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    So ladies, I am considering bringing my wifey to a club (she has expressed a genuine curiosity), and while I don't go every week or even on a regular a basis, I go a few times a year (usually business travel, with co-workers). However, I recently checked out the Christie's Cabaret in Tempe AZ, and enjoyed it. Nice, clean, inexpensive, good talent, etc...

    Was looking for suggestions on how I can prepare wifey for experience, and what she might expect in terms of a lap dance? Do the ladies tend to steer clear of the "couple", or is it like any other customer?

    Lastly, if any of you all work there, it might be easier if I knew when you might be there, and would bring her in, that way, easier to break ice, (she would not know I prearranged this), does that make sense? Just an idea.

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    Uh...dude. If she has a genuine curiosity, then why would you need to "break the ice" or prepare? Each place is different.....rules and attitudes about lap dances are different... Just take her in.

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    Quote Originally Posted by phxazguy link=board=8;threadid=10708;start=msg132389#msg132 389 date=1088818780
    So ladies, I am considering bringing my wifey to a club (she has expressed a genuine curiosity), and while I don't go every week or even on a regular a basis, I go a few times a year (usually business travel, with co-workers). However, I recently checked out the Christie's Cabaret in Tempe AZ, and enjoyed it. Nice, clean, inexpensive, good talent, etc...

    Was looking for suggestions on how I can prepare wifey for experience, and what she might expect in terms of a lap dance? Do the ladies tend to steer clear of the "couple", or is it like any other customer?

    Lastly, if any of you all work there, it might be easier if I knew when you might be there, and would bring her in, that way, easier to break ice, (she would not know I prearranged this), does that make sense? Just an idea.

    thanks

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    Just make sure your wife honestly wants to go to the club herslf, not because she feels like she needs to in order to win points with you......... as long as she is comfortable and open to the idea than I am sure she will have a lot of fun. I always try to make women feel more comforable since sometimes it can be a little bit intimidating. Just remind her to have fun, supply her with the cash, and enjoy your SC trip!!!

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    Well I didn't work at the one in AZ, I worked at the one in Nashville, TN. christie's is a good club to take your wife to. Some girls still don't like the thought of a woman who's not a dancer on their turf, but some of them are really nice about it. I personally like haveing women in my club. It takes more of the focus off of the guys are doing something wrong by being there. Not to mention some of my best dances(lap) have been with women. I would take her there, and tell her to be the one to pick someone out. That way there is less pressure on her, and more of the ball is in her court. And let her make the move, don't force her into tipping, or dances. It might turn ulgy. Let her make the moves, and try going on a week day not as much on a weekend if you can. Through the week most girls have more of a chance to sit down and talk to the customers, as opposed to weekends where it's all crazy. Hope you two have lots of fun.
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    All good ideas (for the most part,,,$20???), I think I will take her sometime this month, maybe as part of an "after dinner drink" type of thing....see you all there!!

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    Im chuckling that you called her the "wifey" and that you didnt get jumped on

    As far as her curiosity, its only going to be satisfied if you take her to the club. If I were in your situation and faced with the decision, it wouldnt give me wood but I think most guys like the girl-girl thing.

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    Why would he get jumpped on for that FBR? My hubby calls me the wifey all the time. I just think it&#039;s sweet.

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    LOL Well, to me its right up there with calling her "the little woman" but I guess if the ladies dont mind its no skin off me.

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    I worked at the Christie&#039;s in Phoenix. Both of the valley Christie&#039;s would be fine to take your wife to.

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    If she is not willing or not an open minded person then there probably is no " breaking the ice. Do you have friends who are couples that might want to join you? Sometimes that helps and usually the "wifey" will relax more and have more fun with it.

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    yes we have friends, but, none that she would be comfortable going to a strip club with....we still have not managed to make it to a club. Im thinking next time Im in Vegas (and she joins me), that maybe, then she check a club out. She mentioned something about Christies being "to close to home."

    Not big deal either way, when she is ready, Im sure she say, "lets go."

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    Make sure it&#039;s her own curiosity and not because she wants to see what you&#039;re up to whenever you go in. I see lots of guys go in there with thier girl who are watching just for that purpose and then really get it when they go home.


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    thanks, good advice, I don&#039;t go enough for her to even wonder about that type of thing, but I will keep it in mind.

    phx

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    I think you&#039;re on thin ice if you plan on ever going to an SC again without her. On the broader issue of women customers, something we should all consider is this: I think a major reason that the strip club industry has grown over the past couple of decades is because it&#039;s just about the only place left where guys can still be guys in the locker room sense. I&#039;m old enough to remember when lots of places were men only - including the local YMCA, some local bars, the golf course, men&#039;s clubs - but women have invaded them all. People, men and women alike, need a place where they can get away from the SO for awhile and let their hair down. Women have lots of places, including the hairdresser&#039;s, the spa, the tea room. At my gym there&#039;s a women-only workout room (but none for the men.) There&#039;s even a new women-only gym nearby. But just about the only place left that&#039;s for men is the strip club. Folks, do us all a favor and let&#039;s keep it that way. Women customers don&#039;t belong in a strip club.
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    Quote Originally Posted by FONDL link=board=8;threadid=10708;start=msg140232#msg140 232 date=1090253005
    I think you&#039;re on thin ice if you plan on ever going to an SC again without her. On the broader issue of women customers, something we should all consider is this: I think a major reason that the strip club industry has grown over the past couple of decades is because it&#039;s just about the only place left where guys can still be guys in the locker room sense. I&#039;m old enough to remember when lots of places were men only - including the local YMCA, some local bars, the golf course, men&#039;s clubs - but women have invaded them all. People, men and women alike, need a place where they can get away from the SO for awhile and let their hair down. Women have lots of places, including the hairdresser&#039;s, the spa, the tea room. At my gym there&#039;s a women-only workout room (but none for the men.) There&#039;s even a new women-only gym nearby. But just about the only place left that&#039;s for men is the strip club. Folks, do us all a favor and let&#039;s keep it that way. Women customers don&#039;t belong in a strip club.
    I didn&#039;t realize women weren&#039;t welcome so many places.
    Hmm... come to think of it, my hairdresser&#039;s have been invaded by men, my spa offers "manly" facials and pedicures and (OMG) whenever I&#039;m at Victoria&#039;s Secret there is always a man in there too! Well damn, someone should dust off those segregation laws...



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    awesome point...

    I am a guy&#039;s guy most of the time...but I love takin my wife to the SC.

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    I&#039;m not suggesting that the old ways were better. I like the fact that a lot of the old smokey bars have become fancy cocktail lounges, and that gyms are much cleaner and fancier and often have a little eye candy walking around (it&#039;s especially fun to try to guess which ones are strippers.) But I kind of miss the atmosphere of the smelly old YMCA I used to go to. And they may not ever tell you, but I&#039;ve yet to meet a golfer who doesn&#039;t bitch about women on the golf course. I just think there ought to be a few places that are strictly guy places or strictly girl places. You won&#039;t see me at the hairdresser&#039;s or spa anytime soon. Although when I bought that spa gift certificate for the wife the girl at the door was really hot, so maybe I should look into it.
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    you feel wemon have invaded you'r space?

    You want to be with men and men alone? hummmm

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katharine
    you feel wemon have invaded you'r space?

    You want to be with men and men alone? hummmm

    Makes a Girl wonder about MEN LIKE YOURSELF...."winks"
    heeheeheehee

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    Quote Originally Posted by FONDL
    I think you're on thin ice if you plan on ever going to an SC again without her. On the broader issue of women customers, something we should all consider is this: I think a major reason that the strip club industry has grown over the past couple of decades is because it's just about the only place left where guys can still be guys in the locker room sense. I'm old enough to remember when lots of places were men only - including the local YMCA, some local bars, the golf course, men's clubs - but women have invaded them all. People, men and women alike, need a place where they can get away from the SO for awhile and let their hair down. Women have lots of places, including the hairdresser's, the spa, the tea room. At my gym there's a women-only workout room (but none for the men.) There's even a new women-only gym nearby. But just about the only place left that's for men is the strip club. Folks, do us all a favor and let's keep it that way. Women customers don't belong in a strip club.
    Quote Originally Posted by FONDL
    I'm not suggesting that the old ways were better. I like the fact that a lot of the old smokey bars have become fancy cocktail lounges, and that gyms are much cleaner and fancier and often have a little eye candy walking around (it's especially fun to try to guess which ones are strippers.) But I kind of miss the atmosphere of the smelly old YMCA I used to go to. And they may not ever tell you, but I've yet to meet a golfer who doesn't bitch about women on the golf course. I just think there ought to be a few places that are strictly guy places or strictly girl places. You won't see me at the hairdresser's or spa anytime soon. Although when I bought that spa gift certificate for the wife the girl at the door was really hot, so maybe I should look into it.
    What a chauvanistic crock of shit!Maybe you would like it if I took my wife out of the strip club and put her back where she belongs, barefoot, preggo and in the kitchen?
    I enjoy goin to sc's with the wife, in fact I enjoy it more now that she is a dnacer than I did when she wasn't one...I honestly don't see how a couple or female customers impedes ANYONES fun at a sc and it boggles my mind that in this day and age people still have the mindset that women have their place and so do men...yadda yadda yadda

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    A word of caution - stall a bit and have at least a couple of "heart-to-heart" discussions with her first about what's going on here, etc. I've had the unpleasant experience of taking this kind of expression of interest as "genuine," only to find that she didn't know herself as well as she thought she did such that "curiosity killed the cat."
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    sorry jay

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    Quote Originally Posted by FONDL
    I think you're on thin ice if you plan on ever going to an SC again without her. On the broader issue of women customers, something we should all consider is this: I think a major reason that the strip club industry has grown over the past couple of decades is because it's just about the only place left where guys can still be guys in the locker room sense. I'm old enough to remember when lots of places were men only - including the local YMCA, some local bars, the golf course, men's clubs - but women have invaded them all. People, men and women alike, need a place where they can get away from the SO for awhile and let their hair down. Women have lots of places, including the hairdresser's, the spa, the tea room. At my gym there's a women-only workout room (but none for the men.) There's even a new women-only gym nearby. But just about the only place left that's for men is the strip club. Folks, do us all a favor and let's keep it that way. Women customers don't belong in a strip club.
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    LOL, its a lovely place!

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