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    Since so many of you responded to my post ( and I am glad you did I was really depressed for a few days and needed to vent) I thought I would give you folks an update . Well in the last 2 months we have become fast freinds , she still has her BF ( darn) but we have had several ( freind ) dates , Chinese food and she finally let me take her picture ( as a photographer I shoot beautiful women all the time and most of the time they are nude but I was looking foward to just taking some very cute outdoorr shots of her ) they came out like a senior picture . I was happy I would like to post one but I will ask her first . She did do two things for me the other day that brougt me great joy. One she finally gave me a real kiss, no tounge just a soft kiss and touch of her lips , I will remebr it till the day I die and she said if she breals up with her BF or evr decides to go behind his back I will be the one ( by the way I told her BF I was in love with his GF ) So that was great to hear and get off my chest . Well that about it thanks for listning all my best Dave

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    "love"? hmmmmm(i wont get into that), but....ok....good luck with that...hope it all works out for you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by photodave link=board=27;threadid=10980;start=msg136886#msg13 6886 date=1089720587
    Since so many of you responded to my post ( and I am glad you did I was really depressed for a few days and needed to vent) I thought I would give you folks an update . Well in the last 2 months we have become fast freinds , she still has her BF ( darn) but we have had several ( freind ) dates , Chinese food and she finally let me take her picture ( as a photographer I shoot beautiful women all the time and most of the time they are nude but I was looking foward to just taking some very cute outdoorr shots of her ) they came out like a senior picture . I was happy I would like to post one but I will ask her first . She did do two things for me the other day that brougt me great joy. One she finally gave me a real kiss, no tounge just a soft kiss and touch of her lips , I will remebr it till the day I die and she said if she breals up with her BF or evr decides to go behind his back I will be the one ( by the way I told her BF I was in love with his GF ) So that was great to hear and get off my chest . Well that about it thanks for listning all my best Dave
    Am I the only one who would not even get into anything with someone like that because she has a boyfriend already? Seriously, am I weird or something?

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    Well,all of warned you dude.C'est la vie.
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    Get to know her before you say THAT word. I wish you luck but the boyfriend thing is shady. Heck...I'm gonna about this one.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Prina link=board=27;threadid=10980;start=msg136920#msg13 6920 date=1089724814
    Get to know her before you say THAT word. I wish you luck but the boyfriend thing is shady. Heck...I'm gonna about this one.
    NOT ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


    Hey fucktard,she has a boyfriend!
    Where is your honor?

    She has already shown you her fiber by going out with you a couple of times and kissing you.
    Why would you want a hooker ho??

    The only good thing is,if she cheats on him with you,she will cheat on you with another.
    I just hope it hurts you as it will probably hurt the current boyfriend.

    See you on Jerry Springer soon!

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    Damn.. lol

    Seriously though. Let's say that this girl actually ditches her boyfriend to be with you. Would you really want someone who would do that? There's an old saying.. "If they do it FOR you, They'll do it TO you."

    I personally would have serious problems respecting someone like that.

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    Dave,

    Best of luck but reality is that she has a boyfriend and to be honest think about this if she does break up with her boyfriend and then go with you what is to stop her from doing the same thing to you.

    Trust me on this one I learned the hard way I took a girl away from her boyfriend but then never felt like I could trust her so it didnt work I will NEVER go out with someone that is not totally single for that reason alone, too many single ones out there for me to play that game.

    I wish you the best of luck in your situation though and hope that it works out well for you as I hate to see a fellow SCJ have to go though what I did.


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    Quote Originally Posted by BigGreenMnM link=board=27;threadid=10980;start=msg136928#msg13 6928 date=1089727123
    Quote Originally Posted by Prina link=board=27;threadid=10980;start=msg136920#msg13 6920 date=1089724814
    Get to know her before you say THAT word. I wish you luck but the boyfriend thing is shady. Heck...I'm gonna about this one.
    NOT ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


    Hey fucktard,she has a boyfriend!
    Where is your honor?

    She has already shown you her fiber by going out with you a couple of times and kissing you.
    Why would you want a hooker ho??

    The only good thing is,if she cheats on him with you,she will cheat on you with another.
    I just hope it hurts you as it will probably hurt the current boyfriend.

    See you on Jerry Springer soon!
    Be easy man....

    No need to go off on the guy....

    Honestly....she is probably playing you....and her boyfriend probably knows it as well....thats why he didnt beat your ass when you told him you loved his girlfriend....

    Can I ask how much money you have given this girl already?

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    AIN,
    Hey did you ever anser my question about where in weschester you lived?

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    yes i did :p PM me

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    Quote Originally Posted by AinNY link=board=27;threadid=10980;start=msg136940#msg13 6940 date=1089728602

    Be easy man....

    No need to go off on the guy....

    Honestly....she is probably playing you....and her boyfriend probably knows it as well....thats why he didnt beat your ass when you told him you loved his girlfriend....

    Can I ask how much money you have given this girl already?
    I agree. Her boyfriend probably didn't kick the shit out of you because you probably paid her and his rent by all the money you have given this girl.

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    Dave the only words i will put here for you are first seriously good luck, and second she is "cheating" on her bf, with you, are you not afraid she will do the same to you?

    It just seems wrong on both sides, ask her to leave the relationship before anything more happens. You two are already hanging out, taking pictures, and kissing. It's just seems very wrong. I know you say you like love her, but damn what about the bf? Has anyone thought about him? You feel, so does he.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Prester_John link=board=27;threadid=10980;start=msg136907#msg13 6907 date=1089723624
    Am I the only one who would not even get into anything with someone like that because she has a boyfriend already? Seriously, am I weird or something?
    No, PJ...You're not weird. I, for one, think that's cool...

    And Pamela....Great post. I agree.

    Put her to the test. If she wants to be with you, she should have no problems leaving her current relationship. And seriously, dude, would you really want to be with her if she was as you say, going behind her boyfriend's back?

    This just seems like a very sad situation.
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    I was in a similar boat once Dave...

    My friend was a dancer and I was put in a position to help her and was falling for her at the same time...

    To make a long long long story short, it put me 50K in debt, without ever even seeing her dance more than once or twice...just from helping her get through life.

    I am happy to say I have pulled myself out of debt...

    Even if she is hot as hell and her intentions towards you seem good and the fringe benefits are obviously fun...(which all applied to my situation)...if she is draining your wallet in ANY way...GET OUT....

    as far as feelings go...don't get your hopes up...just enjoy the ride if she is financially secure....otherwise RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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    I won't judge you dave because I don't detect that your intentions are malicious, you really like this girl, and it is every very possible that she really likes you (though it is not impossible she is playing - unlikely but possible).

    All that said, I do agree you've put yourself in a questionable situation. First there is some truth to the point that you are screwing over her BF and don't seem to care how he feels. Second, I agree with the other posts ... what goes around comes around. I am not saying she woud intentionally go out of her way to hurt you, but she may not know what she wants... unfortunately if she is at all flakey she is has a life time of temptation ahead of her. Plenty of other guys who will see she is beautiful, and will tell her whatever she wants to hear to work their way in after you are her BF (if that happens).



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    Quote Originally Posted by AinNY link=board=27;threadid=10980;start=msg136940#msg13 6940 date=1089728602
    Quote Originally Posted by BigGreenMnM link=board=27;threadid=10980;start=msg136928#msg13 6928 date=1089727123
    Quote Originally Posted by Prina link=board=27;threadid=10980;start=msg136920#msg13 6920 date=1089724814
    Get to know her before you say THAT word. I wish you luck but the boyfriend thing is shady. Heck...I'm gonna about this one.
    NOT ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


    Hey fucktard,she has a boyfriend!
    Where is your honor?

    She has already shown you her fiber by going out with you a couple of times and kissing you.
    Why would you want a hooker ho??

    The only good thing is,if she cheats on him with you,she will cheat on you with another.
    I just hope it hurts you as it will probably hurt the current boyfriend.

    See you on Jerry Springer soon!
    Be easy man....

    No need to go off on the guy....

    Honestly....she is probably playing you....and her boyfriend probably knows it as well....thats why he didnt beat your ass when you told him you loved his girlfriend....

    Can I ask how much money you have given this girl already?
    Not going off on him,its just a wake up call from one guy to another.

    Its just my opinion and upbringing that tells me dating a taken woman is just wrong.This isnt work,she went out with him a couple of times outside of the club fantasy.

    Chasing a woman who you know is in a relationship is wrong.Im confused why he would show the boyfriend the respect of a face to face conversation about it,then go out behind his back.I wonder if he told the boyfriend about the kiss???Doubt it!
    And her...well,lets just say BOTH of them are not the kind of people i wanna hang out with.
    Honor,trust,and respect go along way with me,it could be said i even judge peoples fiber on them.
    Im sure you do to.
    As for the amount of money,well,i dont think thats the point.

    Take what he has spent up to this point for a few dates and a kiss,then double it for a blowjob???
    see my point??

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    I think it would be a great idea to wait untill this girl is single. Do you want to be a rebound? Alot of people break up and get back together.
    Tranquil Waters

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    Why is it that when people have such strange questions they never come back to respond to all of our answers?
    Hmmm... maybe he's been scared away.
    Anyhow, I'm with Rhiannon. "If they do it For you, they'll do it To you." Right on Rhi!



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    Quote Originally Posted by BigGreenMnM link=board=27;threadid=10980;start=msg137052#msg13 7052 date=1089741837
    Not going off on him,its just a wake up call from one guy to another.

    Its just my opinion and upbringing that tells me dating a taken woman is just wrong.This isnt work,she went out with him a couple of times outside of the club fantasy.

    Chasing a woman who you know is in a relationship is wrong.Im confused why he would show the boyfriend the respect of a face to face conversation about it,then go out behind his back.I wonder if he told the boyfriend about the kiss???Doubt it!
    And her...well,lets just say BOTH of them are not the kind of people i wanna hang out with.
    Honor,trust,and respect go along way with me,it could be said i even judge peoples fiber on them.
    Im sure you do to.
    As for the amount of money,well,i dont think thats the point.

    Take what he has spent up to this point for a few dates and a kiss,then double it for a blowjob???
    see my point??
    Dude...i agree with you....im just saying...you dont need to jump down his neck....well maybe you do...but i dont think that approach ever works well.

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    She is almost certainly playing you. If her BF calmly sits there while you tell him you love her (what the hell did you do THAT for--are you looking to get kneecapped?), there is something very wrong. He is most likely laughing at you but hiding it so you will still spend money on her. Or possibly he is such a prick that he could care less who is moron enough to blubber his undying love for his girlfriend to him.

    You are opening yourself to a world of hurt. If she's playing you, you get hurt. If she's not, she's a flake--for going out with you while she has a boyfriend, or for keeping a boyfriend who doesn't care--and you get hurt, maybe worse.

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    I can't say anything about this, other than Rhia was right on...



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    Yeah I was breathlessly waiting for that update Ive had a few PL moments over the years but this one takes the cake. So she honored you with a kiss...and not even a nice tonguey one. And youre gonna remember it the rest of your life?? Somebody please beat some sense into this guy

    You didnt mention if you are giving her money. If you are doing so in a quest for the Holy Grail, that I can understand. Just realize that young guys usually dont have to do that shit (just us old fuckers). OTOH, if youre just lost in dancer worship with no hope of fornicating with divinity, thats pretty pathetic. Either way, her boyfriend gets a good chuckle. Thats probably why he didnt kick your ass LOL

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    Quote Originally Posted by AinNY link=board=27;threadid=10980;start=msg137118#msg13 7118 date=1089747999
    Quote Originally Posted by BigGreenMnM link=board=27;threadid=10980;start=msg137052#msg13 7052 date=1089741837
    Not going off on him,its just a wake up call from one guy to another.

    Its just my opinion and upbringing that tells me dating a taken woman is just wrong.This isnt work,she went out with him a couple of times outside of the club fantasy.

    Chasing a woman who you know is in a relationship is wrong.Im confused why he would show the boyfriend the respect of a face to face conversation about it,then go out behind his back.I wonder if he told the boyfriend about the kiss???Doubt it!
    And her...well,lets just say BOTH of them are not the kind of people i wanna hang out with.
    Honor,trust,and respect go along way with me,it could be said i even judge peoples fiber on them.
    Im sure you do to.
    As for the amount of money,well,i dont think thats the point.

    Take what he has spent up to this point for a few dates and a kiss,then double it for a blowjob???
    see my point??
    Dude...i agree with you....im just saying...you dont need to jump down his neck....well maybe you do...but i dont think that approach ever works well.
    I actually have to agree with BOTH of you. BigGreenMnM , you're right that dating a taken women is VERY wrong. (wish there were more guys that shared that point of view...) AinNy, you're a sweetheart that obviously is also thinking of this "new guys" feelings as well. (he's just a dummy in love... well, perhaps LUST is a better word.) So in conclusion: YOUR BOTH RIGHT.

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    she finally gave me a real kiss, no tounge just a soft kiss and touch of her lips , I will remebr it till the day I die
    Well,at least he's devoted to her,arghhh,lol....

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