I've been dancing only a few months now, but it's common sense that you shouldn't give any random joe your telephone number - especially if you aren't really even attracted to them. So, instead I modified my webpage so that it doesn't list any personally identifying information such as my cell/address and have been giving that to guys who want to either A) go home with me or B) take me out to dinner... I was in New Orleans last weekend and gave it to one guy - told him I was jeremy and to check out jbspencer.com when he wanted my number... He came in the next night and told me.. "I wasn't really in the area, but I wanted to come see you and tell you thank you for not giving me some fake name and your real website --- I appreciate it, and if you're ever in Chicago let me know, I'll send you an email from your contact form on the site --- then put a $20 in my boxer-briefs.
Honesty pays, but at what point should you draw the line? I think that I've done a good job so far, but any advice from the ladies (or guys!) who know what they're about would be appreciated.




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I've been dancing for a couple of years and I can say that I have made the mistake before of blurring the lines and perhaps revealing to much information. Nothing too bad has ever come of it, but generally I was wasting on people that were really not going to get me anywhere.
) but I think giving them your webpage is a great idea - anyone want to make me a webpage... LOL



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