What a moron. Darkness.. Sign off your computer and take a walk (off a cliff, preferably).
What a moron. Darkness.. Sign off your computer and take a walk (off a cliff, preferably).





So, this is darkness, huh?



TragicBeauty is freakin GORGEOUS! I smell jealousy in the air...mmmmm.
You think you know... but you have no idea!

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So share bro... what is that you see (or hear or sense) when you see her that is special, that's got your heart racing? Sharing may not get you the girl, but it may help alleviate some of the pain of not having her.
[/ Lets Autumn is 19 , about 5' 6" nice body and a cute face. not super skinney but the curves a soft girl is supposed to have , you she pays attention to you , even out side of work , its like you are the only person in the world , we went out to breakfest 3 time so far ( Each time she had her EX BF pay , he was her BF at the time ) shes a hard worker , her very first night working she made 100, not bad for a brand new person, one week later she made 700 that night , talk about going for the most you get from a job and doing well, one day after work we went back to her place and I gave her a massage ( no sex) and afterwords we laid on the floor and I rested my head on her belly and watched tv and she just softly put her finger thru my hair . it was one of the best time of my life , so when you are very loney and some one pays attention to you like that , its almost impossible to not fall for her . I hope this answers you questions all my best Dave



Awesome Dave... I hear you, even though there is nothing we can do for you, I can empathize with how you feel. Especially the part about laying your head on her stomach while she runs her fingers through your hair... pure bliss. Best of luck bro.Originally Posted by photodave link=board=27;threadid=10209;start=msg124786#msg12 4786 date=1087641838
~~What a moron. Darkness.. Sign off your computer and take a walk (off a cliff, preferably).~~~
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Darkness.. I'm pretty confident that you couldn't hold a match, let alone a candle to Tragic. Ugly attitudes normally show in the face after awhile.Originally Posted by darkness link=board=27;threadid=10209;start=msg124613#msg12 4613 date=1087613680




That would be my theory as well. The good old rebound can cause your mind to play tricks on ya'.Originally Posted by photodave link=board=27;threadid=10209;start=msg123609#msg12 3609 date=1087451890
You also didn't go into your age. If she's a 19 year old, and your substantially older, you might be tapping into other things or discovering other needs.
Overall, the experience can be good or bad, however you decide to progress. Situations we consider ourselves to be unusual are pretty good indicators a life lesson is in order. I wish you the best of luck.
It doesn't matter if you're somebody in this world, it rather matters you mean the whole world to somebody.
TB is gorgeous and darkness is a troll. Weve established 2 truisms. Hopefully Pryce will kick his ass to the curb at some point.
Anyway to get on topic......Im kind of wondering about this thread though. Here we have photodave who says hes a doorman at some club. Hes waxing eloquently and romantically about being in love with a stripper. Tons of slack have been cut to him cause hes an employee there. If a customer had made the same post y'all would have branded him as a PL and moron. I guess I dont get how working for minimum wage at a strip club collecting money at the door entitles you to look upon the dancers as potential romantic opportunities but if you are a customer any thoughts in that direction labels you as a perv.
FBR
Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.

To FBR,
anyone one has the right and chance to fall in love with a dancer just because I work there doesnt mean I have an advantage, just like a nurse can fall for a doctor , so can a doorman for a dancer, the doorman at my club is a multiple occupation ( yes I collect money and check ID's but I also plays the songs , announce the girls walk them out to their cars , once in a while I act as a bouncer but I consider my self more of a cooler , I like to calm a situation down and use my mind in stead of my fists .WE are a family club , we know most of each other birthdays and go to thier kids birthday parties and have gift exchanges , I have most of the girls , phone numbers in case one calls in sick I have to try to find one to replace her for the night . In addition we load up the bar and make the deposit to the bank, we dont work for mimium wage its a little higher , not as high as I make as my day job ( as a PMR ( Pain Managment and Rehabilitaion) specialist) at the hospital , and not even close to what I make as photographer . In addition we have had several customers marry our dancers , and some are engaged, I hope this helps explain , I am more than just a doorman amd the girls and not just dancers they are human beings with the same emotions and needs and feeling we all have. Thanks Dave




This is a reasonable assumption unless you have actually worked in a club before.Originally Posted by FBR link=board=27;threadid=10209;start=msg125362#msg12 5362 date=1087764018
In the traditional sense (i.e. obviously with exceptions), customer's only get to see one side of a dancer- the one trying to make money and provide an entertaining and enlightening experience for them. When a customer falls in love with this imagery, it can be something that inspires those kinds of feelings.
An employee at the club more often gets to see the real person inside. The dancer is under no obligation or assumption to treat the doorman, bouncers or DJ's like a customer. While employees may see the glittered, showy, prancing dancer walking around all night- they also get to see the street clothes, occasionally teary eyed, walk to her car, early morning breakfast or give a ride home, vulnerable real person as well.
Everyone puts on a game face when playing the game. You can even see this with other careers and genders. A man that sells cellphone plans at the mall may be proper, professional, endearing at his countertop, but once he clocks out, he puts on the ripped jeans, T-shirt and grabs a beer and transforms into a different person.
It doesn't matter if you're somebody in this world, it rather matters you mean the whole world to somebody.
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