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    Well...i'm totally nervous and excited to start tonite. I've been practicing for hubby a little bit and i've been a "traditional" dancer my whole life and can move pretty sexily to the music...i think i'll be ok...but when any of you were starting out...did you get into the whole kitty thrusting right in their face right at the beginning!?! i can't "thrust" just right and feel awkward...some of the other girls there said it took them at least a month before they started getting really nasty and doing floor work. Will customers expect that? Oh and for a name I'm thinking "Ivey". I'm pale with blue/grey/green eyes, very long curly strawberry hair and a very "classic" pin up look - marilyn-esque...teeny waist, big hips...whatcha think?
    (so glad I found this board!! its been great to get an idea and not seem so naive as a newbie!) I hung out at the club last nite for awhile just scoping and had at least 5 guys tell me if i was dancing tonite that they would defintely be back!!! ack!! nerve wracking!! but totally fun!!

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    Good luck!!
    My first night I was a bundle of nerves too, but it goes away once you get into it. Just go with the flow! You are already a dancer it seems, so you'll do fine!

    Keep us posted!!



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    yeah, I was "a bundle of nerves" too on my first night, but I actually banked pretty damn well. Most of the guys feed off my new-ness, but as a result, opened their wallets more freely...

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    yes - lol they fed off my newness too and opened their wallets - I ended up being the highest earner at the club that night. I've got the pale skin and the eyes that no one can specifically name the color. I also have long red hair.

    Be confident and guys will eat it up, and play up the newness. like we said, a lot of guys like the thought that they're "corrupting" you or whatever..."oh would you like to buy the first dance ever from me"??


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    I am not too sure what you mean by "kitty thrusting"...but don't worry about being able to do everything. There's going to be a lot that you'll be picking up on within the next few weeks/months.

    Just remember to BREATHE while you are onstage (I knew a couple of dancers who looked like they were so nervous they were holding their breath) Smile, and most of all take it slow and have fun!!

    Good luck!

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    It was scary and took me a few dances to loosen up...but the club was slow at that point so the girls were all really cool and showed me some things. it got busy and i did ok on stage....just not sure how long i should dance in front of one guy before i pull out my garter or whatever to grab the tip. it felt like i'd be in front of a dude forever and he had the money in his hand but wasn't giving it to me! so i'd walk over to another guy and the other would walk away from the stage disinterested...but i totally banked on one guy that got three VIP dances from me...i told him straight up i had never done it before but we could have some fun if he wanted...and i DID have fun...he just kept telling me how awesome i was...and it seemed like he really just needed some cuddlez..so i rubbed his shoulders and scratched his head and he totally loved it. when i came out the manager was all bragging on me.."the new girl did 3 vips!" i really had a good time but my abs and legs are sooooooo sore today. thanks for all the tips and great info!!!
    i'll be back there tonite...friday's (of course) are supposed to be total bank nights.

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    way to go! keep up the good work...I love hearing newbie success stories. Keep us informed on how you're doing!


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    just not sure how long i should dance in front of one guy before i pull out my garter or whatever to grab the tip. it felt like i'd be in front of a dude forever and he had the money in his hand but wasn't giving it to me!
    Just smile and say, "thank you sweetie, you can put it in here" and open up the garter for him. Then dance in front of him for a couple of seconds, but don't be afraid to move on to the next guy. Only if he's the only one at stage should you spend a lot of extra time on him. Or if he's tipping you a $20.

    Way to go on your first night!
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