Thoughts on people who wait for the "One" (I'm not one of them, and I was cynical before I was a dancer, thank you very much.) I think some people build things up to be more than they are, or lie to themselves.
I have had a couple romances where I felt something powerful and madly strong for a guy- but the relationships did not last and left me feeling that maybe that "zing" feeling isn't that important. Maybe our attraction styles change as we get older...
I'd have to say I judge men differently now that I've had so much interaction with them. I am always surprised by their Romanticism- a male friend of mine got upset at me for referring to men jokingly as "roving f*ck machines." Well, that view is a product of my work. But, my chief irritation come from men who claim to be on a Holy Grail quest for the One. And these aren't rednecked jerks I'm talking about, but artiste types. High standards, needs, wants and desires, but not much thought to aligning themselves to what they are seeking in a woman- you know, for her sake.
Well, I hope some guys respond to this, is is a call to defend yourselves. And your romantic ideals.


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