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    the chippindale dancers...

    got me wondering...why is it that when a man gets nekked for money...everyone gets all excited...how cool is that...

    but when a woman gets nekked for money, she's a whore...and the lowest common denominator of all women...how could she do such a thing...my God...there are other things she could be doing...what a travesty...what a shame...

    why is that?
    Why do some people still have to fight...to get the same opportunities...that are given to others??...

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    Good point! But it's been like that since the begining of time, when a guy has 3-4 "girlfriends" he's "DA MAN" but when a girl does the same thing she's a slut. Stupid society standards, who makes up these standards anyway???

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    Well, it has to do with primitive history and biological programming. Men are programmed to "spread their seed" and women are programmed to secure a source to ensure the survival of offspring. A woman acting as if she is not "saving" herself for the job of baby machine is an ancient taboo.
    However, it's a big kick in the modern world to flout these ancient and mostly outdated rules and figure out ways to get by one's own, not depending on one man or society.

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    Women are also paid less than men for the same job. I, for one, have issues with that.

    unfortunately, no one listen s to me.....................
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    Except I have heard that women dancers make a hell of a lot more money when it comes to the dancing industry. Go figure...

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    Quote Originally Posted by VenusGoddess link=board=27;threadid=11610;start=msg147765#msg14 7765 date=1091420215
    Except I have heard that women dancers make a hell of a lot more money when it comes to the dancing industry. Go figure...
    exactly! So who cares what they think anyway?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lexi link=board=27;threadid=11610;start=msg147814#msg14 7814 date=1091431352
    Quote Originally Posted by VenusGoddess link=board=27;threadid=11610;start=msg147765#msg14 7765 date=1091420215
    Except I have heard that women dancers make a hell of a lot more money when it comes to the dancing industry. Go figure...
    exactly! So who cares what they think anyway?
    TOTALLY! I don't care what anyone thinks. I sleep with who I want to, and I dance. If someone wants to label me a slut, go for it. I'm sure I'm worried about it, since they are probably out sleeping with more people than I am.

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    Hypocracy--that's why. So many people look down on us for what we do for a living. It gets very hard at times to hold our heads up. Because of all of the mistreatment and nasty comments, Ive built up a barrier between myself and others. And the shitty part is that this protection can be mistook for bitchiness. So in a sense, Im screwed if I dont protect myself, and Im screwed if I do because I'm a bitch supposively because Im smart enough to really know what others say about me, and therefore act like the ones who say negative things dont exist, it's one of the only ways Ive found to effectively deal. I look out for #1 here, and screw all the negative stripper stereotypes--I ignore and override the ignorance.

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    Erotictonic--

    You're so right when you said "they are probably out sleeping with more people than I am". How true is that-- You're right on with that statement.
    I sleep with only 1 person, and have for years. Being devoted to one person doesn't make you a slut, stripper or not, last time I checked...

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    Ignorance.
    Let your indulgence set me free. - Shakespeare

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    Really wanna know? Read Masculine Dominance by Pierre Beurou.




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    Quote Originally Posted by VenusGoddess link=board=27;threadid=11610;start=msg147765#msg14 7765 date=1091420215
    Except I have heard that women dancers make a hell of a lot more money when it comes to the dancing industry. Go figure...
    I don't know, I thought so too but there are 2 male exotic dance clubs somewhat near my club and a lot of the girls at my club date the guys at the other club and the guys are only working 3 days a week but they leave with trunkloads full of money each time, and they don't do lapdances or anything! They just go on stage for one 15 min. show per shift and get stage tips. My friend's neighbor had 1300 in his trunk after one 15 minute show! I wish! LoL...

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    i always say, if it weren't for guys being pigs or human nature, we wouldn't have our job. if guys didn't pay for it, we wouldn't be here. so who cares what people think

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    i've come to the conclusion that we live in a world full of hypocrites, both male and female. and i know that i should be at an age where i shouldn't give a damn what people think...but the double standards still piss me off.

    guess i better get used to this if i'm going to become a dancer huh...
    Why do some people still have to fight...to get the same opportunities...that are given to others??...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Topaz link=board=27;threadid=11610;start=msg147619#msg14 7619 date=1091398692


    but when a woman gets nekked for money, she's a whore...and the lowest common denominator of all women...how could she do such a thing...my God...there are other things she could be doing...what a travesty...what a shame...

    Not all of us think this way.
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    well, I have noticed that the sterotype for male dancers is that they are all brain-dead, gigilo's that can't do anything else. So, what happens if that gorgeous man is happily married and has a brain? How do you think he feels?

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    Well, in Western cultures (as in most) the woman is looked at as "sacred" (or WAS looked at as sacred) so there are higher standards for her. We dont have to lift heavy things, we can cry in public ifwe want and we're pretty and graceful. (along with many other things).

    However, we were also expected as a result of this "sanctity" to stay in the house and tend to the family and make the house clean and pretty; we were too fragile and precious to be in the oh, so scary work force. (which if I was able to stay home and tend to family, I would, if I had a deserving man). Somewhere along the line some man perverted this "sacredness" of woman by saying he had more rights as a human than woman (in his ego and need to conquer), which our strong women of the 50's and 60's overturned in the womens lib movement.

    In other words, culturally and historically, what started off as women being sacred was perverted by man's ego and resulted in a double standard.

    Yay for the double standard, I say. Us women can uphold higher standards than men ANY day. To the haters who label us sluts, theyre just mad they cant uphold higher standards AND be sexual fantasies at the same time. They havent realized ... you can do both.
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