Of course you can get a dancer to be an escort.
We escorts are made not born ya know. A lot of
us get started as dancers. I did. Really I even
started as a waitress in a strip club. A friend
of mine danced there. It made me really nervous
to walk around the place in the tight little
waitress uniform but I got used to it after a
while.
Then I noticed that I looked as good as some of
the dancers. Before I thought they must all be
super model types or whatever. And they made a
lot more money and my friend was always telling
me I should try dancing. So I did. I think taking
my clothes off up on the stage was about the
hardest thing I ever did the first couple of
times. I get nervous in my stomach and had to go
and throw up in the girl's room before I could
go out there the first couple of nights. But I
got used to it soon too.
Starting to do lap dances was hard too. I tried
to stay away from it at first. I just hid in the
dressing room. But I knew that was where you make
money and the manager said I should do it at least
a little or the customers would get pissed off. So
I gave it a try too. Made me real nervous again.
Those first few guys would die if they knew how
close I was to barfing all over them! It didn't
take me long to get comfortable with it though and
even to decide I liked it. Getting guys excited
is a rush for sure. The thing I hated about stage
dancing was how many of the guys would sit there
looking bored while I did my best to dance sexy.
A real downer. Most guys react a lot more to a
good lap dance.
Then I got a few regular customers for lap dances
and one of them was always asking me to go out
with him or give him a private dance. I had no
interest at all in dating the guy but he started
mentioning how much money I could make. And it got
to be the middle of the winter with real slow
business and I needed to find a way make some extra.
I am smart enough to know what he was talking
about, so I finally asked him how much he would
give me for a date. He said $300 for a date if it
was sexually satisfying. At the time I thought
that $300 sounded like a huge amount. I was really
flattered. So, we made a date. Had to keep it quiet
like the Wanderer guy said because the club
manager was always telling us it was against the
rules.
Again I was really nervous and felt like barfing.
But once we got undressed and in bed it seemed sort
of natural and ok. I was completely green at it
and gave him a terrific deal. I'd spend the whole
evening with him for $300 getting him off as many
times as he could. Another stupid thing is that I
made sure I didn't act like I was enjoying the sex
because I thought he wouldn't want to pay me if
I did. He was pretty good at giving oral and I am
sure I could have gotten off if I let myself. I
ended up seeing him every 3 or 4 weeks for a while.
This was less than a year after I started
waitressing. So it can go pretty fast once you get
started.
Eventually I started seeing other customers and
talked to some other dancers that did it and
found out that I was not charging enough or was
giving too much time. I also found out that the
customers mostly want you to enjoy it and that
it is better to fake than hold back. Silly silly
me! Now I can really get off myself most of the
time.
You can make good money dancing but it is long and
bad hours and sort of boring after a bit. I really
like escort work better and think it is more honest.
Dancing is basically teasing. Lap dancing for sure.
So there is some more of my story. Do you think it
would make a good movie?
Bumps and Grinds to ya,
Sweet Sarah
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