I know that some here do not like to discuss (or even admit, in some cases) connections between dancing and escort/prostitution work. If you are among that group, please do not continue to read this. I am posting not to offend anyone but only to report an interesting point made to me recently by a dancer-escort.
I had several lap dances from a stripper at a well known club in Seattle a few weeks ago, dropped maybe $200 on her. She was pretty permissive and aggressive with her "extras", so I was not all that surprised when she offerred me her number and said that she would be happy to meet me for more totally satisfying experiences at either my place or hers; it was a pretty straightforward proposition.
Anyway, we got to talking about various things, and she struck me as a smart and sensible person, so I asked her why she worked as a dancer instead of as just directly as an escort, given that she found the latter an acceptable way of making money. Her reply was interesting and reasonable enough to bear repeating I thought:
She said that she had indeed worked strictly as an escort previouslly and that the part she couldn't stand was the danger of being hassled or assaulted by customers and the stress of worrying about it, etc. I got the impression that she might have had some rough/bad experiences, but she did not detail any. But she said that she found meeting customers in the strip club to be a wonderful way of screening them. She simply did not give her number to a guy until she felt comfortable that he would not be dangerous, difficult, unpleasant, cheap etc. She claimed that this worked well for her and that she only needed to dance a couple of nights per week to find enough clients to keep her busy in her work as an escort. Again she did not say so explicitly, but I'd guess that she made most of her income doing escort work.
Anyway, while I am sure that many here will disapprove or disagree with her approach, I thought that it was at least a rational and interesting explanation.
-Ww



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