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    Default Alright guys - If you had to choose, do you prefer Contact or Nudity?

    I was writing a reply to another post and question came to mind....

    What's more important to you - to see a woman fully naked or to be able to hold her close?
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    Default Re:Alright guys - If you had to choose, do you prefer Contact or Nudity?

    Like Wanda Sykes was saying in her comedy routine " men love to look at pussy". We do. However, for dancing I'd perfer the clam to be covered. Probably because having been married so long the mystery is not there, I know whats going on down there and don't need slug trails on my pants. Plus a g-sting is close enough anyway but let me play grab ass please, it makes flirting so much more fun.

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    Default Re:Alright guys - If you had to choose, do you prefer Contact or Nudity?

    Quote Originally Posted by goldclubbing link=board=8;threadid=11174;start=msg140478#msg140 478 date=1090280687
    I know whats going on down there and don't need slug trails on my pants. .

    I'm not sure why, but I found that expression to be hilarious :-)

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    Default Re:Alright guys - If you had to choose, do you prefer Contact or Nudity?

    I would much rather have some closeness than the nudity.
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    Default Re:Alright guys - If you had to choose, do you prefer Contact or Nudity?

    Quote Originally Posted by SexxxySierra link=board=8;threadid=11174;start=msg140494#msg140 494 date=1090281545
    Quote Originally Posted by goldclubbing link=board=8;threadid=11174;start=msg140478#msg140 478 date=1090280687
    I know whats going on down there and don't need slug trails on my pants. .

    I'm not sure why, but I found that expression to be hilarious :-)
    Ditto

    But I always heard of it as Snail Trails

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    Default Re:Alright guys - If you had to choose, do you prefer Contact or Nudity?

    You might say I've answered this question many times. A club I have frequented used to offer nude no-contact tables dances and bikini lapdances at the same price. I always opted for the bikini laps. And so did 90-something percent of the rest of the customers. Of course, at this club one had the opportunity to SEE it all at the stage.

    Though I will say that total nudity is an important ingredient in a strip club for me. It takes a lot away not to be able to see the dancers naked. I've never much cared for topless clubs.


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    Default Re:Alright guys - If you had to choose, do you prefer Contact or Nudity?

    Definately contact, even if she's in jeans and a sweater.

    As far as no-contact goes, I generally prefer bikini over full nude. It leaves more to the imagination, a nice outfit can be tons sexier, plus most nude dancers in these parts doing the no-contact thing seem to feel obligated to perform instructional gynecological experiments which are generally a bit much. An observing wiseass like myself can't help but query, "98.6?" after each dancer's finger dive.


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    Default Re:Alright guys - If you had to choose, do you prefer Contact or Nudity?

    Quote Originally Posted by polecat link=board=8;threadid=11174;start=msg140660#msg140 660 date=1090301515
    Definately contact, even if she's in jeans and a sweater.

    As far as no-contact goes, I generally prefer bikini over full nude. It leaves more to the imagination, a nice outfit can be tons sexier, plus most nude dancers in these parts doing the no-contact thing seem to feel obligated to perform instructional gynecological experiments which are generally a bit much. An observing wiseass like myself can't help but query, "98.6?" after each dancer's finger dive.


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    Default Re:Alright guys - If you had to choose, do you prefer Contact or Nudity?

    Hmmm, interesting question. I work at a nude club and our private dances are lap dances. Contact and nudity. So, I'm going through my mind to come up with what the private dance customers usually prefer. I would say that when I'm showing them what I've got they are happy to look (I don't do any finger dives that's just kinda gross). But I think most prefer the contact. When I focus on contact during a dance, in a seductive manner not just grinding the fabric out of his pants, then most customers usually get more dances or at least tip me at the end. Once I'm in their lap facing them they don't want me to get up even though they can't see my goods anymore. And contact, I feel, also mean eye contact! That seems to be the icing on the cake and I use it all the time. Just my
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    Default Re:Alright guys - If you had to choose, do you prefer Contact or Nudity?

    I'm not all that interested in full nudity, topless is fine with me. But I do enjoy some contact. Places that make you sit on your hands aren't worth the price to me. But you don't have to choose, there are clubs around that offer full nude high contact private dances in a private room, if that's your thing. It's not mine.
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    I prefer contact over nudity as it is more arousing. Very easy to get nude and look but as my grandpappy once said once ya seen one ya seen em all.......

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    Default Re:Alright guys - If you had to choose, do you prefer Contact or Nudity?

    Quote Originally Posted by Lexi link=board=8;threadid=11174;start=msg140627#msg140 627 date=1090297430
    Quote Originally Posted by SexxxySierra link=board=8;threadid=11174;start=msg140494#msg140 494 date=1090281545
    Quote Originally Posted by goldclubbing link=board=8;threadid=11174;start=msg140478#msg140 478 date=1090280687
    I know whats going on down there and don't need slug trails on my pants. .

    I'm not sure why, but I found that expression to be hilarious :-)
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    Default Re:Alright guys - If you had to choose, do you prefer Contact or Nudity?

    Contact definitely. Nice outfits, definitely. I like the way a piece of clothing can work like wrapping on a present.

    Not so big on the nude thing.

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    Default Re:Alright guys - If you had to choose, do you prefer Contact or Nudity?

    Being a dancer... when given a lap dance.. I prefer contact over nudity anyday. I'm there for the sensual experience and pleasure of it than the actual nudity.

    At the same time, I've had plenty of customers who would, without hesitation, say CONTACT over nudity anyday.

    Then again.. I love giving sensual lap dance. I love being able to touch the guy.. and if the guy knows how to touch/caress a woman..

    I've also had some great hugs .. hence contact anyday.


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    Default Re:Alright guys - If you had to choose, do you prefer Contact or Nudity?

    Quote Originally Posted by goldclubbing link=board=8;threadid=11174;start=msg140478#msg140 478 date=1090280687
    I know whats going on down there and don't need slug trails on my pants.
    I agree 100%. I learned my lesson when a newly cleaned pair of blue suit pants had the slug trail on them after a lunchtime trip. I didn't notice it, someone else in the office did. The guy I went to the club with almost fell out of his chair laughing. it looked like I spooged my pants, but it wasn't mine!

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    Default Re:Alright guys - If you had to choose, do you prefer Contact or Nudity?

    A friend of mine went to an all nude club once wearing his dress whites(Navy).He and his colleages were having a farewell party for one of the guys,so during sometime in the night,he got a dance from a girl.In the middle of the dance,she started her period and got it all over the thigh of his dress whites.He FREAKED OUT BAD!!!That was the first and last time going to a nude club for him.
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    Default Re:Alright guys - If you had to choose, do you prefer Contact or Nudity?

    I enjoy the nude clubs, but if I had my choice, it would be contact over nude. I enjoy the whole strip club experience, so even contact is not that important. If I find the dancer interesting and easy to talk with then it really doesn't matter to me whether she is nude or not.

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    Default Re:Alright guys - If you had to choose, do you prefer Contact or Nudity?

    Nude clubs are nice and consist mostly of low/no contact air dances.Contact,i'm assuming you are talking two way covered(bikini/thong-bra) lap dances with grinding...thats pretty much the opposite ends of the spectrum.I like both i guess...My favorite club is two way contact but i've requested the girl to mix in air dancing with the bump and grind...don't tell anyone but i enjoy the air dance part of it,lol...Guys are visual and when you have a sexy lady dancing between your legs and can see her entire body it's just more pleasing,more fantasy endusive than a bump and grind...

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    Quote Originally Posted by polecat link=board=8;threadid=11174;start=msg140660#msg140 660 date=1090301515
    An observing wiseass like myself can't help but query, "98.6?" after each dancer's finger dive.



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    Default Re:Alright guys - If you had to choose, do you prefer Contact or Nudity?

    I'd have to give the nod to contact, but ideally you need to right mix of the two. A fully nude no contact dance can be a nice change of pace.

    Either way, I love the flirting.
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    Default Re:Alright guys - If you had to choose, do you prefer Contact or Nudity?

    Contact. Otherwise it's the bad kind of tease for me.
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    Default Re:Alright guys - If you had to choose, do you prefer Contact or Nudity?

    Definitely contact. Although I did have a dance relationship of 8 months with little or no contact, it was fragile and all it took was a little disinterest on her part to make it fall over.

    The current dance relationship consists of nude contact dance and full body rubs by me. Consistency also counts huge, though.

    Air dance with distance is boring and are only of use to someone who can't find anything else close by or has not experienced contact dance. Once you have been sat on, you always want to go back! Might as well watch the Spice channel than that kind of air dance.

    I'll take either nude contact or contact top-less if the cost is the same. If it is nude, I like to keep to the one girl, though.

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    Default Re:Alright guys - If you had to choose, do you prefer Contact or Nudity?

    Contact, definitely...



    Just simple contact... and I don&#039;t mean the grind my lap until I&#039;m raw and peeling. Gentle and sensual is the way to go

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    Default Re:Alright guys - If you had to choose, do you prefer Contact or Nudity?

    Contact! Not sex...but mutual caressing, maybe some kissing. Here in San Francisco you get nude and contact but I still prefer a covered clam...lipstick on the cheek is one thing....but "whats that on your pants honey"?

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