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    Default Relatives come in to the club?

    Ever had a relative come in to the club where you are dancing?

    I just spoke to a dancer and she told me her uncle came in, and she tried to hide, but he saw her, and the next night her FATHER came in.

    He didn't make a scene, he was just verifying it was her.

    It brought out the big secret, and the whole family knows and they are fine with it, but what a way to find out!

    Has anything like this happened to any of the dancers?

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    My ex's cousin.He didn't even have the audacity to say hello,but he sure went and told everyone in the family.
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    It hasn't happened yet, but I've made a decision already on what I'll do if it does. I won't hide, and I won't let them hide either. I'll walk up and say hi. I have no reason to be ashamed of what I'm doing, and I want them to know that I feel that way.

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    i work/dance with my sister.i used to work for father n' law and my husband and his brothers would work and help out there.

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    THAT would freak me out!

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    ^ me too...but then, with my family, well, if one of them came to my club, they'd be total hypocrites and would have no right to give me shit for working there.

    but i'd probably get harassed into quitting, which would blow since i work at the only club in my area that i care for.

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    My ATF used to sit with her brother regularly when she wasn't busy with a customer. She even introduced us. But then she worked in a place where her mother had previously worked and where two cousins also worked, so everyone in her family knew about it. In fact they all gave her hell when she quit because they were all "borrowing" money from her.

    Actually I think the more up front and honest you are with your family and friends, the better off you will be. Because unless you are very very lucky, sooner or later someone you know will find out. It happens to almost every dancer. It's a small world.
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    One girl at our club had her mother and FATHER in the club TIPPING HER ONSTAGE!!! :o
    She calls it supportive... we call it, well you know...
    Just Eww.

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    In 2 and half years dancing with most of that time, so far, spent dancing at one club or another on the Gold Coast here.... nope.. not my step mum, father or anyone else who didn't know at the time.

    Recently, I came out to my father... and well.. he told me that I should keep it hush-hush. He realises I'm an adult however he doesn't want me telling my step-mum (his WIFE) or anyone else that already doesn't know (my younger brother and one aunt and uncle know.. everyone else in 'the family' is clueless).

    I'm the family secret.. yay for me! (sarcasm)

    So if someone did tell the rest of the family - I would tell them to blame my father. He knew and told me to keep it quiet. It's not my fault as I'm not ashamed about what I do.. I feel I'm one of the smart ones.


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    Default Re:Relatives come in to the club?

    GoldCoastGirl,

    Can I ask, the members of your family who DON'T know, what do they think you do for a living?

    That is something I have been wondering about.
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    My parents think I'm just living off of my husband's income.They have no idea how hard I really work.It's sad.
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    I've known several dancers who claimed to be waitresses at their clubs.
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    My sister's freshman year she showed up with a guy friend spur of the moment after a night of barhopping but thankfully I wasn't working that night. I scolded her and said if she wanted to go I'd go with her on a night off. I'd be ok if it was her alone but no guy friends She's the only one that I wouldn't be weirded out by in the club.

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