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    Default Starting stripping for curiosity!

    hi,
    should i tell my gf if i wanted to start stripping to know more about the what she does?
    (remmeber my last post?)
    i thought maybe i can start dancing as a part time job to get to know it more?! does it help?

    i make enough money (as a software engineer) i am just curious.

    i am a straight and dont have the guts (really hate it) to dance in gay bars!
    if its a good choice to dance then,
    need advice to dance for a girls night out!

    i am ok with any kinda dance but cant show my ahum or let others touch it without my underwear on! just said this because i dont know whut really goes on in the clubs

    another thing is that i never been in her club is it good way to ask her i wanna see her club? if yes, should i go with her to see the club, her friends , atmosphere, coworkers .... while she is not working or should take her to the club and tel her that i wanna see her what she does at SC (how can i ask that doesnt sound untrusting)
    of course if i didnt trust her i woudnt date her but how can i ask her!?

    should i check with the club manager(maybe being there as her BF would make problems with her sales or interfere with whut is going on in the club)

    and generally would it be ok to take her to job back home with my car? or is it better to let her go in her own.

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    Default Re:Starting stripping for curiosity!

    wow what a long post,
    sorry

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    Default Re:Starting stripping for curiosity!

    You can't ask without it sounding untrusting...and since that's where it's coming from, why disguise it? Come clean...be straight (so to speak). Yes, your presence would cause a problem with business (whether real or perceived) and no you shouldn't drive her unless she specifically wants you to.

    ....and it'll get worse...regardless of which direction you go. There's my optimism for ya.

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    Default Re:Starting stripping for curiosity!

    First off, there is a big difference between male and female dancers, so if you would be doing it out of curiosity to find out what she does, not a good idea. If you WANT to become a male dancer for your own reasons, then why not give it a shot?
    As far as asking her - just ask.
    If you are in a loving and trusting relationship and she respects the fact that her man is coping with what she does for a living, she may not have a problem with it.
    If she does not want you to see her at her club, it may not be because she is hiding something from you. I posted before that my bf and I lived together for a long time before I would let him come see me in my club, not to hide anything, I was just scared it may make him feel uncomfortable to se me flirting with lots of other men for money.
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    Default Re:Starting stripping for curiosity!

    i read it on this site that strippers may like to be driven to (club) every where by their man for sometimes.

    reg:
    First off, there is a big difference between male and female dancers, so if you would be doing it out of curiosity to find out what she does, not a good idea. If you WANT to become a male dancer for your own reasons, then why not give it a shot?

    may be its the both but mainly to know more about what stripping,
    i guess i need advice about strippers of both male and female to get to know more.
    i just need more feed back from strippers if possible.

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    Default Re:Starting stripping for curiosity!

    i remmber the post about shiitty questions of guys but out o curiousity:

    i think its very rare but:

    would a female dancer orgasm while lap dancing if the music and the guy and the atmosphere is the right for her?!

    and i am easy if my girl does it, just i am really curious,

    when i was at high school i had a gf that she liked me to rub against her body to get orgasms

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    Default Re:Starting stripping for curiosity!

    The best way to get to know what she does for a living is to talk to her, and then go into another club and watch what other dancers deal with from the guys/management/other dancers. Talk to other dancers, too, but let her know why you are doing this so that she doesn't feel like you do not trust her. Be honest, be open, be confedent, and tell her that you love her. There are exceptions to the rule, but in most cases the girls I know who do the whole lap dance thing keep it professional. In my case you have to care about the person to have an orgasim. Most girls only orgasim when they do a dance for a boyfriend/lover/husband.
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    Default Re:Starting stripping for curiosity!

    beware.. women are more Perverted when in groups then men are..

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    Default Re:Starting stripping for curiosity!

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    Default Re:Starting stripping for curiosity!

    All righty, firstly as others have said exotic dancing as a male is different from as a female.
    Secondly, it shouldn't be a problem for you to go to her work with her sometime other than when she is dancing. I'd find it uncomfortable to be flirting with different guys when my bf is around, but I don't mind him seeing what my coworkers do and such. though I was the one that said we should go, so might be a different situation for you.
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