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    I was curious as to your thoughts on exhibitionism. I think most of us, (especially here ), display some extent of exhibitionism. I've always considered it as an effort to attract attention to yourself through some sexual display and/or action. With this in mind, I found this interesting:

    From Psychology Today:
    The vast majority of exhibitionists are male. Female exhibitionists may seek employment where the condition can be exploited, such as topless dancing, although most people in such jobs are not exhibitionists. Although this condition appears to be a life-long problem if not treated, the condition often becomes less severe by age 40.

    Interesting...

    Now ladies - would you or would you not consider yourself an exhibitionist?

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    Do i have to be a lady to answer this?

    if so...just close your eyes and call me Sally(not you Sandy...you can keep calling me Jeter)....

    I kind of like it.....id run around naked all day if I could...the more people watching the better

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    Quote Originally Posted by AinNY link=board=1;threadid=11001;start=msg137486#msg137 486 date=1089828274
    Do i have to be a lady to answer this?

    if so...just close your eyes and call me Sally(not you Sandy...you can keep calling me Jeter)....

    I kind of like it.....id run around naked all day if I could...the more people watching the better
    Thanks for the reply Ai.... errr. I mean Sally

    So, I guess that kinda explains the so-called Trix shower incident. She "peeked" right? yeahhhh.. ah huh.

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    is it considered exhibitionistic if i'm crossin' the street, wearing shorts, & tank top, & someone gets into a traffice accident watchin my butt? (not intentional on my part). My friend thought it was quite hilarious. btw way past the age limit, & quite smokin' thanks


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    I raise my hand i LOVE showing off my body! If i wear a sexy tight short dress up to my ass, or tight pants to my ankles with sexy strappy sandals, or full on nude, i'm there. I am an extreme exhibitionist!
    And proud of it.

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    Yea, Pammie, if u got it flaunt it. U rock!!


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    If you cut someone with a knife in a bar, it's called "assault". If you cut someone in an operating room with a scalpel, it's called "surgury". Get the difference?

    When I dance, it's w--k, and anyone who thinks otherwise..... well.... that's a different thread, right?

    On the other hand, would I have thought of dancing in the first place if I wasn't at least a LITTLE big an exhibitionist? How many surgeons get into the field because they LIKE cutting on people? (Remember Steve Martin's song, "Son, Be a Dentist!" in the movie Little Shop of Horrors? The character became a dentist because he was a sadist!) How many people would be GOOD physicians but can't because they're scared of the sight of blood?

    Yeah, I'm most definitely an exhibitionist, but that's not what I'm doing when I'm dancing. That's what I'm doing when I walk down a breezy street in a short, pleated skirt with tiny panties on!

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    I wouldnt consider myself an exhibitionist. I might like to wear revealing and super tight clothes, but thats about it. But at the same time, its not that I'm shy. When I'm at my home, my roommates and I pretty much walk around naked. I'm all about strip poker, flashing, whatever...LOL. So I'm not embarrassed of my body, I just dont think people want me flaunting it in their face. I dont get turned on by people watching me, I get turned on watching other people.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Trix link=board=1;threadid=11001;start=msg137499#msg137 499 date=1089830460
    I'm all about strip poker, flashing, whatever...LOL. So I'm not embarrassed of my body, I just dont think people want me flaunting it in their face. I dont get turned on by people watching me, I get turned on watching other people.
    we've hung out for almost 2 weeks now...and I HAVE SEEN NONE OF THIS i dont believe you


    and that last one is called being a voyeur(sp?)....that would explain the peeking

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    This is stupid. The average human being wants to be seen.

    Of COURSE I like being seen, pampered, and fawned over...wouldn't everybody like that?

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    Quote Originally Posted by VenusGoddess link=board=1;threadid=11001;start=msg137510#msg137 510 date=1089831881
    This is stupid. The average human being wants to be seen.

    Of COURSE I like being seen, pampered, and fawned over...wouldn't everybody like that?
    Nope...i know A LOT of people who dont....

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    Quote Originally Posted by AinNY link=board=1;threadid=11001;start=msg137507#msg137 507 date=1089831273
    Quote Originally Posted by Trix link=board=1;threadid=11001;start=msg137499#msg137 499 date=1089830460
    I'm all about strip poker, flashing, whatever...LOL. So I'm not embarrassed of my body, I just dont think people want me flaunting it in their face. I dont get turned on by people watching me, I get turned on watching other people.
    we've hung out for almost 2 weeks now...and I HAVE SEEN NONE OF THIS i dont believe you


    and that last one is called being a voyeur(sp?)....that would explain the peeking
    Yea, I pegged trix as a big tease a long time ago. lmfao!

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    Quote Originally Posted by AinNY link=board=1;threadid=11001;start=msg137513#msg137 513 date=1089832146
    Quote Originally Posted by VenusGoddess link=board=1;threadid=11001;start=msg137510#msg137 510 date=1089831881
    This is stupid. The average human being wants to be seen.

    Of COURSE I like being seen, pampered, and fawned over...wouldn't everybody like that?
    Nope...i know A LOT of people who dont....
    That would be me. I don't like being seen in public, in fact I'm quite paranoid. I have my reasons for this, however. But I love being naked and don't mind being naked in the club. I don't necessarily like being pampered and fawned over, but I expect it to a certain extent. I don't really get much out of compliments anymore.

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    i like being naked. i like being watched. i like watchign people when im naked. i like watching naked people. i dont like clothes (or makeup). and you dont have to be naked to be an exhibitionist. you just have to show yourself off. so wearing tight and/or revealing clothing counts. if you do that and pretend not to like it, you're a tease. a no good worthless tease. LOL.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sander8son link=board=1;threadid=11001;start=msg137524#msg137 524 date=1089833974
    i like being naked. i like being watched. i like watchign people when im naked. i like watching naked people. i dont like clothes (or makeup). and you dont have to be naked to be an exhibitionist. you just have to show yourself off. so wearing tight and/or revealing clothing counts. if you do that and pretend not to like it, you're a tease. a no good worthless tease. LOL.



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    Quote Originally Posted by VenusGoddess link=board=1;threadid=11001;start=msg137510#msg137 510 date=1089831881
    This is stupid
    Stupid?

    Quote Originally Posted by VenusGoddess link=board=1;threadid=11001;start=msg137510#msg137 510 date=1089831881
    The average human being wants to be seen.

    Of COURSE I like being seen, pampered, and fawned over...wouldn't everybody like that?
    No not everyone. Well, maybe the pampered and fawned over part you're talking about, but not everyone has the courage and/or desire to "exhibit" themselves. A friend of mine was a dancer for a brief stint a number of years ago to help her pay her way through college. Out of the club, it was big sweaters and jeans nearly ALL THE TIME. Very plain... Absolutely no indication that she would be taking off her clothes for a room full of guys. Is she an exhibitionist? By no means. The job was simply a means to an end. Did she liked to be pampered and fawned over? Hell yeah! who doesn't. But that doesn't mean that you're necessarily an exhibitionist.


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    Quote Originally Posted by sander8son link=board=1;threadid=11001;start=msg137524#msg137 524 date=1089833974
    i like being naked. i like being watched. i like watchign people when im naked. i like watching naked people. i dont like clothes (or makeup). and you dont have to be naked to be an exhibitionist. you just have to show yourself off. so wearing tight and/or revealing clothing counts. if you do that and pretend not to like it, you're a tease. a no good worthless tease. LOL.
    HAHAHA... looks like you covered all bases there. well said

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    Sandy u say the sweetest things....


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    I'm not an exhibitionist. I WOULD be if I felt better about myself. Hell, if I looked like any of you girls on here, I'd do nothing but walk around naked all the time and scream "LOOK AT ME!!! LOOOOOK AAAAAT MEEEEE!!!!!"

    But, in the state my poor body is in (an probably always will be in), I'm much more of a voyeur. I LOVE watching people! Well, that is, only if they don't know I'm watching--I hate it when they know I'm there. That's why I had problems the first time I went to a strip club--I went through that whole "where do I look" thing--and it still bothers me sometimes. I'd rather sit in the back and just watch. This is why porn kicks ass! lol
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    when I am home alone, I walk around naked... I'd much rather be naked than clothed. Sometimes, in the past, when friends have come over, I haven't realized that I am not clothed. After working in the nude and such, one gets accustomed to being naked after awhile.. pretty soon, its just like anything else you do.

    So to answer your question- Yes.


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    I grew up with my hippy father being naked all the time. Doesn't really strike me as odd for people to be naked in a natural setting. I did, however, always wonder why the Hell he thought it was a good idea to cook bacon with his schlong hanging out.

    Regardless:
    Although this condition appears to be a life-long problem if not treated
    I find it interesting that the article referred to exhibitionism as a "problem" and that it needed to be "treated". An exhibitionist trait is nothing more than any other personality trait. Personality traits that do need to be treated are those that harm society or a member thereof. I do not personally feel that exhibitionism falls into that category.

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    Anyone who'd like to feel comfortable being naked....come on over. Men in the basement, please. And bring beer. And chips.
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    I am a total exhibitionist. I am always naked at home naked at work. I NEVER wear panties. I love to dress in sexy and revealing clothes. I love being checked out by men but love attention by other women.
    We go to hedonism2 every year at least once. Nude for 7 days, doing all kinds of erotic things in the open with people watching. SO.... yes a huge exhibitionist!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Raven link=board=1;threadid=11001;start=msg138774#msg138 774 date=1089986131
    We go to hedonism2 every year at least once. Nude for 7 days, doing all kinds of erotic things in the open with people watching. SO.... yes a huge exhibitionist!
    So....ummm...when is the next trip planned....you know im just curious....not b/c i am going to plan a trip at the same exact time or anything j/k




    On a serious note....there are a couple cool new resorts(Desires & CRC) like that in the Cancun area(but outside of town).... I was planning a trip to one of them with my ex a year ago...but it didnt work out. Id loe to go to a place like that....now i just need to find a partner to go with

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    I have heard that Desire and CRC are much more tame than Hedo2 or 3. And hedo 2 is much more crazy than hedo3.
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    Quote Originally Posted by AinNY link=board=1;threadid=11001;start=msg138789#msg138 789 date=1089987895

    On a serious note....there are a couple cool new resorts(Desires & CRC) like that in the Cancun area(but outside of town).... I was planning a trip to one of them with my ex a year ago...but it didnt work out. Id loe to go to a place like that....now i just need to find a partner to go with
    wow thats low. i can't believe jeter would do that to you just because arod hit town.

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