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    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/ind...est/t9230.html

    follow the link and read (or skim--it's rather long winded--sorry, I was venting) my last post in the thread. What do you guys think? Is he really after my sister? That's so freakin' nasty!!!!

    Anyway, I wrote him a nasty email saying :
    "ok....I really don't know what to think now.....

    if you have any nasty idea that you are going to go within 10 feet of my baby sister with the mindset that maybe you and she will hook up or whatever, you'll end up with your testicles floating down the Susquehanna. Do you have the slightest idea how sickeningly strange it is for you to get with me and then turn an eye in my sister's direction?! That turns my stomach!!! It's just fucking sick!!!!! If I'm wrong, and you seriously thought "oh hey, you were cool, maybe your sister and I can be friends and stuff and we could all hang out," then I apologize, I misunderstood. But what you said certainly didn't seem like that. Yes, I know, things are very easily misconstrued when chatting online--it happens to me a lot. But just what you were saying and how you were saying it.....*vomit*......*shiver*......if you meant it the way I think you did, I never would have come within 200 yards of you cuz that's just fucking creepy!

    I honestly apologize if I'm way off base......but it just had to be said"

    Any thoughts or suggestions? lol...probably not....my life is screwed up and there ain't a DAMN thing I can do about it!

    *crawling back into my little corner*
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    That is crazy....

    You are perfectly right....that guy is strange as hell...i would say you should cut off all contact with him for good....and keep your sister away from him.

    Im sorry about your car and how you feel that your life cant get any worse....I know the feeling....i've been there...several times. Its very hard....but it will change...you just have to start working on one thing at a time and get each part of your life changed for how you want it(if you try and change everythign at once it may seem impossible and actually make it harder). So just pick the most important things you want to change and start there in order of importance....

    Once you get a few things in your life under control...then all will be well.

    Hope everything works out for you.
    Stay away from that freak...you can do much better

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    Regardless of all the remaining drama in this tale of perplexity... one simple fact remains.

    He sucked in bed. There is no future here. Put him on ignore, change your cell number, whatever... game over.
    It doesn't matter if you're somebody in this world, it rather matters you mean the whole world to somebody.

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    Quote Originally Posted by polecat link=board=1;threadid=10308;start=msg125664#msg125 664 date=1087822104
    Regardless of all the remaining drama in this tale of perplexity... one simple fact remains.

    He sucked in bed. There is no future here. Put him on ignore, change your cell number, whatever... game over.
    LMFAO. PC extracted the important fact out of this mess. Definitely dis him.

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    Quote Originally Posted by erotictonic link=board=1;threadid=10308;start=msg125665#msg125 665 date=1087822341
    Quote Originally Posted by polecat link=board=1;threadid=10308;start=msg125664#msg125 664 date=1087822104
    Regardless of all the remaining drama in this tale of perplexity... one simple fact remains.

    He sucked in bed. There is no future here. Put him on ignore, change your cell number, whatever... game over.
    LMFAO. PC extracted the important fact out of this mess. Definitely dis him.


    You guys are too funny.

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    FWIW
    1. he sounded horrible, why even desire being withhim. Don't settle, find somwone else.
    but
    2. I think you are reading this wrong. I think his response was not necessarily referring to sis, but women in general. Read again. I think he said in response to your rather quick jump/assumption that he wasnted your sis (or any other women ) b/c she was hot and nothing else. He disagrees. But then says " a nice body is nice but I have to beable to talk to her" (about women in general, dispelling the notion that he is a guy who is only after what you are accusinghim of, but I don't read this as him saying that about your sis specifically. I think this is your insecurity, and reading into things that aren't there on this issue)

    me: you want her cuz she's a hot piece of ass
    him: um maybe
    him still: a nice body is nice
    him again: but I also need to be able to talk with her
    *this is where I'm getting seriously freaked the hell out--does he really fucking want my baby sister?!?!?!*
    ---skipping some convo----
    me: if you have any notion of hooking up with her, you'll be very disappointed
    him: that's your def
    him still: my def is hanging out

    I don't getthe def part? definition?

    Asking if she was single could also be to set up one of his buddies.

    That said, he doesn't sound all that cool, and if he was a bad lay why bother.

    Have you tried friendster or myspace. More fun, less meat market than match and otheres, more like social networking sites for friend than sex, although when you social network, sometime sex does occur. pm me if interested.
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    looks like I am too late. We'll see how he responds but read my post first. However, if you get a creepy vibe from this guy search elsewhere.
    They say there's a Heaven for those who await.
    Some say it's better but I say it ain't.
    I'd rather laugh with the sinners than cry with the saints...
    the sinners have much more fun.

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    LMAO....you guys are shallow! lol....there's more to life than good sex (then again, that's coming from me, a girl who doesn't anything about "good sex")! Yeah, we'll see how he responds to the email (he hasn't said peep yet).

    ATL...you're right though, I never thought of the possibility of him wanting to set her up....but then again, from that and previous conversations, I highly doubt that was his intention.
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    Quote Originally Posted by SCGirl link=board=1;threadid=10308;start=msg125741#msg125 741 date=1087835601
    LMAO....you guys are shallow! lol....there's more to life than good sex (then again, that's coming from me, a girl who doesn't anything about "good sex")!
    There is? ???

    I think you should learn about it

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    Wow... that's all I can say

    You need to take a drama free pill or something... My suggestion is to stop wasting all your energy on this guy... I am not sure what to say in regards to your sister...

    But sheesh, I hope that things get better for you... it all will and remember- everything happens for a reason, no matter how shitty things can get.


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    THERE IS NOTHING MORE IMPORTANT THAN GOOD SEX!!!!!!!
    Seriously this guy seems a bit strange(this is coming from me so consider the source!) If I were you I wouldn't waste my time on the fool. Oh yeah if I remember correctly I saw some of your pics in the gallery and you are NOT fat!Trust me I've been with fat and while you may think you are fat sister you ain't!

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    Quote Originally Posted by SCGirl link=board=1;threadid=10308;start=msg125741#msg125 741 date=1087835601
    LMAO....you guys are shallow! lol....there's more to life than good sex (then again, that's coming from me, a girl who doesn't anything about "good sex")! Yeah, we'll see how he responds to the email (he hasn't said peep yet).
    It's not shallow in the least bit.. it's realistic.

    Honestly, if you aren't looking for a relationship with this guy, then what are you looking for? Given everything else, this makes it clear "dump him" territory.

    If you are indeed looking for a relationship, if you are not sexually compatible, then one or the other will stray/cheat or at least be heavily tempted to do so down the road. This isn't something two people should have to go through.

    So yes- because this guy doesn't toot your horn between the sheets, it's high time to get out of there. Of course relationships aren't all about sex- but as it is an important component of intimacy, and one you can clearly identify as 'pass' or 'fail', this guy has scored a big 'fail' - so hop on out of there ASAP.
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    It's not shallow in the least bit.. it's realistic.
    Amen.
    Idealism is fine, but as it approaches reality, the costs become prohibitive.

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    ok...I agree that it's true that if you aren't compatible in bed you'll have a damn hard time (if not impossible) trying to make it work. However, I don't think one night constitutes a serious "go at it." People can have bad nights. And I can certainly say part of why it was so bad is that I was seriously uncomfortable--I knew I was in over my head already. I've never had sex outside of a serious relationship before. It kinda freaked me out--the whole thing just went way too fast for me. I mean, for god's sake, there wasn't any sexual tension, any teasing, any foreplay.....I was in the door and ten minutes later, he drags me into the shower! Not exactly what I would call a hot date. Geez....at least I could have gotten a movie or dinner or SOMETHING first!!!! lol
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    UPDATE!!!! I heard back from him.....he's cowering in a corner covering his balls and shaking in fear....LMAO...I love it when I have that effect on guys! But yeah, he says that he just meant that he'd love to go hang out and have two new friends, that's all. LOL....I think I forgot to take my anti-anxiety meds yesterday....that could totally have contributed to the whole situation. Now I feel like an asshole. I apologized to him and everything but he must think I'm a complete psycho....then again, he's probably right....I AM psycho!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by SCGirl link=board=1;threadid=10308;start=msg125898#msg125 898 date=1087857463
    ok...I agree that it's true that if you aren't compatible in bed you'll have a damn hard time (if not impossible) trying to make it work. However, I don't think one night constitutes a serious "go at it." People can have bad nights. And I can certainly say part of why it was so bad is that I was seriously uncomfortable--I knew I was in over my head already. I've never had sex outside of a serious relationship before. It kinda freaked me out--the whole thing just went way too fast for me. I mean, for god's sake, there wasn't any sexual tension, any teasing, any foreplay.....I was in the door and ten minutes later, he drags me into the shower! Not exactly what I would call a hot date. Geez....at least I could have gotten a movie or dinner or SOMETHING first!!!! lol
    Sex is hardly ever good the first time you have it with someone.... although I have had a few steamy one-nighters. Ummm, girl, you did need to bond a bit beforehand. In the shower in 10 min. IS a bit quick..... sortof leads to mechanical sex. I just feel like he did nothing to try to satisfy you.... it was all about him. And he came in 1.5 seconds.... been there and done that.... I walked out of there and never went back. lol. Some guys just come so fast it totally turns me off... he came and i grabbed my clothes and ran! I didn't even care about getting off then lol.

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    LOL...well, sadly, one thing WAS actually satisfying about the whole thing...he actually came! For the last 2 YEARS that I was with my bf, I couldn't get him off no matter WHAT...and lemme tell ya, I tried everything I could think of! THAT really hurts a girls ego (I mean, for god's sake, aren't guys just SUPPOSED to cum?! Even if the sex isn't mind blowing?!). I was really starting to think I was a MAJOR chump. At least I felt wanted again....well sort of....I bet he would have cum from humping his pillow at that point....but still....it was SOMETHING....
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