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    My best friend just starting working with me. YEAH !were having a great time and banking ! the problem?

    i'm just starting to be accepted in the club [only been there 6 months ] and the other girls are REALLY hating us ! we do a lot of 2 girl dances and sit at each others stage with the guys and get em all worked up [having her take a doller from my breast , dancing on me , ect , ect ] and the men are eating it up. it's perfectly legal , and management is loving it , but the girls are giving us dirty looks and talking about us. and just when i was starting to fit in......
    so the question , should we keep doing it and make our money , or should we give it up before they try to kill us ?
    we're not trying to take anyones money , just trying to get ours. if we keep doing it , is there a way not to have everyone pissed?


    I bet you guys are sick of hearing my problems , but where else would i get such god advice? xoxoxoxoxo

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    Well, so much for finding a way to cover your ass re being there for the last 6 months, eh? 'Cause if the other girls hate you, they'll make sure he knows if he ever comes in... which, I assure you, he will once you've told him...

    So, round 2: Quit this club, tell him you want to start dancing, start at another club, and go back to this one in a few months when he's become used to the idea of your being a dancer.
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    There is NO WAY to make a lot of money at your club and not have someone pissed off about it. Dancing is highly competitive and there will always be at least one girl in the club (no matter what club you work at) who will be pissed that you're making more money than her.

    If you're there to make friends, then tone it down. But if you're there to make money, then I would keep doing what you're doing. It's sound like it's working well for you and your friend.

    Just try not to flaunt it in everyone's face. Like, don't count your money in front of the other girls. And don't ever brag about how much you made. If they ask how much you made just say that you "did okay, but it could be better." Also, make sure not to fuel their fire. (Don't do anything else to create drama. Just be polite and keep your business to yourself.)

    P.S.-GnBeret is right about them telling your man how long you've been there. So do yourself a favor and tell him before they do.

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    Hell, it isn't just the dancing business. I work in an office with oodles of people....women typically cannot work successfully with other women...and that's according to them, not me.
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    I agree with GnBeret, in that it comes down to why you are there. My guess is that you aren't taking your clothes off to make friends.

    One idea, that we used to use in my club:
    If you are doing doubles when there is another girl on stage in the same room, you ARE taking away from her set. Giver her $10 after you dance. If losing $5 each hurts your money from the double, its not worth doing and pissing everyone off. If she is losing more than $10 because of it, she isn't doing her job either. If you have a double where you make more than $100, total, give her 10%.

    Just remember that while you are there to make money, we don't live in a vaccuum. What you do does affect those around you, so remember to be fair. $5 each will go a LONG way towards goodwill.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Brooke link=board=27;threadid=11559;start=msg147046#msg14 7046 date=1091282487
    One idea, that we used to use in my club:
    If you are doing doubles when there is another girl on stage in the same room, you ARE taking away from her set. Giver her $10 after you dance. If losing $5 each hurts your money from the double, its not worth doing and pissing everyone off. If she is losing more than $10 because of it, she isn't doing her job either. If you have a double where you make more than $100, total, give her 10%.
    I do not agree with this one bit. You are not there to make friends...you are there to make money. If some girls are upset that you found a "money maker" tactic--without breaking club rules or the law--then they need to do the same. I would not reccommend that you give each girl that goes up on stage money after your double-dance during that stage set. No one will look at that money in a good light. They'll just need to either stop complaining and keeping tabs on what you do and spend the new extra time making money...or continue to sulk in a corner and lose out on the money. It's up to them and it's not YOUR responsibility to make sure that they are making money. Now if, on a night that your friend isn't working, one of the girls comes up to you and says that she would like to work a doubles team with you...I would also say, "go for it". THAT'S what earns more respect from the others...not giving them money (begins to look like you are making SOOO much money, you are giving them Hand-outs).

    Also, if you and your girlfriend are sitting stage side during another girls dance, then do to her what you would do for each other...encourage the customers to tip her and all. Men love that a lot...so don't just ignore the girl when she's up there.

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    Yeah, I'm gonna have to side with VG on that one. Bidness is bidness...paying them to appease them is akin to giving the bully your lunch money. Fuck 'em...let 'em get pissed.

    I also agree with VG about doing these things for the other dancers - that would likely take care of it. You and your pal have made a good team and you're doing well...but spread it around a little....you'll basically be teaching the others what they need to do to pull in the same money. In the end, everyone will benefit....including the club...because word WILL get out, and the customer base will grow.
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    Yeah, what Mojo said... keep the guy up at the stage for the dancer after your freind, and do the same with her.



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    thats a really good idea. any others? what should i say to someone who confronts me about it?

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    Heres my suggestion~~~~~

    Keep on doing what you are doing. Its obviously working.

    As for the other girls, well to be quite honest they dont pay your bills. Your not doing anything illlegal, heck your not doing extras.

    Mojo is right.......some , some women are just catty....

    Just be polite and ignore the rest.

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    wow cali tiff. you look hot in your avatar!!!!

    Hun you arent there to make friends. Keep it cool with everyone but make your money. No sense in trying to make friends in this business when its all about money. They would be the first to take that money if they were making it and others liked it.

    I lost my best friend when she started dancing with me. The guys that liked me didnt like her, and vice versa. I undertood that its part of the business...she took it personal.


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    dan , lexi , i'm sorry to hear that. that sucks ! i would be lying if i said i wasn't jealous of her sometimes , but i just think about all we been thru in the past.
    gee , now i'm nervous..................it is not worth losing her over

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    whatever's best for money is the best for you in this situation.

    if the other girls have a problem, they could always try teaming up with other girls too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kittie link=board=27;threadid=11559;start=msg146953#msg14 6953 date=1091257137
    There is NO WAY to make a lot of money at your club and not have someone pissed off about it. Dancing is highly competitive and there will always be at least one girl in the club (no matter what club you work at) who will be pissed that you're making more money than her.

    If you're there to make friends, then tone it down. But if you're there to make money, then I would keep doing what you're doing. It's sound like it's working well for you and your friend.

    Just try not to flaunt it in everyone's face. Like, don't count your money in front of the other girls. And don't ever brag about how much you made. If they ask how much you made just say that you "did okay, but it could be better." Also, make sure not to fuel their fire. (Don't do anything else to create drama. Just be polite and keep your business to yourself.)

    P.S.-GnBeret is right about them telling your man how long you've been there. So do yourself a favor and tell him before they do.
    i totally agree!

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    I agree with Venus goddess..
    I'm here to make money. NOT make friends, if I make a friend then it's a bonus.

    I'd rather be absolutely ridiculous that absolutely boring

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    Dude, it's not her "world" it's her job. It's not some sort of Pavlovian trance that dancers go into when they smell money, it's simply how they make a living.

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    If you work in a town with 24 clubs, then soon enough a new "flavor of the month" will show up for work and be the topic of discussion. Like kittie said dont create or add to their drama. Be polite and keep your business to yourself.
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    ! we do a lot of 2 girl dances and sit at each others stage with the guys and get em all worked up [having her take a doller from my breast , dancing on me , ect , ect ] and the men are eating it up. it's perfectly legal , and management is loving it , but the girls are giving us dirty looks and talking about us. and just when i was starting to fit in......
    Not intending to inspire paranoia here, but if you are working in a situation where lots of girls are pissed off at you, you may seriously want to talk to an attorney about exactly how legal what you are doing is under (I assume) Kentucky law just in case somebody decides to rat you out.

    I know for example that under the laws of some states two girls getting pseudo-intimate while customers are tipping CAN be construed as prostitution. Just because you don't think that you're doing anything illegal and the clubowner doesn't think that you're doing anything illegal, doesn't in fact mean that you can't be busted - especially if enough people start looking for ways to get rid of you !

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    Yeah , I belive i'll do that Melonie , just to be sure.........

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    Even though it comes up as brandy. This is her friend.
    I was very scared at first, brandy is more like a sister.
    Not only that I was sure her man would find out faster with
    both of us there. But actually it was a big ice braker for me with the guys. I`m vere sicure with myself , so what I do is when she goes on stage I drag a guy to her stage and most of the time I get a two girl show .I also make sure to not cut her out , like if i make more and we do a two girl I pay for the dance
    With my personality the girls like me so they talk to her more to.
    p.s I like the ideal of asking other girls to join in if one of us is not working

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    I agree with Venus on this one. She is 100% dead on about this.

    Secondly, Lexi- I had the same issue years ago, I danced with my best friend and all it did was cause problems within our friendship.. I ended up going to a different club and starting over.. in the end it was worth it.. and she and I still remained friends.

    Technically Brandy, I think that you should focus on making money.. Who cares what these other girls think anyways? More than likely, they are just irritated that they didn't think of the idea first.

    We do this at the club I am at- however, sometimes, we get into trouble. There are a few of us that are very close knit and sometimes we get a bit carried away...


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    I say just be civil to the other dancers do you own thing, but at the same time watch yourself because you never know what others are capable of doing.

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