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    Is prostitution legal in any states? I'm an exotic dancer at the moment but, looking at prostitution, it seems ideal for me. Getting paid to have sex! It would only be a second job, I wouldn't rest my entire well-being on it but I would like to try it. Problem is, I don't really wanna get arrested!
    Is it legal anywhere?
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    I have stripped for 6 years, does that make me a veteran, old news or just damn desparate for money?

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    What happend to the troll smilie LOL

    Actually its a legit question but somehow I just dont believe it LOL

    Theres a bunch of info on the escort sites regarding how to conduct business without getting arrested. It pretty much boils down to never verbally discussing sex for money. The cash is just a gift. Go to www.bigdoggie.com which has a whole section on the pre-sex money transaction.

    Devine, like I said, Im assuming you are a male troll but if you can somehow convince us otherwise Im sure we can be a wealth of information for you.

    When I meet Miss D for lunch and such, I slip the cash into her purse when she goes potty. She knows Im doing it...it just what we do. That way, when she gets a room for us later its just two good friends enjoying each others company. A silly but thats what I came up with and shes happy with the way ti goes down.


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    Prostitution is illegal everywhere in the U.S. The only exceptions are a few counties in Nevada and a very few small communities in those areas. However, in some areas Enforcement of such Laws does not occur except when other things come up. I.E Drugs or Health Concerns. Mostly Police seem to focus on the Street Prostitute who is addicted to Drugs when Neighbors Complain. However, There are also Undercover Operations against The High End Call Girls and Escort Agencies.

    The best thing a Prostitute can do to avoid the Law is to maintain a group of regular customers and maybe only Prostitute with a few men a week and have a regular job. This way she avoids too much of being noticed by Neighbors and the Police. I would recommend such a Prostitute get a Yahoo Fan Club or something like that and only give specific info to known and trusted Customers and Potential Customers. But always watch for Undercover Agents and Men who may turn on you.

    In my opinion Prostitution should be legal and considered a respectable Profession.

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    Sheri's Ranch in Parump, NV is really nice. It is safe working in a brothel environment and the ladies make good money. This is one of the nicest brothels. www.sherisranch.net
    Good luck!

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    Except is some counties in Nevada, it is illegal all over the US, but the legal penalities and the vigor with which anti-prostitution laws are enforced vary widely from place to place; it may even only be a misdemeanor in some jurisdictions. It is legal or completely tolerated by LE in many other countries, including Canada (within certain narrowly defined constraints).

    Imo, this is a pretty bad place to get info on working as a prostitute. There is relatively little real experience and lots of misconceptions among those who comment here (with exceptions of course). It would be better to consult one of the many online forums devoted to "the hobby" (the most common online euphemism for prostitution).

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    I think it's legal everywhere in Nevada except for Clark County. Of course there are so many prostitutes all over the strip and at any bar at any casino, that it's pretty much legal. Another option would be to try a "Jack Shack" a.k.a. "massage parlor". They are all over the place here in Vegas and very easy to spot. Just look for the pictures of the beautiful asian women on the same sign that says Massage.
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    Sgtjohnny said it right, the best way to go is to have a small number of regular customers in addition to a regular job. I know a girl who has done that for years, no advertising, strictly word of mouth, good references required, very selective about her clients, and she's never had a problem. I also know there are strippers who do the same thing, although you'll never hear any of them admit it.
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    BTW, i AM female, I'm just lookin to see if i can make a living out of this. Thanks for the answers guys!
    I have stripped for 6 years, does that make me a veteran, old news or just damn desparate for money?

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    My own two cents worth --

    If you're serious, I'd suggest the legit porn biz. The money isn't quite as good, but there is nearly zilch chance of getting arrested and despite the recent HIV scare (which was pretty well contained), the chance of disease is prolly less than you face meetin guys in bars.

    If you're seriously interested, drop me a note and I'll put you in touch with some friends.

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    it's legal in new zealand, has been for nearly 2 years.
    I'm here to make money. NOT make friends, if I make a friend then it's a bonus.

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    Dude, it's not her "world" it's her job. It's not some sort of Pavlovian trance that dancers go into when they smell money, it's simply how they make a living.

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    Quote Originally Posted by onlythebest link=board=10;threadid=11134;start=msg150539#msg15 0539 date=1091801574
    F*cking for money is still f*cking for money,no matter how much you try to dress it up.

    As for the pleasure part,those guys could give a rats *ss about your pleasure.They are paying you,it's all about their pleasure.You will learn soon enough that this is not a reciprocating "career".

    For street hookers this is definitely true. Most guys seeking street
    hookers don't give a shit about them. They are just a piece of meat.

    But for "high class" escorts or legal brothels in Las Vegas many of the working girls say their clients are very respectful and some even care about their pleasure. You'll even get the lonely rich guys who become regulars and kiss their ass and buy them expensive gifts.

    Nonetheless some conservative people would ask strippers how they could live with themselves since they "sell their bodies" for money. Obviously most strippers can deal with it or just don't give a rat's ass about that comment.

    Same with high class prostitution (i.e. $300-$1000 an hour). A lot of women can deal with having sex for money and don't give a rat's ass what others may think. Others cope with it and treat it as a high paying job.

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    There is world of a difference between dancing and whoring.You are going to offend some people by that statement.
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    Quote Originally Posted by onlythebest link=board=10;threadid=11134;start=msg150632#msg15 0632 date=1091806431
    There is world of a difference between dancing and whoring.You are going to offend some people by that statement.
    My opinion is that there is a only a thin grey line that can be easily crossed if a stripper isn't carefull. Thus making the two professions comparable.

    A full contact lap dance is basically "dry sex".

    That is like saying if a girl only gives oral sex for money than she isn't a prostitute because oral sex isn't "SEX". At least Bill Clinton doesn't think so.



    Quote Originally Posted by onlythebest link=board=10;threadid=11134;start=msg150640#msg15 0640 date=1091807251
    Any oriface being penetrated constitutes as sex.Dry sex?You're kidding right?
    How about a girl giving a guy a handjob, would you consider that
    prostitution?

    How about a John/client just licking a girls clit, since there is no penetration of any orfice then this wouldn't be considered prostitution?

    So if a stripper lets a customer suck on her nipple then that would be ok just because it isn't penetrating an orifice?

    Look up dry sex on Google that is what the definition of it is. Basically humping with clothes as the barrier.

    If I had my way prostitution would be legal like stripping.

    Is it so hard for some strippers to admit they are selling their bodies for money. Male customers usually aren't after strippers mainly for their mind, intelligence, good conversation, etc. Although if that is included it is indeed a bonus. Of course there are the old, rich, lonely, etc. who seek out strippers mainly for good conversation and companionship. But there are also these same type of guys who seek out hookers for this and pay them just for their time and don't have sex with them.



    Quote Originally Posted by onlythebest link=board=10;threadid=11134;start=msg150666#msg15 0666 date=1091808815
    No,I do not let a guy put any part of his body on mine.

    No,I do not give contact dances.I get very close,but close is all.

    New Orleans isn't like that,at least not where I work.
    Then you should speak for yourself and only certain states/strip clubs because in LA most of the strip clubs are full contact and thus would be considered prostitution by your standards. I'm pretty sure most states are the same and the low contact strip clubs are the minority.


    I was just stating that most people think that strippers "sell their bodies" to make money. Thus making it comparable to prostitution in some aspects because in both professions they sell their body for money albeit in prostitution it is usually to a much greater extent of a blatant sex act performed such as oral,vaginal,and or anal.

    Onlythebest then posted that this would cause some here to be offended. But later she tells her definition/parameters of what she considers sex which was any contact with any erogenous zones.

    This would make 95%(or more) of the strippers at the strip clubs I've been to as "hookers" in her eyes.

    Which is more offensive, being compared to a hooker because certain aspects are similiar OR being straight out called a hooker just because there is contact with erogenous zones between client and stripper?

    Maybe where she lives there are only air dances and this is her point of reference. So she has a higher standard of what stripping should be.

    But I don't believe the majority of strip clubs in the U.S. cater to air dances.


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    I myself am now a high contact dancer. BUT, i don't sell oral, intercourse, or my body to be played (touched) on parts not allowed. That is the difference. You just can't compare a dancer who allows men to hold her hips while she applies some pressure into her ld, to Jenna Jameson, sorry the two don't compare. Besides Asain, dancers don't do the face to face thing about each others dancing practices, only trouble makers would do something that crazy, because yes, there may be a fight, BUT most likely a good laugh would be in order with the better of the two walking away. As dancers we get all kinds of crap, we learn to desensitize ourselves to petty crap.

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    Deline,

    I'm sorry so many members have made complete asses of themselves with the usual psuedo-moralistic crap. Ignore it.

    If you really want to work as an escort, I'd advise going independent. No agency or madame does enough to warrant taking half your money, in my opinion.

    How do you go independent? Go to ASPD (aspd.net). Lurk on their "High Dollar Hottie" and "Courtesan Corner" forums, read and absorb what you read there. You might also want to look at www.escortsupport.com.

    Eros (www.erosguide.com) is the escort advertising site with the most traffic, in most places in the U.S. I'd look through the Eros guide to your closest metropolitan ads, to get a feel for the kind of competition you're up against. Notice how the highest-priced tier of escorts usually projects a classier, more conservative image (aside from touring pornstars) with their text and visual presentation.

    Any other questions, PM me.

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    There's nothing inherrantly wrong with Prostitution. People put such a stigma on it when there's really no reason to. I'm not into it, because i feel that it is boring, but whatever floats anyone's boat. Nobody died and made me king.

    However, it will change how you view sex in a BIG way.

    Do yourself a favor and read this page before making a decision. Learn from those who came before you, you know?



    At any rate, lady, good luck!

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    this is very insightful to read. i have been looking for something similar to this to try and understand better.

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    I agree with Adina in terms of the moralizing, but I've always said if you gonna be a 'ho, be the best one you can be, just don't do it in my club!

    If you do go the escort route, I implore you to not try to get Johns thorough the club you dance at. It's just gonna make things even more difficult for those of us who decide to not go that route, whether in the VIP rooms or outside the club.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Madcap link=board=10;threadid=11134;start=msg151148#msg15 1148 date=1091854383
    Her stories sound very very sad.

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    im gonna have to back asian through most of this thread. nina said she didn't like extras in her club. understandable, and if the girls wanna bitch about it thats fine. I personally hate when the non-extras girls attempt to get the extras girls fired. so i strongly disagree with you on that account.

    OTB, seriously dude, by far you've made the most offensive posts in this thread, and i feel you owe a lot of the girls on here an appology.

    and otb, whats the point of your posts? im guessing Deline is a contact dancer, which according to you would make her a prostitute anyway. so you really have nothing to contribute with regards for her plans of what to do when shes done contact dancing(my guess), since you've already called her a whore. seriously dude, shape up.

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    The way it's been for me, i have worked around these dancers forever. This job is still very do-able being a low mileage dancer, you just may not make as much money as the dancers who give out more.

    Now, if we talk about bj's hj's and such, that is actually just prostituting in our clubs, and illegal. Yes, you can tell management, BUT they may not do much, these women are making the club money, and at the dancers risk, the club will be fine.

    Work with them, do your own thing, learn better hustling, and go with the flow!

    These "extras" are in every club! Don't think so, look around ALOT, you will find someone.

    I don't like it in the clubs either. BUT, there are ALOT of guys who don't want it either, so dance on!

    As for dry sex, that term means nothing more than teasing, and that is what we do anyway, right? I grind nude, i don't cum i am not turned on, i want the $$, and the guy , well what he feels is his right. We surely are not having sex, or every child who ever sat on Santa's lap and squiggled to get off for fear, would have been "dry sex."
    That's one example. You don't need $$ to perform anything, or not know you are performing!

    Unfair assumption, in my opinion. Dancers and "extra" dancers do their thing side by side all the time. Selling our bodies for sex? How?

    Sorry i see sex as oral, anal etc. Not a tease, ooops songs over, give the $$.

    Just my opinions.

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    IMHO strippers(low mileage or high mileage) are over paid as it is. An average stripper has to do little work to earn money compared to what "normal" people have to do to earn the same amount of money.
    Could not disagree more on this point. Irrespective of whether you're low- or high-mileage, having to place yourself in close proximity and/or physical contact with men frequently unattractive both physically and personally and hygenically-challenged (perhaps very much so in both categories) under a sexually charged, alcohol tainted atmosphere where you're being grabbed and occasionally assaulted does not constitute an easy job.

    Full disclosure, a former girlfriend was a part-time escort of the very high-end variety (flown out to various locations by her clients, received nice gifts, et al). I generally agree with Adina's many points and views on the subjects through the course of her postings here, though occasionally her posts on the blue site strike me as...embittered and misandristic. But maybe that's just because of Mr. P's agitations. Actually, that's probably what it is. He does that it seems.

    On a closing note, there's all this moralizing about money-for-sex here, which I find laughable. Here's a news flash for people that haven't figured it out yet:

    Regardless of the terms of renumeration, men always pay for sex. Always.

    It's not a bad thing, it just is.
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    Trimed...this isn't the thread for morally debating prostitution. Read the first post again and if you can help do so.

    BTW, that avatar was first used by a woman who was trying to get the women here to quit dancing - arguing that dancing is immoral - using the same arguments that are now being used against prostitutes...
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    Apropo of nuthin', my ex was prob the top male ho on the planet...co$t me plenty. Was it worth it? Hell, no.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Cali_Tiffany link=board=10;threadid=11134;start=msg151713#msg15 1713 date=1091932483
    Quote Originally Posted by Madcap link=board=10;threadid=11134;start=msg151148#msg15 1148 date=1091854383



    Her stories sound very very sad.
    Yeah i been talking to her via email for a while. She's actually pretty smart and a great writer. We exchange poems, though hers are a great deal more bleak than mine.

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