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    Hi, I am new to this board. I have been dancing now for about 6 months and need all the advice I can get! I am somewhat shy and trying to get out of this shyness mode. I have no problem with showing my body but the things though that are working against me is my shyness and the fact that I am not comfortable onstage with my dancing, I feel like I still have no clue what I am doing and I am very self conscious. I feel like alot of people are laughing at me and I look like an idiot! And wearing these damned 6-inch heels does not help matters any I practice walking in them but still they hurt me and I feel like I am walking on stilts! LOL

    The positive points about this is that makes me feel good about myself and this job is that I am told by alot of people every night how beautiful I am, that I have a beautiful body, that I am one of the prettiest girls in the club, etc, etc and then I wonder why I am not making any money! I know attitude and confidence has alot to do with it, but I need to figure out a way to make this work for me and to feel more positive/confident in what I am doing. Any advice would be appreciated. Also where I work there is a drink hustle, so we have to make a drink comission or the owner of the club gets pissed about this. Any advice would be appreciated. I really need ALOT of help here!

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    The best advice I can give you is to READ everything that interests you on this board. If you think a topic might pertain to you, then check it out. There is SO much helpful information at SW....best of luck.

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    Have you, at least, tried searching thru the various threads (and I mean going past the first two pages) of the Newbie Board ???

    I agree with MissTaylor .... there is a wealth of information here at StripperWeb that you are BOUND to come across someone in a similiar situation.

    BTW - This post is better suited (and you'll get better responses) to the Newbie Board. This is the HUSTLE HUT.

    I just wanted to repeat that you'll be amazed at what you find if you take the time to go through the various boards. Even the older threads (after the first two pages) have alot of usefulness.


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    I saw a post by another dancer a short time ago where she said she learned to walk in her shoes by vacuuming in them. Sounds pretty brilliant to me. If I ever begin cross dressing, I am definitely going to try it.

    Like anything else in life, your shyness will slowly fade away as you become more experienced. For now, sell the "new dancer" to the customers. Guys love a newbie.

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    Hey congratulations on dancing!

    This sounds weird, but you need to think about why you are in the club. Ca$h.

    Your not shy, your taking your clothes off in public for gods sake. Your just distracted!

    Try some of these tactics:

    Deprive yourself of phone calls to your friends, and if you do, keep it short. Discontect from the outside world! NEVER CALL YOUR BOYFRIEND, UNLESS HE IS YOUR RIDE. Even then, you need to get your own car, or stop letting him borrow yours.

    Don't sit with the rest of the dancers and watch because your not making any money. Go sit with some guy and just ask him how his day went. BUT DON'T SIT FOR MORE THAN THREE SONGS! He'll either ask you for a dance, or right before you get up, just ask him what he wants to do? Seriously. If his says no to a dance, move on, come back later.

    As for drinks, hook up with a waitress, give her five bucks (for the night) and tell her to come up and ask the guys you are sitting with if he wants to buy you a drink.

    You'll usually get the drink, she will get a tip, and you are more than likely to get several dances out of the deal. Everybody's happy.





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