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    So chick is mad at me because she doesn't believe me that the only time I've gone near the stage is when a customer askes me for a dance during my stage set and he is still sitting at the stage [see my posts in the newbie forum under cock-blocking]. So she hates me and all that. And I've gotten yelled at about it, not from management but from DJ who acts as management occasionally.

    so now she makes a point to ask customers at the stage to do private dances with her whenever I'm on stage, which she's also gotten yelled at about also, but doesn't care. It's been kind of a personal victory for me that they've never agreed, but what should my response be? Should I just take it as "ah, okay, we've agreed to play harsh with each other" and keep doing what I've been doing, ie, only going up when asked if it's her? Or as I have been, avoiding anyway? Or just leave it alone? Or whine?

    Thing is I can't argue that it has hurt my profits because it doesn't work when she does it, but I know she only does it because she thinks it'll "hurt me." Which I don't like the idea of "just taking" even if it doesn't affect my profits.
    And considering how she hates me, I don't really think calmly rationally discussing it will do any good.

    Ah, probably this will be a non-issue when I get back from vacation, but I'm interested in hearing the responses.
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    Maiden:
    I am a bitch...I like to make people look like fools. I have rarely had this problem but when I do, I will say "sweetheart, please don't come up to my stage when I am performing." Right at the time when she approaches the stage. The guys ignore her because they think that they are violating some rule. If she continues to stand there she looks like a fool. There was this one girl I used to fuck with...she wanted to fight me for some reason, I had guys walk up to her and say "you know, I would get a table dance from you but you are too fat." or when she was on stage they would say "God, you fat!" Sorry, but I go for the jugular. I am there to work, not get into petty kaka with girls. I like to end it immediately. The best revenge to me, is making more money than the chick.
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    Just ignore her. When guys ask you for a dance while you're on stage, ask them to meet you at the dance area or away from the stage. If she comes up to customers at your stage, just smile really big and ignore her. It'll drive her crazy.



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    Lena says it all!!! I staged danced most of my dancing days. When other dancers came to stage side, i made it a point to crawl sexy to the customer/s in question. Promise them something more. Of course i HATED ld's then, but would sit on laps and chat naughty words of wonder.

    These dancers don't have a clue. They look stupid, the guys like your show, they give money, the ones who don't give money when you are on stage, let the dancer have. You can make your rounds later, get him then for his $$$.

    Also i believe in being a bitch in front of paying customers to another dancer will not help a dancers earnings. Ignore, her with words, show it with body language, guys eat it up!!! She gets the hint!

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    I usually make the guy throw a buck or two on stage if I am taking him from the stage. That way she still gets her tip. But I only take guys that have asked me for a dance beforehand; I don't hustle stage-side.

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