
Originally Posted by
polecat link=board=8;threadid=10745;start=msg133933#msg133 933 date=1089146868
How about all the other non-aggressive "Give me a call anytime" guys that you DID throw their cell number out anyways? Unaggressive doormats handing out non-committal cell numbers in stripclubs are not uncommon or a new thing. There was something special about that one guy and I'm betting it wasnt just the lack of aggressiveness. I'm also betting you wanted him to give you his number prior, unlike 'all the others'...
Please excuse the confusion, as we were saying the same thing. I didn't intend to give anyone hope! I live in this world and I tend to know how the story goes. All I meant was what you said - not that I like him because he was more passive about it, but that I liked him and because he was not aggressive, I gave him a call. Everything else equal, and I am interested in him - if he is agressive about seeing me outside of the club, I don't even consider it.
When a guy tries to see us outside of work, we tend to automatically write him off because it shows that is what he came for. As someone explained it, its using the SC as a social arena, not as a way to pass a few hours and have fun.
It is supposed to be a place where men come to enjoy themselves for a few. We aren't selling sex and we aren't selling girlfriends - we are selling fantasies. Sorry, but that's all that is on the menu. When customers start trying to date girls, it goes from a diversion to a pick-up. He gets rejected. We stop making money. No one is having any fun anymore!!!
There are plenty of people that I enjoy hanging out with in the club, and that all goes to shit when they start asking me out because I have to tell them no. If men would just use the club as what it is - an bar full of naked women, there to *entertain* you - instead of a singles club, I think that they would enjoy the experience a lot more. And while I am not there to enjoy the experience, so my need isn't as high on the priority list, that doesn't mean that I don't enjoy people. When the dancer is having fun, everyone else is having more fun, and I would sure as hell have a lot more fun if I didn't have to explain to 15 guys a night that I am not meeting them anywhere.
Whew! That turned into a rant. Sorry guys!
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