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    Default Giving out personal info...

    I've been dancing only a few months now, but it's common sense that you shouldn't give any random joe your telephone number - especially if you aren't really even attracted to them. So, instead I modified my webpage so that it doesn't list any personally identifying information such as my cell/address and have been giving that to guys who want to either A) go home with me or B) take me out to dinner... I was in New Orleans last weekend and gave it to one guy - told him I was jeremy and to check out jbspencer.com when he wanted my number... He came in the next night and told me.. "I wasn't really in the area, but I wanted to come see you and tell you thank you for not giving me some fake name and your real website --- I appreciate it, and if you're ever in Chicago let me know, I'll send you an email from your contact form on the site --- then put a $20 in my boxer-briefs.

    Honesty pays, but at what point should you draw the line? I think that I've done a good job so far, but any advice from the ladies (or guys!) who know what they're about would be appreciated.
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    Pamela
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    Hmmm i don't know, i only gave info. to regulars (cell number) and only to guys. You are a male dancer, and giving info. to guys? That's cool. I can respect that. I usually make a regular a "real" regular after 5 months of paying for me! Then i give a cell number for contact. No dinner or sex, only to ask me when i am at the club dancing again.

    I have stopped this practice after the club i danced at closed, only to be another strip club that i HATE.

    Pamela

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    Hey Bishop - I like your webpage - especially the cute kittie picture!!! I've been dancing for a couple of years and I can say that I have made the mistake before of blurring the lines and perhaps revealing to much information. Nothing too bad has ever come of it, but generally I was wasting on people that were really not going to get me anywhere.

    Having a webpage to give out sounds like a great idea. You're not totally shutting them off but not putting yourself at an inconvienence or risk. I'm sure you will continue to get good responses from people by giving them your webpage.

    Some dancers really don't know the limits. One of my friends has a habit of giving her number out to cute guys - even though she's married. I have little respect for her on this level. She called me the other day, in fact, and said some guy asked for her number and she charged him $60. He paid it and she gave him a bogus number! So I don't know who I look down on more...

    I don't know if this is making sense (time to refuel on chocolate ) but I think giving them your webpage is a great idea - anyone want to make me a webpage... LOL
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    Greetings,
    might i suggest a "work"cell phone??

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    I give them my stripperweb email address :-)



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    Default Re:Giving out personal info...

    Quote Originally Posted by BigGreenMnM link=board=27;threadid=11019;start=msg138072#msg13 8072 date=1089894943
    Greetings,
    might i suggest a "work"cell phone??
    If you're going to give out a phone number, it should definitely be for a dedicated cell phone - preferably a cell phone with a different phone number prefix from your home phone, which are usually available on request. i.e. if your city is 345-xxx and a nearby city which is a local call is 678-xxx, simply ask for a 678 cell phone number.

    Also consider that giving out phone numbers to club customers can be used as supporting evidence if a dancer is ever charged with prostitution. The D.A. will claim, and the judge and jury will likely believe, that the purpose of giving out your phone number to club customers was actually to arrange "after hours" meetings with them outside of the club for purposes of prostitution.

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    I don't give out my # to anyone anymore. If I am interested, I will call them. Sometimes things can take a turn for the worst in these situations. I had a doctor as a regular for awhile and gave him my cell #. He started calling me at the wee hours of the night all drunk. It was pathetic but I learned my lesson.

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    Jay Zeno
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    No numbers. Yahoo e-mail address, maybe. I've got a couple business interests, and if they ask about what I do for a living, I tell them about my secondary, nonpublic business.

    I don't need someone getting enamored or malicious and rooting around for me. If I make a friend in the club, we can continue our friendship when I come back or by e-mail. I've got friends and romance in real life. I don't need complications.

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