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    Hi, I have been reading this site for a while and I finally did it and started dancing. I'm at a 5 star club that is more about chatting and working the guys than anything else. We do 3 stage dances a night and we have to wear long classy dresses. I have found the girls really great and cause I knew NOTHING at all on my first shift I was soooooo scared and some of the girls really helped me get the idea. I'm not pussy enough as I ask very nicley if guys want a dance and most of the money I have made has acftually been through people, especially girls appriaching me. I've made up to $350 per night, most girls are going a bit better than me but they have been at it for ages and are pretty forward with the guys.
    Just wanted to ask, how long it takes to get into it and make the big bucks and are girls nervous at the begining?
    I'm a dancer by training and I love the stage but I think i have a little bit of learning to go. I enjoy it, i also just get funny about getting too close during privates, I lean and move close and am intimate but some girls almost sit on the men (although no grinding). Do all girls 'have to' get sexual in privates or can we just be very very sexy?
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    Default Re:Just started, questions?????

    I'm new too, and I was VERY nervous my first night... I almost threw up the first stage set I did. Plus, it wasn't a very warm and friendly atmosphere as far as the other dancers were concerned. (except for 2 or 3 girls who were very nice) The "house mom" was very cold, and to the point, almost in a zombie-like routine. As far as the lapdances go, you do whatever feels comfortable to you, and don't let guys get away with things just cause you're new (they WILL try stuff specifically cause you're new) I'm not a crass or mean person, but with one guy, I almost had to slap him! It's YOUR body, they should respect it if you correct them politely, if not, get more stern, then... go get the bouncer. (NO REFUND!)

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    Yeah thanks. Well I'm sure I will get better at it all. The club is good as security always checks on us a lot and makes sure things aren't goint too far. I know they do take it a tiny bit further than "no contact at all" but I'm glad they don't grind. I don't care what they see and I dance like I'm inlove with them and I try to make is interesting and sexy, just can't see myself climbing on them and feeling them all hard (yuck)!
    I need to be a bit stronger and forward and I'm better after a champagne and especially after I've danced a few times. I'm also soooo scared of looking out and seeong someone I know. It's an upper class club but I would shock anyone I know.
    Has anyone ever spotted a friend or relative in the club?
    What do you do?
    I have a boyfriend and I'm afraid his mates will come in and see me on stage, yuck!!!!!
    Well that's what you have to deal with when you dance in you home town, a big town but I'm scared it will happen.
    thanks

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    Default Re:Just started, questions?????

    Have you guys checked out the newbie board? There are lots of useful posts there. Good luck!

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