I like it give pleasure. And spanking is NOT always a thing of any sort of abusive dynamic whatsoever. In fact VAREITY of touch can help keep the nerves excited mixing things up and keeping it unexpected and mixing in gentle massages and caressing. Sometimes best as the sexual tension builds up. NOT as something you do all the time but just as a fun PLAYFUL light thing mostly I think. It can be just another form of touch exciting the nerves.

Sometimes it’s a good thing to use when my GF is acting silly in a way that is just slightly ridiculous like complaining that she thinks she’s fat or something I give her a gentle playfully swat and it’s kind of our code we have together to lighten up, and she will even do it to me when I’m acting ridiculous in a light playful way JUST more so to get my attention and to break my current state and kind of snap out of it and just relax and have a good time. We both do this to each other from time to time in a fun playful way. NEVER EVER out of the slightest frustration or anger!!! I believe that should NEVER EVER BE DONE IN A MANER of frustration or anger!

But other than that I think in the RIGHT CONTEXT and presented and APRAOCHED in the right way it can be fun playful useful healthy thing.