take to spread the wealth. I have no idea what kind of club you work in, but in bigger city clubs it can be advantageous to form small 'truces' with other dancers if a lot of wealthier, 2-girl seekers come through the doors often. Having a 'partner in crime' to reach for can be mutually beneficial if both parties try the same angle and customer traffic finds value in this sort of thing. It's a specialized situation so I have no idea if this applies to you, your club or your customers.

    The rule of the day that encompasses the highest majority of stripclubs and successful dancers is the policy of keeping to one's self. This applies to most any sales-environment. It's important to be respectful, courteous, mindful and professional to your co-workers, but for the most part- do your thing and try to sell as many dances for yourself as you can. The more you extend yourself to others, realize it will have impact on your own earnings. The key is to find a good balance particular to your own club and co-workers that maintains a comfortable, peaceful co-existence while maximizing your earnings.

    Hope this helps!
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    Default Re:unfair play

    Sounds to me like that girl is a bully and she thinks that you will be an easy target to take advantage of because you are new. That customer should have been more respectful of the other dancers time by telling her that he was waiting for you to get off stage. If I were the other dancer I would have been really pissed at that customer. What you did by asking him to tip her for her time was very cool. She totally owes you.
    If she still tries to bully you around, I would try to stay very far away from her and try to make friends with some of the other girls as soon as possible.
    If she gets too out of hand you should at least let a manager know that you are having problems with her. That way, if she tries to start a fight with you, the manager will be on your side.
    If she turns out to be a nice person then you can team up with her to sell dances to groups of guys. If she is pretty and is a good sales person that can benefit both of you. You just have to figure out if she is a jealous bully or a potential team player.
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