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    EDITon't know what possed me to post that other than was dumped basically(my own fault) by a fave dancer....Guess it was sort of a confession,lol....

    thanks,got some nice replies anyway...

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    Default Re:Things i've done wrong?

    No offense but i think you need a girlfriend.

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    LOL I think you may be right.

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    Default Re:Things i've done wrong?

    Yah, I got some advice...

    Start hitting full-bar club and toss back a few before getting dances. Sheesh, lighten up guy- it's a titty bar, not a Case Management Conference. Spend money, have a good time... it' supposed to be entertainment.

    On a lighter note, I'd like to nominate:
    "mmmm,salty..."
    as quote of the year LOL.
    It doesn't matter if you're somebody in this world, it rather matters you mean the whole world to somebody.

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    Default Re:Things i've done wrong?

    Am i doing things wrong?
    Yes.....you're asking a generally anonymous set of people for their opinions, rather than the ones you are paying for lap dances.
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    these make me laugh

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    Default Re:Things i've done wrong?

    ummmmmm......what was the question again?

    If the girls are ok with what you are doing then fine. But it sounds to me like they are putting up with your crap bcuz you spend a lot of $$$. If you ever pulled down on my outfit while I was grinding on you I'd slap you as hard as I could without hesitation.

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    I think you are thinking too much. Also maybe it is just the clubs I have gone to, but I have always found that dancers are very receptive to an honest (the keyword being honest) showing of affection. By honest I mean that you really like her, and you treat her the way you would if you met her outside of the club. If you met a woman you really liked outside of the club, would you start grabbing her tits and ass? Hell no... well at least I wouldn't. A hug, brushing hair out the eyes, taking her by the hand and leading her to the couch, etc., show her some honest to goodness affection and treat her the way you would any other woman and the rest just falls into place.

    Just my 2 cents.


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    If the girls are ok with what you are doing then fine. But it sounds to me like they are putting up with your crap bcuz you spend a lot of $$$.
    LOL.i consider my "crap" to be timid compared to what i've witnessed in that VIP room...give me a friggin break...The only reason i go to SC's is to spend money and have a little fun...It's near impossible to be a perfect audience unless the girl performs a certain way...and they can also make you look real bad before you even realize how stupid you just acted...

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    No offense again but I think you still need a girlfriend.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Audiense link=board=8;threadid=11396;start=msg143876#msg143 876 date=1090799667
    was dumped basically(my own fault) by a fave dancer....
    Dude... HOW do you get "dumped" by a dancer? I mean, as long as the cash is flowing, that's kind of the only pre-requisite LOL.

    Actually, wait a minute.. lemme guess...
    "mmmm, salty..."

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    "Dumped" by a dancer? A dancer you never saw outside of the club?

    I give you credit my man....that is not somethign easy to accomplish. You take the cake.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Audiense link=board=8;threadid=11396;start=msg143876#msg143 876 date=1090799667
    dumped basically(my own fault) by a fave dancer
    Just here to live and learn.

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    You are making this more difficult than needed... have fun, enjoy yourself and remember the "code".

    Hope you are doing better...


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    Default Re:What did i do wrong?

    I should just let this post die but i'm trying to raise my post count. :p


    Ok...I didn't get "dumped" just given some harsh words to the effect of i'm not a gentleman..Why?...well,i told the girl that she is getting fat,or at least thats how she took it...i feel real bad about it but it's too late to take it back now.It's even worst than it sounds...She's new to dancing and it was hard on her self esteem.I'll go into why i said what i did.I told her she was "getting bigger" but in reality she's stabilized at her normal(i assume) size now(35-24-34/5'3"/110lbs).
    Why?...because i've known her since she first started and back then she was real thin(34-22-32/5'3"/100lbs)(these sizes are approximations),lol,maybe all the free lunches she's getting have helped her gain her weight back,i don't know,didn't ask but it made me very happy to see her looking healthy.I should have brought that up but didn't...

    P.S. ...yes,i do need a girlfriend....

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    getting bigger
    Oh.....hahaha....DUDE! "getting bigger" is something that you must train yourself to NEVER say to a woman about herself, unless you know for a fact that the person is trying to get fat.

    "Looking healthy" would have been a good way to go.

    Now....all that aside....you must bite the bullet and FIND HER and TELL HER before she starts jamming her finger down her throat. She may not forgive you....that's just tough shit. You need to clear this up with her for the simple sake of honesty and integrity.
    "The problem with the world is that everyone is a few drinks behind."
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    Dude! Never tell a woman she's looking fat or bigger, especially when she's performing half naked and being evaluated all day by men and women. Saying she looks healthier too means the same thing; you don't look like yourself or the way you used to look was bad. Remember what these girls have to put up with all day. How would you like her to say to you, "gee A you sure smell nice today...what are you doing differently"?

    It kind of sounds from your previous posts that you don't talk much in the club and when you do what comes out sounds like insults. No offense but you sound kind of like I did before I got laid for the first time.

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    Well you left that detail out of the first and second post... What did you do wrong? You insulted her. Worse you insulted her about her bod... and she is in a profession where her bod is scrutinized closely all day. Definitely try to make that apology if you can.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Audiense link=board=8;threadid=11396;start=msg144806#msg144 806 date=1090964592
    I should just let this post die but i'm trying to raise my post count. :p


    Ok...I didn't get "dumped" just given some harsh words to the effect of i'm not a gentleman..Why?...well,i told the girl that she is getting fat,or at least thats how she took it...i feel real bad about it but it's too late to take it back now.It's even worst than it sounds...She's new to dancing and it was hard on her self esteem.I'll go into why i said what i did.I told her she was "getting bigger" but in reality she's stabilized at her normal(i assume) size now(35-24-34/5'3"/110lbs).
    Why?...because i've known her since she first started and back then she was real thin(34-22-32/5'3"/100lbs)(these sizes are approximations),lol,maybe all the free lunches she's getting have helped her gain her weight back,i don't know,didn't ask but it made me very happy to see her looking healthy.I should have brought that up but didn't...

    P.S. ...yes,i do need a girlfriend....

    okay, when I read this at first I was like: OMG you are horrible for telling her she's "fat" but I see your point. Perhaps though, it was better left unsaid.

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    Bend over... you need a spanking!


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    BTW- How much do YOU weigh.... something makes me think you might not have abs of steel yourself.... ???

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    Gynger is on the right track, actually.

    Offer up your hiney for a good smack for being a thoughtless, bumbling maroon and not stating things how you meant them.

    It doesn't matter if you're somebody in this world, it rather matters you mean the whole world to somebody.

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