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    Default I need to vent. Seriously. Unimportant Rant.

    I've been stripping for about two months now, and I don't tell many people. I've been really evasive about telling people where I work, and when it comes down to lying I honestly don't want to. There's nothing wrong with what I do, but I know a lot of people will give me shit/start rumors about me or take it out on my boyfriend.
    So here's the situation. My boyfriend has this "friend" that is CONSTANTLY trying to get dirt on me and make me look shadey. (seriously, he's started two rumors about me sleeping with varoius people in the last four months) What he doesn't realize is that me and my boyfriend love eachother as more than just lifemates, but bestfriends. I can talk to him about ANYTHING, and he can talk to me about anything. I tell him everything. (he even knows that I don't have a problem with him being at my work and has waited inside while i finish my shift before)
    So his friend, Ronnie and roommate, Tom, FINALLY figured out where I work (after two months of being evasive with EVERYONE, leaving for work at 8:45 pm to come home with heavy makeup on at 3:30 am with $300.00 in cash? Not to mention leaving garters out on the floor, six inch heels in my open book bag, and a new facination with baby wipes)....
    And you know what they think? THAT I DIDN'T FUCKING TELL MY BOYFRIEND. They also *must* think that my boyfriend is the stupidest person in the world for not figuring it out after two months of practically living together. (a month of that my car was in the shop so I was using his or my roommates or they were taking me to work....) fuckers. So they've been making all these comments to him ("Strippers are only coke heads or prostitutes," "Every stripper cheats on her boyfriend") trying to warn him against me.
    Then Ronnie gets this BRILLIANT idea. Like a good friend he decided to fucking NOT tell him what I'm doing and instead try to get him to go to my club with them while I was working to EXPOSE ME FOR THE WHORE I AM. Who the fuck do they think they are?? So they got in another of his friends in on it and instead that guy was a real friend and decided to tell my boyfriend. of course when he did my boyfriend was like, "yeah, I know. we talked about it before she started doing it." he had to explain to him why he was okay with it and all that.

    since then ronnie hasn't said anything to my boyfriend, neither has his roommate. I just want to know where the fuck these guys get off. Hypocritcal assholes.

    The mother of Tom's baby is a stripper (ex-coke head) and he's constantly going to strip clubs trying to get a stripper's number (and the one time he did he was fucking ecstatic about it). Ronnie just got done paying for his ex's abortion because he keeps on stringing her along while he's fucking other people. They're womanizing assholes, and the think every girl is out to make every guy miserable.

    I've had sex with three people my entire life. I gaurentee that they have done over that since january.

    ugh. sorry this is so spastic but i really needed a place to rant. thanks for listening.

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    Guys are dogs. They wanna do you and can't so they trash ya.

    In defense of guys...... MANY Dancers are powder heads who constantly cheat on thier significant others. MANY dancers have a deep psychological problems with men in general.

    It doesn't sound like these apply to YOU ....yet. Two months isn't long enough though. Write this letter after Two years of dancing and see how your outlook changes.

    Trying to stay sane in an insane world is difficult ...Good luck and don't let the lame ass friends get to ya .... they really are just pissed cause they can't hit it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by DJ_WuLf link=board=27;threadid=10483;start=msg128672#msg12 8672 date=1088278155
    Guys are dogs. They wanna do you and can't so they trash ya.

    YUP.........DJ is so so right. Aaaaand, they hate to see what you and your boyfriend have....they sound worse than bitches.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DJ_WuLf link=board=27;threadid=10483;start=msg128672#msg12 8672 date=1088278155

    In defense of guys...... MANY Dancers are powder heads who constantly cheat on thier significant others.
    true, but these guys have some friends (male) that do coke, and they have never been completely faithful to one girl they've been with.

    Thanks for the encouraging words....

    I guess the question now is why does my boyfriend hang out with these guys?? Something I'll never understand, I guess.

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    Yes these guys are morons! They look at a stripper and stereotype them which is just plain ignorant. If you want you could talk to them about this and show them you are far from these accusations. It could change their view on things but with some people its not even worth the try. Just look at yourself as more mature than they are. Why is your beau hanging with these dumbasses? I have no idea but it cant be good. I know its not right to say this but you are who you hang with. Ive had alot of instances where this phrase sat appropriately but there have been times where it didnt apply to certain people. I think guys like this are ridiculous... they are prolly just jealous.
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    First off, I would like to say that it's wonderful that both you and your boyfriend are comfortable with your job and i wish you luck.(I too am a new dancer of 2 months)I also would like to add that it is great that your boyfriend does not fall into these pathetic traps that his"friends" are trying to set for him. I had a lot of experiance with friends who were pissed they had no girl to be with and unfortunately messed my relationship up ..because MY then boyfriend wasnt man enough to look past it.Anyway i would like to suggest that you tell your boyfriend how this hurts you and see what he can do. As your boyfriend, i feel he has the obligation to stick up for his girlfriend and warn them to lay off(esp since you have done nothing but be a nice supportive girlfriend!) real friends respect their friends decisions on who to date. I feel its time he evaluates who his real friends are because its not fair to you.
    He should tell them to back off and stay out of your lives for good if they want to continue to make unnecessary trouble. I hope all goes well and pices how r u doing girl? If you read this im me so we can catch up !

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    I say we kick the roomates asses at recess,and pee in their lunchbox thermoses.

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    If they don't pay your bills or contribute to your household,who gives a rat's *ss what these people think!
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    And you know what they think? THAT I DIDN'T FUCKING TELL MY BOYFRIEND.
    Ah! That happened to me too! My bf's best friend knew I used to dance, but he didn't know I'd started again. So one weekend the bf is partying out of town and I'm at work, and the best friend sees me. He calls my boyfriend, all serious "man we have to talk", and stages a big sit-down intervention: "I have bad news...Scarlett is stripping again". Lmfao!

    I was really mad at the time (as if I'd hide it from my bf of two years!), but I guess it just shows he has friends who care about him...I guess...

    Anyways, just ignore these losers. They're likely doing nothing but alienating themselves from your boyfriend by acting like this...let them dig their own graves.

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    Default Re:I need to vent. Seriously. Unimportant Rant.

    You know what I think is the saddest part about all of this? Is that their lives are so full of adventure and spice that they actually had time to snoop around and dig into your personal life.

    Some guys who are jealous would do that...but, that doesn't make them a friend. Hopefully your boyfriend will wise up and kick them to the curb when the lease is up. Maybe they are a little "shook up" because you are now seriously dating their friend and they have gotten the "brush off" in favor of you. Either way...it's just not acceptable behavior. Personally, I think you just need to ignore them. And, I think that the way your boyfriend handled the situation was admirable.

    Forget about these guys and let them live their own lives. If their lucky, they'll learn their lesson soon enough.

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    grrrrrrrr I hate guys like that, but it's good to know you and your bf have such a loving healthy relationship and thats all that should matter
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    Quote Originally Posted by Pisces3x3 link=board=27;threadid=10483;start=msg128765#msg12 8765 date=1088288861
    Why is your beau hanging with these dumbasses? I have no idea but it cant be good. I know its not right to say this but you are who you hang with. Ive had alot of instances where this phrase sat appropriately but there have been times where it didnt apply to certain people. I think guys like this are ridiculous...
    Over time you tend to become more like the people you hang out with. This is not a good "friends and family" situation. Voodoo, I'd be very surprised if your relationship lasts another year.


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    Quote Originally Posted by DJ_WuLf link=board=27;threadid=10483;start=msg128672#msg12 8672 date=1088278155
    Guys are dogs. They wanna do you and can't so they trash ya.
    This is absolutely 100% true.

    In defense of guys...... MANY Dancers are powder heads who constantly cheat on thier significant others. MANY dancers have a deep psychological problems with men in general.

    It doesn't sound like these apply to YOU ....yet. Two months isn't long enough though. Write this letter after Two years of dancing and see how your outlook changes.

    Trying to stay sane in an insane world is difficult ...Good luck
    MANY women who aren't dancers are also powder heads (or alcoholics or addicts of some kind) who constantly cheat on their SOs or just sleep around in general. That has nothing to do with dancing (or not) and from what I've seen many women are drawn to dancing because of the quick cash aspect which makes it easy to live that party lifestyle. (We are ALL drawn to it for the $$, but we want the $$ for different reasons.) IMO a woman either has that partygirl tendency or she doesn't, dancing doesn't make her that way, it just makes it easier to be that way.


    don't let the lame ass friends get to ya .... they really are just pissed cause they can't hit it.
    Right on. Just laugh at the stupid morons every time they say or do something stupid. From the sound of it, you'll be laughing constantly!

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    Quote Originally Posted by DJ_WuLf link=board=27;threadid=10483;start=msg128672#msg12 8672 date=1088278155
    Guys are dogs. They wanna do you and can't so they trash ya.

    In defense of guys...... MANY Dancers are powder heads who constantly cheat on thier significant others. MANY dancers have a deep psychological problems with men in general.

    It doesn't sound like these apply to YOU ....yet. Two months isn't long enough though. Write this letter after Two years of dancing and see how your outlook changes.

    Trying to stay sane in an insane world is difficult ...Good luck and don't let the lame ass friends get to ya .... they really are just pissed cause they can't hit it.
    Yeah, it's true that a lot of guys are dogs...but certainly not most of them. There are a LOT of men who don't go into strip clubs when the have a S.O., see prostitutes, cheat on their S.O., take good care of their children, etc. Usually, we as women end up with the kind of man we THINK we deserve and are willing to put up with. If someone thinks they deserve the best and is unwilling to settle for less...chances are they are going to find that in someone out there.

    And really...ugh...MANY DANCERS DON'T cheat on their S.O. or do drugs. I'd say that the percantage of strippers that do drugs is proportional to just about any other industry or profession. A lot of people period do drugs nowadays....please stop trying to perpetuate this stereotype of the typical stripper drug addict...it really pisses me off. And the same thing goes for the cheating...I'd wager to say that just as many strippers cheat on their S.O. as do bank tellers, grocery store clerks, doctors, lawyers, etc. Whether or not someone has a propensity to cheat has NOTHING TO DO with their profession...ugh

    And again...here we go with the "strippers have deep psychological issues with men" stereotype. The percentage of messed up in the head strippers is probably also proportional to many other industries in this nation...we have a lot of messed up in the head PEOPLE (not just women) in this country...ugh....congrats...you've now just about covered every false Adult Industry stereotype in only one post!


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    Quote Originally Posted by scarlett_vancouver link=board=27;threadid=10483;start=msg129040#msg12 9040 date=1088337869
    let them dig their own graves.
    yeah, they aren't going to grow up anytime soon so I'm just going to distance myself from them. I'm not going to hint at or tell him who to become friends with, he'll just have to decide for himself. I have talked to him about these guys being dumbasses, but I don't want him to have to be defensive about it. They're already in the process of destroying their ties with him. Yesterday one of them told him he was wipped because he's moving in with me in August. Fucking retards. if only they could just be happy for him....

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    Why is your beau hanging with these dumbasses? I have no idea but it cant be good. I know its not right to say this but you are who you hang with.
    A question that deserves an answer, clearly.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BigGreenMnM link=board=27;threadid=10483;start=msg128853#msg12 8853 date=1088302804
    I say we kick the roomates asses at recess,and pee in their lunchbox thermoses.
    Yeah, what BigGreen said!!


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    It just sounds very highschool.
    and if were going there,im on the monkey bars doing bong hits behind the gym and the boyfriend and friends are killing my buzz.

    She needs to move on to better things.IMO

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