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    I aspire to be a stripper...but I've never actually been in a club before ??? I hope that doesn't sound strange. But anyway.......
    I'd like to check out the one in my area but I'm nervous about going alone and I'm a little embarassed to ask any of my friends.

    I wouldn't mind going alone, but do clubs let in girls by themselves? And, also. Would people think I were a lesbian if I went in? What should I do?

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    Most of the clubs around me would require a male to escort a woman into the SC. I only know of one that would allow a group of women in without a guy, but not a woman on her own.

    I never really understoond this policy until one of the dancers on here mentioned that a single woman in a club might be suspected of being a prostitute and looking to pick up a male customer.

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    I'll go with you if your here in San Francisco. The other girls see you as competition for attention if your there alone. Plus customers get the wrong idea about why your there...my wife has been approached by customers even when she is with me.

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    It's very unlikely that people will think you're a lesbian, and even if they do, so what? Women are a regular sight at many clubs nowadays.

    Come in a group or with a guy you know.

    Oh, and if you DO live in SF, avoid Goldclubbing's offer at all costs. He might make you think it's normal to let customers feel your snatch.
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    Its you dancers who gave me that idea, I didn't think it up myself and certainly don't do it. Kind of harsh since I was just being friendly, but I do love that word "snatch", as in snatching money out of unsuspecting customers pockets.

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    another reason they dont let girls in alone....

    Some women are snooping around looking for their men ...they want the guys to feel "safe"

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    Quote Originally Posted by verfolgung link=board=25;threadid=11510;start=msg145918#msg14 5918 date=1091117606
    I never really understoond this policy...
    Perhaps... but the more likely rationale behind the policy is also the most obvious, as well as the most time-honored: odds are, a single girl wanting in is looking for her husband/SO, and nobody wants what follows if she's allowed in and finds him there, especially in the middle of a dance from ATF!
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    The no single girl policy is understandable, after all, there are "female" clubs that don't allow single males!



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    Quote Originally Posted by AinNY link=board=25;threadid=11510;start=msg145980#msg14 5980 date=1091123752
    another reason they dont let girls in alone....

    Some women are snooping around looking for their men ...they want the guys to feel "safe"
    Exactly what I was gonna say.

    Oh and to SexyCheer... If they think you are a lesbian, just say you arent and that you are there to check out the place.

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    No single women in the clubs? Damn...didn't know about this policy. That kind of leaves me ass out then as far as checking out the clubs, I'm by myself all of the time, and have no friends to hang out with...oh well...NEXT.
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    Lexi is right.
    If you just tell the managers (or doorman, whatever) that you are interested in work, they should let you in no problem. Or try calling first. I don't know why I didn't think of that before. (That's why you are moderator quality Lexi!!)



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    When you go just explain to the door person that you are thinking about trying for a job there and they should let you in. If the manager wants to talk to you, tell them that you have never been in a sc and you would like to observe for a little while before making a decision.

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    nobody will think you're gay. and nobody would care if you were.

    I would call the club first. Ask about audition requirements. Tell them you are new and can you come in to watch the other dancers because you've never been in a club before.

    There really shouldn't be any problem for you to go in alone and observe. Just don't mingle with the patrons.


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    Quote Originally Posted by hardkandee link=board=25;threadid=11510;start=msg146176#msg14 6176 date=1091142502
    Lexi is right.
    If you just tell the managers (or doorman, whatever) that you are interested in work, they should let you in no problem. Or try calling first. I don't know why I didn't think of that before. (That's why you are moderator quality Lexi!!)
    hahaha Thanks hun. I definitely think they will let you in if you tell them you are interested...
    Topaz, thats how you can get in as well.

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    Yeah, call first and say you're THINKING about dancing, but had never been to a club before. Don't commit yourself to a club just because it's the first one you walk into.
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    My first time at a strip club i went with three of my gf's to a club in florida and they almost didn't let us in because of their single grils policy. Once we assured the bouncer that we weren't looking for our husbands and just wanted to have fun he let us in provided that if anyone were to ask we had been escorted. I've never seen a problem anywhere else in the counrty, though. Just tell the bouncer that you are thinking about auditioning and want to check the place out - if they charge a cover they might waive it for ya If you're in SF the girls might approach you like your a lesbian for a dance since it isn't all that uncommon in this city (lol), but they'll back off if you tell them you're just there to watch. You might even consider asking the girls about the club but keep in mind that if it's busy they might be a little curt toward you. Personally, I'd go with a guy at least once before auditioning so that he could get a dance and let you know what the girls there are typically like (high contact, offering extras, etc.) You might what to consider another club if they do things you wouldn't want to.
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    oh, and you could check out myredbook.com for info. on the dancers and club reviews. if you search for the club you're checking in google you don't have to pay a member fee since it will display the page for you.
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    I agree with Sapphire and Lexi's suggestions.. call the club first, and make arrangements to go in if they have a no single girl rule.

    Keep us posted. Welcome to SW... lots of info for newbies getting into the business here...


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    Wow guys, this advice really helps a lot. I called the one club in my area and there answering machine said you can also send an e-mail so i did (haha ) I was also talking to my best friend and she said that she and this other girl would go with me to check it out, as well as 3 or 4 guys (who would let me know what they thought of it) they've been there before but they said they would try and pay attention to the things i asked them too. lol. I looked online and they have a ladies night where if you are escorted by a guy you can get in for free. Sweet. so I'll be going this wednesday.

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