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    i worked as a escort in KY for 2 yrs. and it was great. but reading through the forums i seen a different story. to set things stright............ i DID NOT have sex with anybody. i went in , collected my 100.00 dollars an hour base pay , stripped , gave a [back] massage , and then sold extra shows , such as a shower show , a toy show , a finger show , a 2 girl show , ect,ect. i charged 100.00 and up per a show and made about 4,000 a week for 5 days worth of work. it may not be as ''clean'' as dancing , but i did not have to touch the men in any sexual way. it may be different elsewhere but thats how it works here. and most of the guys already know what to expect from seeing other girls so there isn't really a lot of pressure for sex. just my story, escorting isn't all bad.
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    The key word is "workED" as an escort! You can't be in the business very long, and not give the guys what they want!

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    2 years is a long time in that business. get in , make your money , and get the hell out. i'm sure most women considering escorting don't plan on doing it any longer than that.

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    Brandy-Sorry but what you've described is much more
    along the lines of "private stripping" as opposed to
    escort work which usually involves having sex with the customer.

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    this was what i was doing working for the escorting agency ''class act'' . there are some agency's out there that don't require you to have sex . i'm just sharing my experence with it. i sugest working for a women also , they seem to expect less.

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    didn't want to thread to dissaper into the night............lol

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    Very very true Kid! I do private stripping. I do more than strip, i do dildo shows, shower shows, grinding ld's, NOT girl on girl shows however. The men NEVER have an contact with me other than a ld with his hands on my hips or thighs. When i do a dildo show, the men watch and do NOT touch.

    This is not escorting, and what you describe is not escorting either, if it is, i should be charging a hell of alot more money than i do.

    Escorts go out with their clients, i.e. dinner and hotel rooms for massage and sex "usually" don't they? Not just strip, dance and do a small show. Really do they??? Maybe some, but i don't think that's actually escorting. At least not the agencies i talked with. To each their own. Stay safe, make $$$!!!

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    Working for an escort service (instead of an entertainment service) can be very dangerous if you won't do extras. Men expect a prostitute when they call an escort service. To just dance puts you at high risk for attack.

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    i worked at class act in KY and that is what we did. most of the men who seen us had been seeing girls for years so they knew what to expect. if we ever had a problem , we could always just leave......... i never did. i made a killin and had a great time.........man , i miss that job. but i agree , some agencys do expect there girls to provide full services , you just have to find the right ones. there are good ones out there , just keep looking. xoxoxoxo

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    Sounds like you were lucky although in Vegas there are a lot of what they would call fly by night escort services where the girl charges a very nice fee and then does a little strip and disappears. You also have the agencies that will say no sex is involved but when the girl gets there behind closed doors whos to say that it wasnt a mutual attraction like the 5'6" 240lb man really turned her on so much she just had to have him

    I dunno everytime I watch "Cops" I see them getting a room calling an agency and arresting the girl

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sara link=board=10;threadid=10051;start=msg140662#msg14 0662 date=1090301584
    Men expect a prostitute when they call an escort service.
    Right, and in fact there exist extensive online forums (some private and some public) which function, in part, to allow guys to avoid all sorts of rip-off escort services which imply that they will deliver sex but actually do not. However the entertainment service brandys describes probably would not be mistaken for a full service escort service by most experienced punters (British slang for a "john") because the pricing ($100/hr) is well under what a "real" escort service typically charges these days ($200-$300 per hour).

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    i agree, thats not escorting. that private outcall danceing. I used to do the incall version. minus the toys because they were illeagel, and the girl on girl shows (same reason) although we did do a few 2 girl shows...

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    Brandy, Pam, et al.,

    That line of work sounds like dream. Does that really exist??? I won't be a snob by comparing it to escort money because I have never prostituted, but $4ooo a WEEK?!?!?!

    That sounds wonderful to me. I would do everything you described for less. How do you even find work like that?

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    jobs like this do exsist , but they are far and few between. i dance now , and i make nowhere near what i made escorting. i suggest calling the escorting acencys in your area and asking what services they offer. a place that books for b-parties seem to be best. i also look for a women to own it. give it a try , see what its about , if you don't like that agency , look for a new one. if you decide its not for you , no harm done. good luck !

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    BonnieKat i do not escort. I do private's. Outside the club you can be more open with customers. I just incorporate a show along with my dancing. Guys do not touch me while i perform. The only time....when i lap dance they can touch/hold my hips, thighs, hair no private parts. Also i let them pour food stuff over my body, say cold milk feels real good! Hersheys chocolate etc. I did a few body shots before, but that seemes to much risk for me.

    I still dance, strip and hang with the guys for awhile. I just added my own "extra" fun for them, it makes for good money!

    Pamela EDIT: $4000 a week.....Um NO. $200 to $400 a party yes, and that depends on negotiating over the phone, see these are guys who know people who know me, or i know directly. And i do not do many private parties anymore. I am dancing pt in Miami.

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    ??? ??? A finger show? atoy show? and this was all right with you. I can hardly give lap dances let alone ever go on stage. i'm a room girl all the way but this escorting shit is bull shit. You make dancers look bad, ???
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    Wow!

    First of all, Pam thanks for your honesty. I didn't mean to imply that I assumed anybody was escorting (esp if that's an insult). Also, I'm not dumb, just naive and hopeful! I know what they say: If it sounds to good to be true......yeah, yeah sometimes "they" are right!

    Secondly, I think the last comment certainly should be welcomed for a different and seemingly very honest perception, it did give me pause reading it in a forum such as this. I didn't post on these boards for forever because I have read other boards that have degenerated into name calling and judging, and the culture deteriorated rapidly. As for as I am concerned, the members of this site range from women who have only seen a ld on TV and never set foot in a club all the way to professional prostitutes and adult film actresses. Of course with this range of life experience we will NOT all see eye to eye. However, I come here (with many other women) to seek respite from a society that quite often persecutes "sex-positive" women whether or not they even work in the sex industry. IMHO this should be a place of understanding and education. Insulting some one because she hooks will not ever make anybody see you in a better light because you are "only" a topless dancer. I really hope as a group of intelligent sexual women we could help destroy society's myths rather than perpetuate them.

    Thanks for listening! (And Daphne, I certainly don't claim to know you at all, so I did not mean this as a personal attack.)

    I'll step down off my now!

    Take care everyone!

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    I cant believe i missed this thread I will post tomorrow

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    If no one else will say it-- I will. Daphned - get a clue.
    The only people who bag on prostitutes, or anyone in the adult entertainment business, are complete losers. There is nothing wrong with a person doing any form of adult entertainment that she is capable of doing; so that she can live the best life possible given her present set of circumstances.
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    Thank you, bonniekat. You took the words out of my mouth. I have worked as a dancer, and then an escort. I am currently 'on hiatus' to pursue other projects, but I don't rule out returning to escorting in the future, because, you just never know. I've been so upset by the denigration of escorts, prostitutes, whatever you'd like to call them, that is so rampant here on Stripperweb lately.

    I see this kind of attitude too often - "I'm better than this person because I don't do [whatever]." For example,

    I'm an airdancer and I'm better than girls who give grinding dances.

    I'm a full-contact, grind dancer and I'm better than a whore.

    Better how? A better person? Better morally? Better intellectually?

    Tread carefully when you count yourself as 'better' than someone else, especially when your criteria of good vs. bad revolve around a code of 'morals' that is pretty subjective.

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    Very well put Adina!

    Not that this is the case in this particular circumstance, but it has been my experience that when people are dissatisfied with their job, or suffering some short term self worth issues, then they tend to look for a quick ego boost with the" Im better than that ..." mentality.

    But since many members of society have a negative attitude towards "sex trade workers" in general, and often fail to distinguish between the fine lines of distinction that seem so prevalent here, I would suggest we all live and let live, and stop casting stones. (ok that was one too many cliches, my apologies lol)

    back to the topic at hand.
    I would have to think that most clients would not expect full service for $100 an hour, however maybe the market is different in KY than Canada.
    If you had a positive experience with your escorting then more power to you.

    Thanks for the honest and interesting thread.

    Canuck

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    Okay I'll be the one to ask...

    What is a Dildo show? Is it dancing? What is done and for how long?
    Are the guys watching or jacking? I really don't mean to be crude, but I'd like someone to explain this to me.
    Is a 2girl show dancing or simulated sex or both?

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    daphned , every one is entitled to there opinion......... but to point something out to you , i have seen more degrading things in the clubs then i ever did escorting. all of us on this web site have some sort of connection to the adult entertainment bussiness. we are sopposed to stick togeather , if we don't , how are we sopposed to stand up against society ? everyone opinoin is different , i guess its just a matter of RESPECT !
    as for the questions at hand , a toy show is playing with a dildo while a man watches and/or jacks off.
    a 2 girl show is a simulated oral/ body grinding sex scene that the men watch.

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    Ok when i do private parties. I do strip and dance. But these are ld's. I also have a small kiddie pool that guys pour milk or whatever over my body. They do not touch me. Have done body shots, perfectly legal, they do them in regular clubs.

    I do ld's nude, guy MUST have pants on or something covering his penis area if he has shorts on as well. I have guys tell me they get very excited and could they wear a condom...Heck yes, that protects us both. I don't mention the condoms, a guy will at times think he may cum, it happens. Iwatch, if it seems that is a goal of his i slow down and stop grinding. Some guys can just cum with a "normal" ld.

    I also do dildo shows. I lay nude and insert a gel filled dilso inside me, and (just like webcam) have fun. This lasts only 8 minutes usually. Some guys want to masturbate, fine. They are not near me, and their cum goes inside a towel or they may have or a condom on.

    I negotiate everything on the phone. I don't give them sex, i show them sex, my sex. I don't watch a guy masturbate either.

    The shows are fun! The only contact is my ld's which i will grind if asked to, and holding my hips or touching my hair. That's it.

    I probably had vice check me out, i never got busted, and told DO NOT accept tips after the party.

    The only part that seems strange to alot of people is the fact that i do dildo shows. That is not sex for money. And no contact while i am performing masturbation.

    I have checked into my routine, and found this to be legal. I have pushed the show as far as i can i hear. Clearly this is not escorting however, and i feel comfortable. If this is a "form" of escorting, fine. But in wont go beyond my limits, and i have set them.

    EDIT: i can't and would not do girl-girl parties, that is illegal i was told. Touching each other, screwing each other etc. No way, not for me. However we have a fairly new club in my area that does girl kissing girl nude shows, and whatever else. Still open. I work with one of the girls at my "real" job who won the longest kiss being nude with another female on stage.....Go figure. Hey i'm in Florida!!

    Pamela

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    daphned, why does she make dancers look bad? She is doing this OUTSIDE a club, and she charged the guys and did her thing? What is so wrong with that?

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