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    Quote Originally Posted by Emily
    "how about instead of buying me a drink, you treat yourself to a dance"
    I think that's brilliant. Short and sweet, it reminds the guy what the club is there for (fantasy, not actual hooking up), and also puts the focus back on his desire (a good time) in a non-threatening way ("treat yourself... go on, you're worth it, live a little..."). Really smart.

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    Some great ideas here, I'm sure to try them myself!

    I recently had a customer offer to buy me a drink--which we must accept, though not necessarily finish--only to say JUST AFTER it arrived, "Just let me say now that I appreciate you having a drink with me, but I'm really not interested in a dance. I won't waste any more of your time, so if you want to go and work the room I'll understand." With that, he tipped me $10. Now, the drink he bought cost $7.25, the cheapest drink we offer. If he had told me before ordering that he wasn't interested in a dance, I could have explained that he was less than $3.00 away from a dance, and HE'D get to enjoy it! What's more, as I finished my drink and excused myself, he tipped me another $5! He'd be AHEAD of the game if he bought a dance! I can only think he was someone's regular, and a dance was not an option yet he knows how the system works. Ah, well, can't complain.

    Oh, and the "isn't this a dating service?" type, , I simply reply, "You're very sweet, and I thank you for your offer, but I must decline." If they push it, I keep replying, "I thank you for your offer, but I must decline."

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