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    Default Re:Is seeing a dancer on a regular basis having an "affair"?

    Can't have friendships with women? Of course you can. I have friendships with female employees, neighbors, colleagues, teammates, clients, social acquaintances. I could go out drinking or chatting with any of them, and I have, and the person in my house who cares about the level of dust doesn't care at all about that.

    But none of them get naked and grind against my dick. Of course she would have a problem if they did. Of course I would expect her to.

    I mean, come on.

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    I agree with ya mojojojo
    I'm here to make money. NOT make friends, if I make a friend then it's a bonus.

    I'd rather be absolutely ridiculous that absolutely boring

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    Dude, it's not her "world" it's her job. It's not some sort of Pavlovian trance that dancers go into when they smell money, it's simply how they make a living.

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    Default Re:Is seeing a dancer on a regular basis having an "affair"?

    I completely agree with VGs read on why it is that your wife would befriend the dancer.

    Affairs have been going on for who knows how long... It is human nature I guess, we want what we have plus a little more, and we use rationalization, or over emphasize our own feelings, or whatever we can to convince ourself that what we do is okay. I won't judge because if I was you (with all of your experiences, all that you are) well then I would have made the same choice you made (we all make the choices that seem best to us at the time given all that we know at the time), but ... you have had some time to think about this and from what you've said you do know that your want to be with this dancer friend is in conflict with your relationship with your wife.

    You know the old saying about the grass is always greener on the other side of the hill... if you have a good relationship with your wife, be thankful bro... there are lots of beautiful women out there and I understand the desire to be near them, but beauty does not make the foundation of a good solid relationship. If you fuck up the relationship you have with your wife you may well find out (only after it is gone) how lucky you already are to have someone you get along with well.

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    I see the points made. My wife read this thread with me and was happy to see her point of view vindicated. She wanted me to post this topic to see what you all thought. VG-she really liked your posts...but as she said why take 75% when I get 100% now. She has, as I said, met my friend and she is now "our" friend. And yes she has already talked with our dancer friend and had big laughs about how I acted so puppy dog in love with her. The bottom line is sure our friend is sexy and fun to party with but my wife is not threatened by her. My wife is a beautiful intelligent woman with many talents, and is also cool as hell to put up with my stupid ass sometimes.

    Now if I can just figure out how to get her interested in some hot lesbo action. Just kidding honey

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    Default Re:Is seeing a dancer on a regular basis having an "affair"?

    im so confused...lets just let this thread die...please

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    Default Re:Is seeing a dancer on a regular basis having an "affair"?

    Quote Originally Posted by goldclubbing link=board=27;threadid=11165;start=msg140945#msg14 0945 date=1090343356
    I see the points made. My wife read this thread with me and was happy to see her point of view vindicated. She wanted me to post this topic to see what you all thought. VG-she really liked your posts...but as she said why take 75% when I get 100% now. She has, as I said, met my friend and she is now "our" friend. And yes she has already talked with our dancer friend and had big laughs about how I acted so puppy dog in love with her. The bottom line is sure our friend is sexy and fun to party with but my wife is not threatened by her. My wife is a beautiful intelligent woman with many talents, and is also cool as hell to put up with my stupid ass sometimes.

    Now if I can just figure out how to get her interested in some hot lesbo action. Just kidding honey
    Well, if taking the 100% assets now have to include you having clandestine relationships with other women who you are sexually attracted to...I would take the 75% and monthly alimony. Or, if she gets a really good lawyer...she could get 100% and have her freedom, too!

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    Default Re:Is seeing a dancer on a regular basis having an "affair"?

    Quote Originally Posted by goldclubbing link=board=27;threadid=11165;start=msg140294#msg14 0294 date=1090262113
    "We have seen one another outside the club several times for lunch or breakfast, innocent stuff, call one another to talk and send e-mails."

    "eventhough it was innocent"

    "I felt I was just hanging out with a friend who I clicked with who also happened to be hot and sexy."

    "I've had relationships with women before that were just friends"

    See: "When Harry Met Sally"

    Harry's speech about men and women NOT being able to be purely friends w/o SOME underlying sexual tension.

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    Default Re:Is seeing a dancer on a regular basis having an "affair"?

    Yes it is an affair

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    Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FBR link=board=27;threadid=11165;start=msg141188#msg14 1188 date=1090373817
    Yes it is an affair

    FBR

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    Default Re:Is seeing a dancer on a regular basis having an "affair"?

    Quote Originally Posted by playboycntrfold link=board=27;threadid=11165;start=msg141193#msg14 1193 date=1090374268
    Quote Originally Posted by FBR link=board=27;threadid=11165;start=msg141188#msg14 1188 date=1090373817
    Yes it is an affair

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    LOL Did you actually think I would say that it wasnt ??? LOL

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