View Poll Results: When being turned down for a position with a club, do you prefer

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  • Tell me the truth, I can handle it

    13 28.26%
  • A few pointers on how I can improve would be great

    23 50.00%
  • A simple, "No thank you" works for me

    1 2.17%
  • Tell me you're just not hiring

    4 8.70%
  • Tell me I'm not what your looking for

    4 8.70%
  • Tell me to come back some other time

    0 0%
  • other

    1 2.17%
  • 0 0%
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Thread: Sugar coated or straight up?

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    Default Re:Sugar coated or straight up?

    The only place I wasn't hired was Ten's in Manhattan, though every single girl I've met since who works there tells me I'm far better for it. That kinda messed up my self-esteem for a while about my ability to be hired at an upscale club, but after I worked in New Orleans and made bank there, I realized that (at the risk of sounding very stuck up) that I could pretty much get hired anyplace I want.

    I still get nervous if I audition at a new place, but whether it's appearance or attitude, not every dancer is the right fit for every club.

    If I do get turned down, I'd much rather get the truth directly but tactfully.
    "She has written so well, and marvellously well, that I was completely ashamed of myself as a writer...But this girl, who is to my knowledge very unpleasant and we might even say a high-grade bitch, can write rings around all of us who consider ourselves as writers"

    Ernest Hemingway on writer, aviation pioneer and horse trainer Beryl Markham


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    Default Re:Sugar coated or straight up?

    Quote Originally Posted by Rhiannon link=board=27;threadid=11088;start=msg139285#msg13 9285 date=1090052176
    The girls also need to be able to take some constructive criticism. If they can't take it before they got hired, they damn sure won't be able to take it after they get hired (from the customers, other girls, etc..)
    so true.

    i think it's best to be honest, but to be nice about it, just like almost everyone else has said.

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    Default Re:Sugar coated or straight up?

    honesty is always the best policy with tact as others have said already no reason to lie to someone and build up there hopes when you have NO intention of hiring them

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    Default Re:Sugar coated or straight up?

    I would say "tell me i'm not what your looking for and why". I would want to know if you had too many blondes already, or i have huge thighs, etc. I would not be insulted, i like honesty. I HATE when i hear of dancers who jump around clubs with the infamous "we will call you crap."

    As anyone who hires people in various jobs go, if you can't have tough skin and be honest to the person who you don't want working for your co. you have no business hiring people.

    Pamela

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    Default Re:Sugar coated or straight up?

    I agree with Pamela, I would rather have someone tell me straight up why they wouldnt hire me. I wouldnt want someone to tell me they are not hiring if they think my butt is to big or they think I have been hit with an ugly stick.

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    Default Re:Sugar coated or straight up?

    The last club I worked, the manager had an open door audition in his office with one other dancer sitting beside him offering comments.

    It was done very professionally, in that I did not have to do a stage audition or have just guys oogling me in a closed office.

    After taking my clothes off (stripped to my bra and thong), all they asked is for me to turn around. They said I might want to do a few set of crunches on my abs, but that was the only suggestion they said.

    They asked about my health, whether I had a family, whether Iwas in school, what my likes and dislikes of the business were and a few more questions.

    I knew I was hired when they started talking about the rules of the club which they strictly enforced.

    Later, the other dancer who sat in on the short audition told me she and the manager/owner were looking for girls with not only the right "look" but the right "chemistry". That's why the peppered me with questions about books I read, activities I was involved in, etc.

    She told me this manager had fired many a hot looking babe because they brought too much attitude into the dressing rooms or they tried to get away with extras in the private danceroom. She herself even saw a videotape of one of these bimbos offering the manager a blowjob to keep her job . . . with a female bartender standing next to him in his office! I confrimed this story with the bartender and shook my head.

    I hate the clubs where there is some big gruff manager who meets you at the door and doesn't even look up from his clipboard as he says, "We ain't hiring, come back next week."

    I don't ever go back to those types of clubs.

    I've also walked out of a club where the manager wanted to "audition" me behind closed doors of his office. Fuck that! I turned around and walked out without a word!

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