Ok since I've moved to San Diego dancing is waaay different here money and all.....well I know its almost the same in most areas.....but what does it really take to be a dancer...emotionally I mean?
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Ok since I've moved to San Diego dancing is waaay different here money and all.....well I know its almost the same in most areas.....but what does it really take to be a dancer...emotionally I mean?
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you can only survive by clinging onto trees
that's your flaw
put down some roots so you can stand on your own
-Kenpachi
There's actually a great article on this. If you click on the articles button at the top of the page, you'll find one entitled (funnily enough) "Do you have what it takes?" If you have any questions after reading it, I'm sure anyone here will drop in their 2 cents on it.![]()





S.D. sucks doesn't it?They should revamp and overhaul the industry here completely.
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The money is different? Does it have a picture of Mr. Moneybags on it? Or Ronald McDonald? You may be getting tipped by some tricksters...LOOK OUT!
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I think she means more like non-existent.The clubs in S.D. suck monkey *ss.That's putting it politely.They are all old and run down severely.Not to mention that it's locals and military that make up the clientelle.
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Glad u mentioned OtB. At one time, thought of goin' there
MANY MEN WANTED TO LAY ME DOWN, BUT FEW WANTED TO LIFT ME UP
-Eartha Kitt
Originally Posted by MojoJojo link=board=25;threadid=10961;start=msg138052#msg13 8052 date=1089889292
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I'm in S.D. too! :o Where do you dance? ???Originally Posted by TigersMilk link=board=25;threadid=10961;start=msg136648#msg13 6648 date=1089691710
Compared to other places I'm sure S.D. DOES suck, but luckily for me, I haven't been doing it that long, and I plan to leave it behind me soon. Just doing it to pay some WWWAAAAYYYYY over due credit. Even though the money "sucks" to everyone else, I find the extra 300.00 I make every night to be very helpful. (but perhaps I only see it that way because dancing isn't my main source of income...)
If 200-300 a night "sucks" how much is good? ??? *I'm sincerely curious*
It varies from dancer to dancer. To me, averaging $300/night would be great!![]()

averaging $300 would be spectacular!!





Some interesting replies....yes the money is different reminds of monopoly...one guy paid me w/ a "get out of jail free" card and the end of my dance. JK....thanks for the replies....UM i quit dancing for now found a regular job the kind where you get to where clothes...but I want to go back as extra income but i dont know where...I thought sacramento was slim pickings....here is not bad but then again the girls that do work and live here would probably say something else.... Im still shopping for a "good" club w/ low mileage <----- not a mileage girl. Hey centerfold where do you work at and do you like it? Do they take care of you or is it a deja vu chain? I heard they take alot of money?
you live like an ivy vine
you can only survive by clinging onto trees
that's your flaw
put down some roots so you can stand on your own
-Kenpachi





$600 a night at the absolute worst is good.I've been in this business too long to make less than that.I'm also used to sitting on my butt making that kind of cash,not hustling half to death on my feet.Go to New Orleans if you want to experience real money.Originally Posted by playboycntrfold link=board=25;threadid=10961;start=msg138287#msg13 8287 date=1089920547
One of woman's cardinal rule: Body parts can be fake,everything else has to be real.
一个女人的枢机规则:肢体可以伪造,一切必须真实.
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Emotionally?
Being able to see it for what it is, a job.
Being able to see customers for what they are, customers.
Knowing who you are and not letting how much you make a night or what customers say (good or bad) have anything to do with it.
On the money issue: I say you've got to draw the line somewhere and be making enough money to make it worth putting on those shoes and getting naked! Of course that amount is up to you, but I would say at least $300 a night! It is an emotionally taxing job and you've got to be compensated. Otherwise, don't worry about what it takes emotionally, find a new club!
Let your indulgence set me free. - Shakespeare
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