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    Default Please help me overcome the fear!

    I got job in another city, so I will be staying on a hotel. I know that maybe it sound silly, but I’m really scared staying there by my self :'(. Also I know the cause may be, that I’m not use to anymore living by my self and that I will get over it, but right now I’m just DESTROYED. The cause may also be, that I had before some little incidents like been followed etc. (in another city tho). I’m already one week late for my work (should be there one week ago) and that just because I’m so fu…ing scared. The worst is that I’m eating like a horse, because the stress (I still manage to exercise), but even so I’m just getting bad, bad, bad. O and I really need to leave this week of coarse or I may loose the job :'(.

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    Default Re:Please help me overcome the fear!

    It might help to set up a calling schedule with somebody who makes you feel comfortable. Give them a call right after work or whenever you are likely to be feeling the most vulnerable, and ask them to send out the dogs if you don't make that call. It really isn't very likely that such measures would be necessary, but it may provide the safety blanket you need. Or perhaps you're going somewhere that someone on this forum lives, and you might have dinner with them. Hope you feel better.

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    Default Re:Please help me overcome the fear!

    Why don't you get someone to go with you for the first few days while you are getting settled? It would be like a mini vacation for that person, and you would have someone there with you until you felt more comfortable in your new digs.

    If the fear is greater than just getting over the initial hump, you should probably postpone your move and seek counciling. There are deeper problems if you are terrified to be alone.


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    Default Re:Please help me overcome the fear!

    Take a teddy bear, a cell phone, and lots of tissue. I used to have this problem too. If you feel like there is a problem, go with your gut, and tell the club that you are at that you have these things going on and see if the bouncer can arrange to call you when you should be home.
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