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    Ok, I should have started this thread after I got home from work Sat night, but I was still in awe about the day. So here goes, and please tell me if I'm the only one or not that's had a day like this.

    I got to work and everything was going good for about an hour, then I'm in the dressing room after a private dance getting ready for the stage. One of the new girls that works with me asked me and the housemom a question. I don't mind answering some of them if they aren't obvious. Hers was just stupid.

    She asks "I just went and peepee'd, should I change my tampon 'cause I pee'd on in?"

    I was like "Huh?"

    She said "I just used the bathroom, pee'd and now do I have to change my tampon cause it got pee all over it?"

    I said "Well did you just pee on it before you put it in or did some pee get on the string?"

    She goes "No, my string is cut, and I got pee all over it, and it's already in.

    I say "So how would you get pee all over it?"

    She says "Well you know, cause your pee comes out of the same hole your blood comes out of"

    I say "WTF? Are you serious?"

    She says" yeah, doesn't it?"

    So, by now I'm all "WTF?" and I ask her, "Did you have anatomy class in H.S.?"

    She says "Yes, but I didn't pay attention"

    I say " Then how the fuck can you masterbate?"

    She says "What does that have to do with it?"

    I say "Hunny, if you think you piss out of your pussy, it's a valid question"

    She says, "But I do, I have seen myself do it before"

    I say " Do you go to public school?"

    she says "Yes, why?"

    I look over at housemom, who looks like she's about to catch flies with her mouth(jaw on the floor), and say"See? That's why I don't want my kids going to public school!"

    Then I proceed to strip down and teach her anatomy class. "Look hun, this is your clit, this is your urethra(where you pee from), this is your vagina,(where you bleed from), this is your.......you guys get the point.
    What I can not understand is this girl is 19 yrs old, and she dosen't know this shit. I mean if she was like 12 or so, I could understand, but 19! WTF? I mean seriously, how can she really masterbate? Has she never seen an OB/GYN?

    After that I had a guy who I asked for a dance, and he said in 10min, come back. So I did(I wish I hadn't). I asked him again, he asks how much. I tell him $30.

    He says "I'm from Nashville"

    I say "Well Christie's is $35 a dance, so you save $5"

    He says "I go to NY , and go to Score's all the time"

    I say "Well this is your lucky day then, you won't have to spent $1500 on a VIP here, remember it's only $30 per dance"

    He says " See this? (pulls out his car keys)

    I say "Yeah, and.....?"

    He says "that's a $50,000 car there, I don't have to worry about spending $1500 at Scores"

    I say "Then $30 should be small time to you"

    He says " In 6 yrs I can retire, I'm an investment banker, and I make more money in one year that you will in 5"

    So I say "Whatever hun, I have already retired 2 times in my life, and your car does not impress me. Things like that just don't"

    He says "Whatever, that's just something people who have nothing say cause they are jealous of the people who do have"

    I was pissed by this time "OK whatever hun, just to let you know, my fiancee owns this club(so much BS these next few lines), he's worth 14 mil himself, I have around 4 mil of my own, and I get on average $350,000 per year from my trust fund. So before you go spouting off at the mouth about thingS which you will never know, you better try to find out who the real dogs are!"

    note: I am NOT engaged to the owner, I'm married(6yrs now), I am NOT worth 4mil, and I do NOT have a trust fund. Just to set the record straight.

    So by now, I'm pissed off and then I have to go onstage, he comes up ther and round 2 starts.

    He says " Well, I wanna tip you so can you give me change for this one?"

    I say "Boy, you better back the fuck off, you will be removed from this bar, if you can not act like the gentleman you claim to be."

    He says "And let me guess you'rew going to do it right?"

    I say "No, but he will"(pointing to the bouncer)

    He says "Yeah right, and why should I worry about him?"

    I say "You shouldn't if you have good medical coverage"

    Then the guy right beside him stands up, and says" Hun, c'mere"

    I say "Ok sure baby", and start dancing

    He says(guy 2), "No, hun I just want you to take this"
    and sticks a $20 in my hand

    I say "Why thank you very much, that is so kind of you"

    He says(#2 still) "Hun, I wish I could give you more, but that's all I can do. But you need to know that you are worth so much more, and guys like this asshole over here(pointing to guys #1)are not even worthy to grace your presence"

    I almost start crying, cause he was so sincere, and say"Well that's why some men are gentlemen, and some are dipshits"

    Guy 2 says "I couldn't have said it better myself"

    Guy 1 is standing ther looking around like 'I can't believe he they said that about me.'

    So, after this I get off stage, and tell the bouncer who says, OK, he's gone, and barred the guy for life. I mean took his pic and everything, LOL! But I don't feel bad at all, when I went to the dressing room, all the girls were talking about how much of dick he was anyway, he didn't even buy any drinks or tip anybody.

    But that's about it for my Sat. Sorry to rant like a fiend there, but I just had to get it all out. So have any of you girls(or guys) had a day like this? A total "WTF?"
    day?

    Thanks again for letting me rant a little,
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    ranting is good somtimes......glad to hear somebody stuck up for you. Chin up!

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    Kitana,

    I have had days like that too. I&#039;ve had days where the majority of the customers acted like the dickhead you described, and I had to ask myself why I even bothered coming to work. It&#039;s guys like the one who gave you a $20 onstage that make the shitty days worthwhile.

    Just two weeks ago, I was dancing onstage, and when I got off, a customer told me I had the ugliest pussy he had ever seen. I just smiled and said "Thank you" and walked away. Some assholes just say rude stuff to try and get a reaction out of us. I&#039;ve found that the more I ignore them, the more it pisses them off. They know that they have no chance in hell with us, so they have to be dickheads. They aren&#039;t even worth a witty comeback.

    You&#039;d think a customer who claims to drive a $50,000 car could buy one measly dance, but I&#039;ve found that the customers who brag about having money are the least likely to spend it. I&#039;ve had many customers act like the one you described. They brag about having a nice house and an expensive car, but they don&#039;t tip any of the dancers or buy any dances.

    About the dancer who thought that you bleed out of the same hole that you pee, WTF? ??? I learned about that in health class in 6th grade. I thought everyone had to learn about that in school.






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    Yeah so did I, that&#039;s why it totally blew me away. I know you have days like this but after I walked away, for him to do that onstage, was uncalled for.

    Stripper, thanks. I know I got a little carried away, and I know I will have days like that, but damn to have both of those things in one night, and being caught in a police chase on my way home. It was just way too much.

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    Oh boy, kitana. Caught in a police chase too? I call those days and weeks "Carpetbombed by God".

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    Well kinda caught in the middle, I was driving home and I hear the sirens, pull over on to the median and see a silver minivan come tearing ass through an intersection with two city cars chasing it. I pull back on and hear more sirens. Here comes another city car and a sheriff&#039;s car too. I think well, 4 cars that must be it. I get about 10 more feet the here comes a D.O.T. car with his lights on too. I finally get to the 4 way stop about 50 feet from where the van turned at, and here come a state bot and another sheriff&#039;s car. I don&#039;t know what in the hell this guy did, but to have city boys in the county is bad. Not to mention a statie, and D.O.T. too, WOW! 7 cops chasing this van. I hate to say it, but the poor guy must have forgot it was a minivan and not a BMW. So after that, I just went to bed and waited for the elephant to fall on the house.

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    Don&#039;t let anyone get to you like that. I&#039;ve dealt with sooo many customers who think a dollar gives them the right to talk down to me. Hey...maybe their wives or girlfriends treat them that way. Who knows...let them be miserable.

    I used to be reactive to that kinda stuff. One time I was so mad..I threw twenty singles at this guy&#039;s face and said..."maybe you need this more than I do...you cheap...F*ck". He felt bad and tried to make-up...whatever. I know it is tough..but if you let it get to you..they win.

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    good job hon..that Customer #2 was so cool!

    BY the way, has anyone noticed the REAL rich folks never show it? I have done alot of work with TV stars and such - and the new ones fllash the cash like crazy, while the long/old money types are so quiet. Same with the (few) millionaires I&#039;ve met

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    Quote Originally Posted by kitana link=board=27;threadid=10764;start=msg133271#msg13 3271 date=1089012462
    He says " In 6 yrs I can retire, I&#039;m an investment banker, and I make more money in one year that you will in 5"
    LOL...yeah, right. He&#039;s probably there cuz he doesn&#039;t have a chance in hell with any girls outside the club. He probably got caught skimming money and got fired and he&#039;s taking his "last night on the town" before his car gets repoed. BTW...I would have laughed in his face when he showed me the keys to his $50,000 car and said, "Just because you paid $50,000 for it 15 years ago, doesn&#039;t make it worth that much now. Loser. But, hey, thanks for playing. Have a good night."

    I have found that they "young money" types don&#039;t want to spend any money...but they like to brag to everyone about how much they make. It&#039;s usually just a ploy to get the girls wanting to date them for their money...LOL...course, the brainiacks completely dismiss the part that people respond to "share my wealth with me" and not "wait here while I count my money."

    Sorry you had such a WTF night!

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    I&#039;ve met and seen a few guys like that, they used to bring me down, but I quickly learned most of them are talking through the hole in their ass. And I would never talk like that to another person just to bring them down (cause ya know thats really what he&#039;s getting off on) and that makes me a better person. plus who the hell does he think he is, you should have made him pay you for your time, if he wanted to play he&#039;s a jerk. guys that like really piss me off.
    I'm here to make money. NOT make friends, if I make a friend then it's a bonus.

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    Dude, it's not her "world" it's her job. It's not some sort of Pavlovian trance that dancers go into when they smell money, it's simply how they make a living.

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    Oh venus hun thanks, but this guy wasen&#039;t young at all. He was probably around 40ish or so. I almost told him, "$50k?, I would have been more impressed if that key ring had a little black horsie on a yellow back ground." (You guys know that&#039;s the Ferrari symbol right?) LOL some people don&#039;t that&#039;s why I asked. But anywho, it&#039;s over now and I need to sleep.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kitana link=board=27;threadid=10764;start=msg133294#msg13 3294 date=1089017717
    So after that, I just went to bed and waited for the elephant to fall on the house.

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    Damn. So much suckage in that post I don&#039;t know where to begin.

    First, a ringing endorsement of public education, followed by the ever-popular Be A Fucking Asshole In Three Easy Steps customer.

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    Kitana - I was reading through the 2nd part of your WTF post (about the dickhead) and my body started to react like that shit was actually happening to me.... my heart rate increased, my teeth started to grind and I even started to clench one of my fists! (the one not on the mouse) OMG - that shit just infuriates the fuck outta me. I cannot even express how much I loathe people like that. Ugh.

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    Nothing against public schools, but the girl herself admitted she wasn&#039;t paying attention.

    As for Mr. Investment Banker...there are just some people out there who get off on making others feel like shit, especially people they feel they can look down upon easily, like a lowly stripper.

    This guy might actually be an investment banker, but it&#039;s quite possible that though he pulling in $500K a year, he&#039;s spending $600K. Looking the part costs a lot, from country club memberships, to the house in the right neighborhood, a Rolex or two...you get my point.

    I always say: It&#039;s not how much you make, it&#039;s how much you keep. This douchebag could very well stay up all night tossing and turning wondering how many more grandmas he has to bilk to pay for all that stuff. And it&#039;s just that: Stuff.

    I like pretty things as much as the next person, but as much of a cliche as it sounds, the things that make me truly happy can&#039;t be bought. As long as you&#039;re happy with your husband/family and live life on your own terms without hurting anyone, you&#039;re already golden.

    We all run into this type of person occasionally and it can be a major downer, but it&#039;s good that you vented. Don&#039;t you feel sooooo much better for it?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Brooke Quinn link=board=27;threadid=10764;start=msg133455#msg13 3455 date=1089058470
    Kitana - I was reading through the 2nd part of your WTF post (about the dickhead) and my body started to react like that shit was actually happening to me.... my heart rate increased, my teeth started to grind and I even started to clench one of my fists! (the one not on the mouse) OMG - that shit just infuriates the fuck outta me. I cannot even express how much I loathe people like that. Ugh.

    So it wasn&#039;t just me that reacted viscerally to the post? I feel much better knowing that.
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    Kitana, I didn&#039;t know if I wanted to laugh my butt off at that stripper who thought that she peed out of her vagina or to be sad that someone could be so clueless about their own body at age 19.

    That customer was such a loser. If he supposedly is so "rich" then why the heck can&#039;t he pay for the lapdance? I&#039;m not going to look forward to customers like that at the job. You handled it beautifully and that customer #2 definatly helped.

    I didn&#039;t know there was another Kali.

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    I always say: It&#039;s not how much you make, it&#039;s how much you keep. This douchebag could very well stay up all night tossing and turning wondering how many more grandmas he has to bilk to pay for all that stuff. And it&#039;s just that: Stuff.
    It&#039;s true.

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    Quote Originally Posted by NinaDaisy link=board=27;threadid=10764;start=msg133460#msg13 3460 date=1089059229
    This guy might actually be an investment banker, but it&#039;s quite possible that though he pulling in $500K a year, he&#039;s spending $600K. Looking the part costs a lot, from country club memberships, to the house in the right neighborhood, a Rolex or two...you get my point.
    yup, that&#039;s what I say. He might make alot but he lives above his means and therefore can&#039;t afford a $30 dance.

    Kitana, I have WTF nights all the time. I liked your comebacks though, very quick on your feet! I may even use a few myself


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    thats so funny how most of us are reacting the same way, getting pissed off like it&#039;s actually happening to us
    I'm here to make money. NOT make friends, if I make a friend then it's a bonus.

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    Well, we&#039;re all getting angry because the same things definitely happen to all of us sooner or later. I am amazed by the folly of a guy thinking he can score with a stripper. If we were cruising for d*ck we&#039;d be at the regular bar with our pals, not dancing on stage.
    My UNfavorite WTF recollections:
    An old man who hooked his finger in my bikini top after turning down my offer for a lap dance- naturally, he got no more attention from me.
    A potbellied geek at a bachelor party bragging that he had gotten a handjob from one of my fellow dancers YEARS ago- like she would remember, and like he needed to tell the world....
    A couple of the classic cheapo "rich" guys who brag about their assets- it&#039;s shocking how deflated they get when we are unimpressed. Are they really that bad-ass rich if a silly little dancer can bring them down?
    I DO have a great story: one night when i was so angry at a rude customer I was shaking, a sweet guy held me to nothing more than some conversation after his foster son bought him a VIP dance as a birthday present. He explained he didn&#039;t want crazy stories getting back to his wife in the States. I&#039;ll never forget his kind act, and honorable behavior.

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    I have to hand it to you ladies. You put up with some stupid shit. I know I respect dancers more and more the more I read on this site.
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    These are perfect examples why it is not worth doing this job for less than $800 per week (after 3-4 nights worth of work). Alot of my friends would love $800 per week but then I explain to them about this side of dancing: how much BS a stripper has to put up with in a night&#039;s work (sometimes).... and then they realise that I earnt every cent of that $800 or even $1000 for that week.

    I agree... the truely rich do not need to "shout it" from the rooftops. The truely rich just go about their business and live their lives. I&#039;ve also found that the wealthy people don&#039;t necessarily have the Rolex or the $50,000 car.

    I&#039;m also unimpressed with the display of wealth. I see it as condencending and arrogant. I&#039;m more impressed with a wealthy person who spreads his/her/their wealth. Actions definately speak louder than words (and/or the $50,000 car).

    Also.. in re: the a-hole who showed you his car keys. I would laugh at him and say "Well.. aren&#039;t you the idoit!" You can get a great car for MUCH less ! Besides, it wouldn&#039;t be worth $50,000 now... cars start to depreciate as soon as they are finished being assembled.

    I would be more impressed with someone who had a car that appreciated in value as that&#039;s a smart use of money.



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    I know I respect dancers more and more the more I read on this site.
    Yeah...I&#039;ve been thinking....reading the posts on this site just may have ruined it all for me. I have this horrible vision of me going into a stripclub at some point and just saying, "I&#039;m sorry....for all the assholes...here...take my money.".......handing it all over and just leaving. How can I possibly get another lap dance knowing that the dancer may just be thinking "Great....another loser."

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    Young, dumb and full of cum is what I always say... and sometimes the old are the same way...

    Yep, have had the WTF day many times myself and I guess if it weren&#039;t for a sense of humor I&#039;d probably had let those days get to me in the worst way, but I just remember that some "gentlemen" love to put us down just to make themselves feel better.

    I had a guy bragging about how much money he spends in strip clubs and how girls like me are a dime a dozen and that he finds us all "sad and depesperate" and then went into this whole bullshit line of how he&#039;s never met a successful stripper etc.. Then his freaking credit card was declined at the bar... (which I understand can happen if you reach your daily allowable limit) so being the nice polite person I am, I just sat there and smiled.. and he muttled through a few profanities and said to me, "you understand that this NEVER happens to me"

    I smiled and said, "Oh I&#039;m sure it shouldn&#039;t happen to you, you talk as though you are the President, and I&#039;m sure that at one time in even President&#039;s life, his credit card got declined too."

    This led to a huge ordeal of how much money he had, and what kind of car he drove and etc.. and I just simply asked "Can you sleep at night? I mean, I&#039;m sure your car payment and your house payment alone are more than what I see in a month at this club, but I mean, how do you feel about spending all that money on interest?" He just smiled and said, "well, when you buy your first house and your first car, you will see what I mean. "

    And sitting back looking at this dude, I said, "Yeah, I already have, and they are both paid for. I paid cash. Just because someone has money doesn&#039;t mean that they have to be an asshole" I got up and walked away and then some ditzy girl sat next to him and he had his fun with her.

    I don&#039;t like men like this or the one that was described in the original post. They just DON&#039;T GET IT. I have had customers who have been very wealthy and have not realized it until many weeks later when they keep returning... then after a grand or so that is spent, I realize that they have the money to spend- but they never ever vocalize how much money they have. Its always those who would like to have you think that they have money that are the ones who yell it out loud.

    One of my best customers is a very wealthy man, and he always brings me chocolate- from Belgium- he travels a lot and he remembered that once I told him that I am a chocolate junkie. Every time he goes, he always brings me back these to die for chocolates- and a giraffe ( I collect giraffes)- he always finds these figurines that are so intricate and delicate. He also doesn&#039;t drive a fancy car, and he doesn&#039;t have a fancy house (I have done a private party for him) and he lives quite simply- at first, I didn&#039;t know what to think of him, but he told me once that money is just an added benefit to life... and HE GETS IT! He actually gets the big picture!

    Now to note this conversation: I have my car paid for, and my house has only a $5000 note on it- so I can consider my home paid for, as I had to take out a signature loan to get the $5,000 I needed to make up the difference- as a result of paying cash for things, I&#039;d also like to stress the importance of credit, because I have none. I have none because I have paid cash for everything and the only credit I have is one loan which I had to get a co signer for because I have no freaking credit. I don&#039;t advise anyone to pay cash for everything.


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