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    One of my best friends and I (okay, we used to be a LITTLE more than that, but essentially, friends) have fallen out of touch lately. We havent seen or heard from each other in 9 or 10 months. A mutual friend happened to see him recently and he mentioned my name, but they seldom see/speak to each other. I don't have his new cell #, but don't want to call his apartment b/c from what I understand his new gf is pretty overbearing, even though he and I are just friends. Any ideas on how I could reach him? (Oh yeah, call me a dumbass, but I don't know his EXACT street address... I know he lives on the corner of this street and that one, but I've never actually sent him anything, so that's not an option). I've never been in a situation where I havent felt like I could be in contact with him and I miss it, but don't want to cause problems with his girl.
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    IMHO, you should utilize this "mutual friend" to see/talk to your old pal again. If you try direct contact AND the girlfriend found about you secret employment, you could cause havoc for your old pal. One of the hard truths of dancing. (As if women weren't catty enough anyway..)
    An old male pal of mine and I only e-mail or have infrequent phone calls because he's taken and I swore not to ruin a good thing for him. That's what friends are for....

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    I think you should just let it be. He's got a girlfriend and if he was interested in seeing you, he'd probably approach you.

    "Flushing" this guy out, in my mind, looks more like "can't let go of the past/stalker" girl. Just let him go.

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    Quote Originally Posted by VenusGoddess link=board=1;threadid=10991;start=msg137298#msg137 298 date=1089778751
    I think you should just let it be. He's got a girlfriend and if he was interested in seeing you, he'd probably approach you.

    "Flushing" this guy out, in my mind, looks more like "can't let go of the past/stalker" girl. Just let him go.
    I agree with Venus. Maybe he was just making conversation, and doesn't have an honest interest in you. 10 months is a VERY long time. Let it go. If he really wanted to talk to you, he would have gotten YOUR # from her and tried calling YOU.

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    Thanks for the advice... I don't think it's an issue of "can't let go of the past"... we tend to let each other live our own lives and for the past 2 or 3 years it just hasnt been convienent for us to stay in as close contact as we used to. We were only physically together twice, when I was 14 (almost 8 years ago)... but truly were best friends, we simply moved apart (literally). Oh well, you guys are right, he'll contact me.
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