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    This may be a kind of strange question, but I figured this would be the place to ask!
    I dance p/t and have been doing so for quite some time. I'm pretty and quite petite, with green eyes and long - wavy-wild auburn hair and I do get a lot of private dances when I'm not being shy. I'm intelligent and have a great sense of humor. And I really love dancing.
    The thing is I need (well, want really bad anyway) to get a boob job. They seriously need a lift and maybe increased from a B to a full C (nothing drastic though, I do not want to look freakish and would actually prefer an extremely naturally looking result.) Since having my son years ago and a recent loss of about 10 lbs...well, the effects are obvious and I'm very unhappy about it.
    I can only handle working two days a week (I've worked up to 6, but it's just too much) in order to not burn myself out and I make enough to pay my bills and do some extra stuff with my son like go to movies and arcades and stuff. But I do not have any monetary assets and I'm in a situation where even if I were able to save money, it would be highly innappropriate for me to use that cash for cosmetic surgery...although it would be a profitable investment in the long run, I believe.
    So I've been wracking my brain trying to come up with a way to get it done. (OK, the truth is, I've been obsessing over it for eight years!) Then this crazy thought crossed my mind.
    Just maybe, I could find somebody that 6 grand or so is no big deal to who happens to love exotic dancers and would be happy to donate to my beautiful breast fund! In exchange I would offer tip-free lapdances for the rest of my dancing career or something like that...draw up a contract....a business deal really. (No sexual favors.)
    Do you guys think there is any chance that I could actually make that happen or have any idea how I would go about it? ers:
    Please don't flame me for this question...I'm just trying really hard to come up with a way to get this surgery done so that I can feel better about myself and make more money. If anyone has any other ideas, please let me know.


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    Wow... well, if I had $6000 of disposal cash in my wallet right now, I'd do it !!

    Seriously, have you considered that maybe getting a BA is not the best thing to do? For me, breast size is not what ultimately persuades me to pay. If you have a good personality, sweet smile, soft skin, and smell good, well, then I'm sold ! Breast size isn't always what attracts guys, or me, IMO.

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    Bad idea IMO, that guy more than likely will want more than free lap dances out of this regardless of the contract. Do you have a Plan B?

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    I'm not a guy, but here's an idea. Maybe you could just get a lift instead fake ones. I mean, I have no idea what the price is on that, or even exactly what it entails, but I've seen it on a female customer and it looked very nice. It seems like it would be cheaper.
    If you do get the BA, make sure to spend alot of $,$$$ - $$,$$$ on the right Dr.

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    I think "tip free" would only work if the guy were quite wealthy already, in which case "tip free" isn't going to be much of a selling point for him.
    Quote Originally Posted by _Avery_ View Post
    omg, why is it so huge?!! lol lol

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    Sounds like a bad bad bad idea. at least IMO. I never let customers co-exist in my real life and I think somehow they could manage to do just that. To actually sign a contract, at least a legal one, with any of the people that come into your club would give them a ton of information on you...your real name, and if your not careful you could catch a real weirdo willing to screw up your life.
    If the problem with working an extra day a week is bcuz you get burned out.... then do something else one day a week til you save up the money.... if you only danced 2 extra days a month you could have it paid for in no time.

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    Wow,

    You have been thinking about it for 8 years. First off not to be mean but in 8 years I would have thought that you could have saved enough to have it done.

    Secondly, there are many men that would take you up on that offer but to be legit most would say Ok I am loaning you 3000.00 an the interest rate is__% for 3 years total due is $______ and divide that by the cost of your dance and that would be a fair way that way you are getting what you want and legally it is considered a loan that you are paying back with interest but to be honest again I am not sure that a contract like that would hold up in court. Good for you bad for him.

    Just my 2 Cents

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    Uh, i don't think so. I'm not PLish enough to drop six grand on a no sex relationship with someone who lives in Madagascar for all I know. I'd buy diamonds, but not boobs.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Madcap link=board=8;threadid=10924;start=msg136065#msg136 065 date=1089606415
    Uh, i don't think so. I'm not PLish enough to drop six grand on a no sex relationship with someone who lives in Madagascar for all I know. I'd buy diamonds, but not boobs.
    Hi Madcap...
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    People who do trade-offs like that with work typically do it because they do not have enough dough rolling in. Yes, there is probably a surgeon around willing to do it...but that is likely THE person you do not want going at your chest with a scalpel. You'd be better off calling Howard Stern.

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    LMAO @ Howard

    Can you imagine how many requests he gets from girls wanting something done albiet mostly BA buit still low odds to be picked as the one he would choose and even then you are at his beck and call for quite sometime.

    LOL I offered FBR an outrageously high interest loan, note loan where legal papers are signed with interest rate and length of loan disclosed

    So if you want them that bad are you willing to sign legal loan papers for them at my interest rates?

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    Quote Originally Posted by A_Guy link=board=8;threadid=10924;start=msg135886#msg135 886 date=1089577030
    Wow... well, if I had $6000 of disposal cash in my wallet right now, I'd do it !!

    Seriously, have you considered that maybe getting a BA is not the best thing to do? For me, breast size is not what ultimately persuades me to pay. If you have a good personality, sweet smile, soft skin, and smell good, well, then I'm sold ! Breast size isn't always what attracts guys, or me, IMO.
    I do know that. It's much more for me than for the guys. It's something that weighs quite heavily on my mind. Every single day.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Richard_Head link=board=8;threadid=10924;start=msg135894#msg135 894 date=1089578562
    Bad idea IMO, that guy more than likely will want more than free lap dances out of this regardless of the contract. Do you have a Plan B?
    *sigh*
    Yeah, waiting until the day when I could actually afford to have it done for myself.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Smartie link=board=8;threadid=10924;start=msg135897#msg135 897 date=1089579366
    I'm not a guy, but here's an idea. Maybe you could just get a lift instead fake ones. I mean, I have no idea what the price is on that, or even exactly what it entails, but I've seen it on a female customer and it looked very nice. It seems like it would be cheaper.
    If you do get the BA, make sure to spend alot of $,$$$ - $$,$$$ on the right Dr.

    Smartie
    I definitely want a lift as well, more than implants even. It's all far more money than I can spend right now.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bambiblue link=board=8;threadid=10924;start=msg135921#msg135 921 date=1089584462

    If the problem with working an extra day a week is bcuz you get burned out.... then do something else one day a week til you save up the money.... if you only danced 2 extra days a month you could have it paid for in no time.
    You all are right and I know it. :sad:
    I appreciate everyone's feedback on this subject.

    Bambi...working more just isn't an option. I'm considered legally disabled due to bipolar disorder (and several other things). I drive a crappy old car and live in a much too small apartment. I could not justify putting that much money towards cosmetic surgery when we really have nothing, ya know? I do sometimes work extra days and I also do a little bit of other (completely unrelated) work on the side. But when I overdo it, I tend to fall apart for a while.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Viper link=board=8;threadid=10924;start=msg135971#msg135 971 date=1089591094
    Wow,

    You have been thinking about it for 8 years. First off not to be mean but in 8 years I would have thought that you could have saved enough to have it done.

    Secondly, there are many men that would take you up on that offer but to be legit most would say Ok I am loaning you 3000.00 an the interest rate is__% for 3 years total due is $______ and divide that by the cost of your dance and that would be a fair way that way you are getting what you want and legally it is considered a loan that you are paying back with interest but to be honest again I am not sure that a contract like that would hold up in court. Good for you bad for him.

    Just my 2 Cents
    I haven't been working straight through those 8 years....actually less than half probably. And like I mentioned earlier, I was not able to hustle for a very long time, so I never reached my earning potential. (I work in an area where you really have to hustle to make any real money.) SO the money I have made has had to go to other priorities.

    I would be willing to accept a loan, but not a loan with interest. I wish I had a family member who would do that for me though...although I can't imagine asking them!

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    Quote Originally Posted by StripperTips link=board=8;threadid=10924;start=msg136176#msg136 176 date=1089629935
    People who do trade-offs like that with work typically do it because they do not have enough dough rolling in. Yes, there is probably a surgeon around willing to do it...but that is likely THE person you do not want going at your chest with a scalpel. You'd be better off calling Howard Stern.
    I have thought many times of calling Howard

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    What? I offered Dancers some Money in 1 Posts and all I got was a bunch of crap from many of them. Here is a Dancer offering Lap Dances for a Breast Fund? Where is the justice in all this?


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    It's sexism. SEXISM i say!

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    8 years girl!!?? This is what I think: If you slowly save up from a boob job (say $100 a week/ 5 dances). I know you can spare 100 a week OR dance an extra 5 dances. In 60 weeks (less than a year!!!) you can afford the BA. It is slow and drawn out but considering you have thought about this for 8 years what is one more year? And please do not feel guilty for spending the money on yourself!!! It will be something that will increase your earnings and confidence.... a plus for you and your loved ones around you!!!

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    Eee... I need to change my picture now. WHAT THE HELL IS IMO????


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    Anyway, Sexy sierra, I heard that boob lifts are way worse than implants cause they leave really bad scars and look weird. I'd do some research before you decide on what you want to do.


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    sandi

    IMO=In My Opinion

    IMHO=In My Humble Opinion

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    IMO not too many of us bother with IMHO

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    Strippertips,

    This is true and I will use it if not specifically knowledgeable about something always believe that showing respect is always classy

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