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    The other night this guy I know brought his wife in the club. He came up to me on stage and asked if I would dance for his wife. Very reluctantly I said ok and went to their table after my set. He turns his wife's chair around, and she says "what the f*** are you doing". He told her he had bought her a dance. So she goes off on him saying "You've got to be out of your f'ing mind. Do you want to walk home because I will leave your ass here". He looked so pitifull, but she had been sitting there all night with her arms crossed. Anyway, when I was back on stage he tipped me and said "I think I'm married to a bitch!". Come to find out, the day before she had packed up and left him.

    Anyway, my point is, am I the only one who cannot stand dancing for a couple? At a different club I had a couple as one of my regulars...but they were both women and both dancers

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    I like dancing for couples, for the most part. Most times the guy wants me to dance for the girl so that makes life alot easier. Unless he starts to get a complex and gets jealous, which has happened more than once.
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    Quite honestly, the only times I've ever really bought dances is when I'm with a female companion- which always seems to be someone who is either very bisexual or staunch lesbian... and the dance is FOR her, and by her strong desire prior to even going to the club.

    Dancers that have previously boasted about being bisexual are REALLY put to the test this way. LOL. It's always funny to expose the fakers. And the women I bring in are always exceptionally hot- either dancers/ex-dancers themselves or in some way exceptionally gorgeous women.

    I really don't get men that drag a completely heterosexual woman into a stripclub and try to force-feed lapdances to them. Ugh, I see it in the local clubs all the time and it makes NO sense. Behavior when accompanied by a heterosexual woman is a completely different thing and if you cross lines, you're going to wind up with one very pissed off woman. A heterosexual woman can have a GREAT time in a stripclub.. absolutely wonderful, but not if she's got some jerkoff trying to manipulate her into something she's not comfortable doing.

    And no, I dont see a woman rebelling against getting a dance as being a "bitch"... anymore than I would feel discontent to her taking me to a male review and insisting some beefcakes gym boy trying rub his unit on me. I'll go and have a good time, but there are just lines that shouldn't be forced on people.

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    I never approach couples ,and have never danced for one. I wouldn't feel comfortable, I know they'd just rip me apart later! I've had couples sit in gyno row, and it pisses me off-

    drunk girl to bf, loudly: "my tits are bigger than hers!"
    bf: "yes, honey"
    drunk girl: "stop fucking staring at her!" (starts slobbering all over him)

    and so on and on.

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    That guy should've known better if it was a good thing to bring his wife. As a client I don't object at the presence of couples at a club but I find it pretty lame to have a dancer do her thing to a lady, that should be done at a gay bar



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    I don't mind couples, they're usually nice to me, but it seems that once in a while something gross happens like the chick isn't wearing underwear, the guy tries to get "involved" trying some virtual 3-way BS, or they bug you to go home with them.

    What bugs me most about couples is that they don't spend money!
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    I dont like most couples, there are the occasional ones who are very friendly and complimentary. They dont usually tip much at all and they usually are scrutinzing me to a god awful degree. Its annoying.

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    I usually don't mind couples. But I can't stand those bitches who sit there with their arms crossed and glaring at you all damn night. Actually, I take that back. I get an evil thrill from making goo-goo eyes at their man from the stage. I've seen girls instruct their man to NOT tip me. wtf??


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    If she felt so strongly about a beautiful woman dancing nude in front of her, why did she even go there in the first place? She sounded verbally strong enough to reject to the dance......so I cannot see her being forced to go ANYWHERE ! I kinda feel bad for the guy. Maybe he was just trying to involve her and have a fantasy together or something.

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    Yeah,as far as couples goes,the woman either blows hot or cold,she either is totally into it or she's like what the f*ck!
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    I've danced for a lot of couples over the years that have been more than nice to dance for.
    I've also been paid to dance a few times for a couple, and the woman turned it down with a haughty "Oh, no, I don't THINK so". I always just look at her and say "Okay, baby! Easiest money I ever made! You guys have a great night! Hope you have fun!(big smile)".
    I've also been paid to dance for Heterosexual women that had come into the club with guys they knew. Some of them took it well with a laugh and a smile, and to some of them I have had to say "Hey, I'm not gonna do anything bad to you" to get them to relax and "assume the position" so-to-speak. I think this is in reaction to the fact that at the club I work in a lot of the dancers will pull up the girls shirt, push her bra aside (for the whole room to see) and start sucking on her nipples...lol. A lot of women (even truly bi-sexual ones) don't want this sort of thing happening to them in public. I think I'm able to get more dances from women because I'm not so aggressive with them.
    But the ones who come in...stare down everyone with glares, and think that we are sooo beneath them...I often wonder why they even come in. But I don't ever let it bother me, I'm long since past caring what someone I don't even know thinks about what I do for a living.

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    Some couples are cool. I try to make the women comfortable. Say something like "its so nice to see women here as customers. I hope you have fun tonight and come back soon.

    One thing I cant stand are those prissies who are young chicks and come with their BFs or in small "bitch groups". They sit for hours, dont tip and make rude comments about the dancers. You know the deal - the more beautiful and talented the dancer the more ridiculous the comments get. I just let the manager know and he will go over there and make it look like he is just a customer. Usually they are dumb enough to say something like "look at her... why do you come in here to look at white trash" and of course they are promptly escourted out of the bar.

    One cool trick is to go up to them and let them know its amater night! At our club any woman can just go on stage for a few minutes - its fun. Usually these coneheads decline the offer and you get the best looking girls in the club up on stage with you and blow those buffys down with jaw dropping dance and pole moves. It works like a charm.

    Brittany - we are never beneath them! Anyone who goes into a strip club soely for that purpose hasnt yet evolved to be human. Dancers ar incredibly smart, beautiful, talented! Id like to see them dance all nite in our 7 inch shoes! Dancers are a breed of fearless women!
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    beefcakes gym boy trying rub his unit on me

    ohmigod polecat that was a hilarious way to put it...

    I think couples can go either way. I have had some of my BEST customers be couples, and some of my absolute worste. When a couple comes to a club its all about what the woman is comfortable with in my opinion ...so I totally agree with you polecat.


    If I do dance for couples..I usually make it an older classy looking couple...I tend to avoid the young couples...



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    Quote Originally Posted by Brittany link=board=27;threadid=10012;start=msg120794#msg12 0794 date=1086940889
    ...dancers will pull up the girls shirt, push her bra aside (for the whole room to see) and start sucking on her nipples...lol.
    I would never do that to a woman! I would be comfortable in her position cause peole see me half naked all the time but for a woman who doesnt dance it could be the most embarressing thing! If the woman is comfy with it then its cool but I would never just assume to do it.

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    I completely agree with sapphire....I absolutely love nothing more than to purposely F*** with the bitchy female customers who sit there and mad-dog u. I feel very comfortable approaching the men they are with and being all over them and asking for dances because i feel that it is my environment, my friends, my bouncers etc. and so i guess i just feel safe and totally get off on it. However, this ONLY applies to the bitches who come in and glare at me all night, i have had some awesome experiences with couples who have been really nice and ended up spending alot on me so i guess it is just purely situational. But be warned: come into my club and give me dirty looks thats fine....just be prepared to have me maul your date. lol lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by Pisces3x3 link=board=27;threadid=10012;start=msg120829#msg12 0829 date=1086947589
    Quote Originally Posted by Brittany link=board=27;threadid=10012;start=msg120794#msg12 0794 date=1086940889
    ...dancers will pull up the girls shirt, push her bra aside (for the whole room to see) and start sucking on her nipples...lol.
    I would never do that to a woman! I would be comfortable in her position cause peole see me half naked all the time but for a woman who doesnt dance it could be the most embarressing thing! If the woman is comfy with it then its cool but I would never just assume to do it.
    My club very often has up to 25 percent or so female customers, couples, groups of girls, or mixed group of guys and girls, and I've never seen anything like that. The girls who sit at the stage usually get more attention from some of the dancers like boobs in the face and legs around their necks, but never any sort of undressing of the female customers.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DancerFriend link=board=27;threadid=10012;start=msg120837#msg12 0837 date=1086948836
    Quote Originally Posted by Pisces3x3 link=board=27;threadid=10012;start=msg120829#msg12 0829 date=1086947589
    Quote Originally Posted by Brittany link=board=27;threadid=10012;start=msg120794#msg12 0794 date=1086940889
    ...dancers will pull up the girls shirt, push her bra aside (for the whole room to see) and start sucking on her nipples...lol.
    I would never do that to a woman! I would be comfortable in her position cause peole see me half naked all the time but for a woman who doesnt dance it could be the most embarressing thing! If the woman is comfy with it then its cool but I would never just assume to do it.
    My club very often has up to 25 percent or so female customers, couples, groups of girls, or mixed group of guys and girls, and I've never seen anything like that. The girls who sit at the stage usually get more attention from some of the dancers like boobs in the face and legs around their necks, but never any sort of undressing of the female customers.
    Welcome to Texas....LoL It does get a bit ridiculous sometimes, and I think it is possible for dancers to carry it all just a bit too far at times. LoL

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    hmmm I must be a weird wife. Whenever I take my hubby to the SC, I have to beg him to get dances and tip. Of course, I am thinking of beig a dancer so maybe that's the difference. Nah, I would still want him to get dances.

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    I HATE COUPLES

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    Undressing the female customers happens all the time at a club near me, if they allow it. Most don't mind it.

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    Brittany,
    Where in Texas do you work?

    I mentioned this on another thread, but I'll say it again. I have no problem with females, I rather like them. But my current club has a strict no lap-dancing for women policy based on Houston strip laws. This one is actually enforced at this club. Anyway, because of this, I havn't seen many women at the place, and I think that having too many civilian ladies around makes the boys nervous. So I have no problem with that at all because now the guys are more laid back!

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    I think there are more nice couples than crappy ones. But the crappy ones....whoooaaa are they crappy. One guy was like, "I have what I need right here." And his girlfriend looked really proud, and I was thinking, "THAT troll?" And if he had all he needed, then why was he there staring at other naked women? He should have been at home. In bed. With her. Another lady who was like, at least 300 lbs. was like, "Here, buy yourself a hamburger." And I was thinking, "Yeah, let me take your husband's money so he does not have to buy you anymore burgers, lady." I have found that the really pretty women are the most comfortable in the club and are the most friendly. Had one girl, who was a model, pay me like $300 bucks for one dance. Her and her boyfriend wanted me to move to Beverly Hills with them, too! Now that's my kind of couple!

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    Quote Originally Posted by exotica17 link=board=27;threadid=10012;start=msg121214#msg12 1214 date=1087025658
    Another lady who was like, at least 300 lbs. was like, "Here, buy yourself a hamburger." And I was thinking, "Yeah, let me take your husband's money so he does not have to buy you anymore burgers, lady."
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    Quote Originally Posted by exotica17 link=board=27;threadid=10012;start=msg121214#msg12 1214 date=1087025658
    I have found that the really pretty women are the most comfortable in the club and are the most friendly.
    I think this is usually true. Lately though, I've noticed a lot of really hot chicks causing trouble in the club. Its almost as if they cannot stand for the attention that they obviously always get to be focused on anyone else. It drives me nuts.

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    poor guy,he tried
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