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    Default Ever have a bad waitress delay or interrupt your dance?

    I had a little incident happen to me the other night. Tell me ladies, how you would have handled this if you were in the dancer's position.

    I've had a few bad run ins with waitresses at SC's before, but the last night of my vacation, I ran into one who deserved a idiot medal because a dancer had to bail me out for her incompetence.

    I go into this club on a Wednesday night and sit down. It wasn't particularly busy so I found it rather strange that five, ten, fifteen minutes passed without seeing a waitress. Esspecially considering that I hit this same place the first night of my vacation on a Saturday night when it was much busier and got served promptly.

    I had thought of just going up to the bar and getting a soda myself, but then I spotted a hot looking brunette on stage that I wanted a dance from. I went up and tipped her, and asked her to come see me when she was finished.

    I go back to my table and wait for her when finally the waitress shows up. I order a soda and wait for her to come back when my dancer finishes her stage set and summons me with the "come here" finger to tell me that she's ready to go back to the private dance area. I hesitate for a moment, knowing that the waitress is going to return with my drink, then think "f**k it", and went back for my dances. I waited on the waitress for fifteen minutes, so she can wait on me to get back. Time is money right?

    So we're just beginning our second song when the waitress comes over to the private dance area with my soda, just buts in and says "I've been looking all over for you. That'll be two dollars". My dancer and I just sort of look at her in a bewildered manner like, you just so interrupted our dance.

    Then she gets beligerrent, "Two dollars for your drink. You gotta pay for it you know. Gawd, I only make like two dollars an hour."

    Now I knew that I had to pay for the drink, but the fact of the matter was that I was paying twenty dollars for that dance, which her rude incursion was ruining. Not to mention that its a little hard reaching for one's wallet with a gal on his lap. I was about to get up anyway when my dancer, who was understandably getting peeved at the waitress, pulled two ones out of her own money and paid her. I gave her an extra five at the end to make up for it.

    "Gee, I only waited twenty minutes for her to show up." I told the dancer. She replied, "That gal is, uhh, not very good."

    Now, I could have understood this little incident happening on a night when it was busy, but considering the circumstances, the whole thing was rather unexcusable. Having to put a dance on hold because I'm waiting for a drink is not my idea of a good time, nor is having the waitress interrupt me in the middle of it for something that could have waited another three minutes.

    I wouldn't have blamed my dancer a bit for giving that waitress a well deserved don't you ever interrupt one of my dances again chewing out, considering that I've seen customers get up and leave a club over a hell of a lot less.

    Any experiences like this one that cost you money, or could have cost you money, that you'd like to rant about?
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    Default Re:Ever have a bad waitress delay or interrupt your dance?

    wow. sucky. Sorry that happened to you.

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    Default Re:Ever have a bad waitress delay or interrupt your dance?

    I have had some Waitresses from time to time interupt during a Lap Dance. Mostly related to Drinks. One big problem with Strip Clubs is that Customer Service can be lacking. Problems with CR mostly come from Dancers themselves but Mgmt and DJ's can be bad in CR as well.

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    Oh, Christ, there is this one daytime waitress who is just awful at my club. I had to come get her for a customer who then tipped her $3 on a $3 drink in the hopes that she'd PAY ATTENTION to him - nope! When he needed another, she was nowhere to be found. The same girl was supposed to run a tab for another guy and get cash for his dances. Assuming she had it under control, I left the table after she got his card. About fifteen minutes later the CUSTOMER came up to me with the cash, saying that he'd decided to use his ATM card instead after she'd explained the fees to him. Did she bother to tell me that she hadn't collected the dance money? Hell no, but thankfully the guy was honest.

    At least the shitty service means they aren't coming over and interrupting dances!

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    Default Re:Ever have a bad waitress delay or interrupt your dance?

    Yikes, that is lame. But I'm sure the dancer talked to her about it afterwards. Maybe she just didn't want to make a scene. She must have been at LEAST as pissed off as you were
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    Default Re:Ever have a bad waitress delay or interrupt your dance?

    I probably would have done the same thing. Although at my club, the waitresses will put down the drink and "flag" the table to remind them to come back and collect the money when they see that the dance is done. Most of the waitresses are cool that way.

    Sorry to hear that happened to you. What a mood buster.

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    Default Re:Ever have a bad waitress delay or interrupt your dance?

    yes!!!! and it annoys the crap out of me!!!! I have even had another dancer interrupt my lap dance!

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    Default Re:Ever have a bad waitress delay or interrupt your dance?

    In five years it's never happened to me. But the floormen at mine and Bridgette's current club have no problem doing it! In fact it cost us a champagne room tonight. Fokkers...
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    Default Re:Ever have a bad waitress delay or interrupt your dance?

    I used to hang out in a little club where it was standard procedure if you were getting a lap dance a waitress would interrupt you to ask if you wanted to buy the lady a drink. I always made sure she already had one in advance. And I've been in several places where the waitresses regularly enter the VIP area for the same reason. I think it's a poor policy but some clubs are just like that. As we all know, it's all about the money and the waitress wants her share too.
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    I've had problems with the bartenders at my bar. During one SLOW day the bartender, who also dances a couple days a week FLASHED our ONLY customer for money with both dancers on duty sitting right there.
    I've also been ordered away from the bar by the bartender because she wanted to keep the customer there. in this case it was a basketball player but it turned out to be no big loss because the guy raped a stripper from another club. Am I wrong for thinking that it's wrong for the bartenders to be in competition with the dancers for money. I've had them hit me up for tips on the sodawater and juice I order when I've made basically no money, and by this I mean working for more than an hour and tips in the single digits. One said that she works for tips too. Well no the bartenders work for MINIMUM WAGE plus tips. I know this isn't much but FUCK. The way things are going it's not just possible but probable for me to work all day and go home with 10 or 20 bucks.

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    Default Re: Ever have a bad waitress delay or interrupt your dance?

    I rarely carry my money back to the lap dance area, so I doubt I would have paid for the drink (unless I happened to have some singles with me), but I most undoubtedly would have demanded she find you after the dance was over to give you your drink. You wouldn't be needing it back there anyway.

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    Oh, don't even get me started on some waitresses!!! Ok, what the hell! There's a couple of waitresses at my club that totally play the "their girl's" game and will set up VIP's for them, even if you're sitting with one of those guys, or hustled one or all of them first, will grab "their girl's", take everyone back to the VIP you and get you kicked out all within a matter of seconds before you even know what just happened! They've got that mastered down, it's almost like a science the way they do that. I WILL NOT allow that anymore, that happened to me ONCE!!!

    I also had a waitress actually check on us too much in VIP, every 10 min she'd come in and check on us and say "ok, you have 40 min left", then "Ok, now you have 30 min left" and so on, throughout the whole hour! THat was the first time the customer had done a VIP at our club and said it really pissed him off so much that it would be the last VIP at our club. I was still new to it all and still am really (6 months in) so I didn't know what to do. I know now.

    Yeah, it royally sucks when there's other idiot people that totally f$ck things up for you and you don't always have control over it!

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    Default Re: Ever have a bad waitress delay or interrupt your dance?

    Hmm. The waitstaff at our club are usually pretty good, but once there was a guy who would easily have bought dances and had brought in a huge stack of 20's. But his waitress wasn't any good and he had to get up and go all the way to the bar himself every time and shed come right when he got back. It pissed him off and he told me he'd come to spend alot of money but for this kind of service he didnt feel like he wanted to anymore.

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    Yeah, old thread, but still relevant.

    A waitress can either be your best friend or your worst enemy. Generally it's wise to get on their good side. Scratch their backs and they'll scratch yours. I'd rather be one of "their girls" than the opposite

    But they should know better than to interrupt a dance, generally. If a guy orders a drink and then starts a dance right after that, he and the dancer should EXPECT the waitress to be back during his dance to deliver the drink and get her money. She has no idea how long he'll be getting dances and shouldn't have to wait for him - she's got other customers to deal with too. But if she's just interrupting to ask for an order, that's different.

    I HATE waitresses and bartenders who try to compete with dancers for money. Meaning the ones who sit and chat them up for ages, flash them etc. If you're gonna try to act like a dancer to earn dancer money, get your ass up on stage, bitch!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette View Post
    If you're gonna try to act like a dancer to earn dancer money, get your ass up on stage, bitch!

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    Default Re: Ever have a bad waitress delay or interrupt your dance?

    yea totally resurrected thread. i remember this from when i first joined SW.

    at that time, i couldnt add to this, but now...

    there was this one waitress that got fired recently, she kept on interrupting custies WHILE we were lapdancing, asking if they wanted anotehr round. um, no! he's drinking me right now!

    Love it!

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    Oooo, I just had this happen to me last week! Although it wasn't the waitress, it was goddamn shooter bitch! She litterally came up to my custy while I was dancing for him, sat down on the couch with him and tried to make him buy shots! We both said no TWICE to her, and she still sat there until the guy just threw a $10 at her and told her to piss off. It was my first night in this club, so I didn't know if this was normal club behaviour, but it pissed me off. Thankfully my custy was good about it and I just kept on dancing!

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    I once had a cunt of a new idiot waitress tell one of my out of town regs who would bring me $ 500 wether I danced or not, and he'd only come in about once a month... sorry rambling, well, she was too lazy to go get me that she told him I wasn't working that night.

    I was the ONlY one he'd come see.... he turned around and left the club. I called him a while later to see why he wasn't there yet, and he told me what happened.

    It's not like they weren't saying my name all over the stage that night, or that she couldn't have yelled over to another waitress, manager, or door girl ( she was standing right by the enterance) she simply told him " sorry, she's not here tonight" I told that bitch she cost me $500 and that I was gioing to make her life hell for as long as she was there. She didn't work long, because she was accidently rude to the managers girlfriend who is also a dancer, but rarly works so a lot of people don't know who she is.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sinder View Post
    Oooo, I just had this happen to me last week! Although it wasn't the waitress, it was goddamn shooter bitch! She litterally came up to my custy while I was dancing for him, sat down on the couch with him and tried to make him buy shots! We both said no TWICE to her, and she still sat there until the guy just threw a $10 at her and told her to piss off. It was my first night in this club, so I didn't know if this was normal club behaviour, but it pissed me off. Thankfully my custy was good about it and I just kept on dancing!
    Oh nooooooooooOOOO!!! This kinda bitch does this because guys throw $ at her to make her leave. And she'll continue to do it as long as she keeps getting $ for it. Don't put up with it. Tell her loudly and firmly "hunny the CUSTOMER has said NO THANKS and he's trying to enjoy his dance. leave us alone!" I HATE shot whores

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