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    there is a girl that i like and only her and no one else. and i want to tell her that i like her and would want to take her out. but i was thinking if i tell her... she might be thinking i am just saying that cause im in a strip club and guys normally say that all the time. and i know i am a attracted guy. how do i know if she has a boyfriend? im just saying that i really like this stripper but she is at a strip club and i know that guys would do anything to pick up a stripper but i really care and i have that feeling inside of me. i know a lot of guys b.s. a lot but how can i separate myself from the rest of them? can anyone give me any advice on what to do, cause i dont. thanks.

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    Default Re:i really like this dancer and dont know what to do

    Well the worst thing you can do is ask her out. I know how ridiculous that may sound, but we get that all night every night. It's one of those things I go on autopilot for, that and asking me if I "work after hours". The answer to both is the same.

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    Default Re:i really like this dancer and dont know what to do

    why do you like her only her and no one else? In the strip club, what you see isn't always what you get.


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    Default Re:i really like this dancer and dont know what to do

    That "feeling inside you" is towards the glitter and the G-string under black lights, guy. Face it- if you've never spent any time in her living room, nor she in yours, you really have no CLUE what this woman is all about.

    You haven't seen the hair in curlers, in a robe, no makeup, grasping a box of Cheez-It's at 4am in the morning complaining about the ComCast bill and the rude bastard that came in at shift-change yet.

    If you're having feelings of "love" towards a dancer you've only known as a customer, you're most likely falling in love with the illusion they throw on when they clock in... nothing more.

    If she had the slightest bit of interest in you, you'd most definately know it. If you're unsure, then chances are there is nothing there and she's just doing her job. Give her props for being effective at it and move on.

    It doesn't matter if you're somebody in this world, it rather matters you mean the whole world to somebody.

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    Default Re:i really like this dancer and dont know what to do

    This is a shitty situation if she doesnt feel the same about you, but theres only one wy to find out. The problem with this is, some girls really are "nice" and "sweet" and this causes guys to develop feelings, when she is only doing her job. I should know. I lost an amazing regular because he started to get feelings for me. >sigh<
    She may not even be TRYING to get you to feel that way, but some girls TRUE personalities may be present, and this causes a conflict. For you, its about seeing her, and for her, its about you being a regular and spending money.

    If she DOES have feelings it is a different story, and as Bridgette mentioned, there is only one way to find out.

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    Default Re:i really like this dancer and dont know what to do

    Take money out of the equation or gradually reduce it and see how she feels about you.

    If you were a regular of mine who developed feelings for me.. I&#039;d be flattered however what you get at the strip club is only part of me. It isn&#039;t the real me.. only one aspect of my whole personality.

    I also usually have a "story" to go with my stripper-self hence what she has probably told you about herself may not be true as well.

    This isn&#039;t a win-win situation .... looking for love in a strip club isn&#039;t a good place to look. There are dancers that will take a chance and date customers however they aren&#039;t that common.

    The smart ones would keep it all business anyway.


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    Default Re:i really like this dancer and dont know what to do

    how do i know if she has a boyfriend?
    The only way to a womans heart is to first be her true friend.

    Maybe reading your own words can help you see.
    Her "friends"would know the answer to this question.
    Slow down,your in the initail lust phase right now.
    Put that thing away!! :o

    Ride the rainbow,enjoy the ride.
    Just dont expect a pot of gold at the end.

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