Hi, I am new to this board. I have been dancing now for about 6 months and need all the advice I can get! I am somewhat shy and trying to get out of this shyness mode. I have no problem with showing my body but the things though that are working against me is my shyness and the fact that I am not comfortable onstage with my dancing, I feel like I still have no clue what I am doing and I am very self conscious. I feel like alot of people are laughing at me and I look like an idiot! And wearing these damned 6-inch heels does not help matters any I practice walking in them but still they hurt me and I feel like I am walking on stilts! LOL
The positive points about this is that makes me feel good about myself and this job is that I am told by alot of people every night how beautiful I am, that I have a beautiful body, that I am one of the prettiest girls in the club, etc, etc and then I wonder why I am not making any money! I know attitude and confidence has alot to do with it, but I need to figure out a way to make this work for me and to feel more positive/confident in what I am doing. Any advice would be appreciated. Also where I work there is a drink hustle, so we have to make a drink comission or the owner of the club gets pissed about this. Any advice would be appreciated. I really need ALOT of help here!


Hi, I am new to this board. I have been dancing now for about 6 months and need all the advice I can get! I am somewhat shy and trying to get out of this shyness mode. I have no problem with showing my body but the things though that are working against me is my shyness and the fact that I am not comfortable onstage with my dancing, I feel like I still have no clue what I am doing and I am very self conscious. I feel like alot of people are laughing at me and I look like an idiot! And wearing these damned 6-inch heels does not help matters any I practice walking in them but still they hurt me and I feel like I am walking on stilts! LOL
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