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    Quote Originally Posted by livenudegirlsunite link=board=27;threadid=11748;start=msg150305#msg15 0305 date=1091774799
    Leanne --I admire your gutsy attitude towards life. I am just learning how to throw away all of the '70's feminist ideals towards women in the work place. .
    Thats awesome, thank you babe!!
    My boss isnt bothered by what I do at night - maybe sexually bothered-lol-
    I think its because he knew me for a year and a half before he knew I was dancing, so he saw that Im intelligent, a moral person, and awesome at what I do with no stigma clouding his vision (I think his impression might be different if he knew from the get-go) , and now that he knows what i do at night, it cant change his impression of me, because hes already known me this long.

    Im coming to the conclusion that in another sitaution, this might be certain death in the workplace, but here, i dont think im going to have any problems, as long as we just dont talk about it or focus on it too much.
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    Quote Originally Posted by tampafldancer link=board=27;threadid=11748;start=msg150277#msg15 0277 date=1091768805
    leanne.. Dont worry sweetie. Just get the knowledge and position and slowly move on to another office.

    Once you have the experience, you can move on.

    If it was me, i would have hid in the back all night, but it seems you took advantage of the situation(in a good way) and nothing negative has resulted!! so its all good!
    Thank you for the support babe! everythings all good right now. ...
    Leanne

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    I hear by nominate this thread for "Best Current Event Drama" Topic. Hear hear... Good story line with excellent details.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kitana link=board=27;threadid=11748;start=msg150284#msg15 0284 date=1091771063
    I have to disagree with Tampa on the hiding part. If I had another job besides dancing and my "real job" boss came into my club, hell yes I would take every dime he had. I work for him by day in his world, so when he comes to my world he better be working for me!
    That was EXACTLY my mindset.
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    Kitana, we must think A LOT alike. Almost everything you said, I was like, "uh huh. me, too. uh-huh. me, too. Awesome!
    Leanne

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    Quote Originally Posted by sitri link=board=27;threadid=11748;start=msg150537#msg15 0537 date=1091801530
    I hear by nominate this thread for "Best Current Event Drama" Topic. Hear hear... Good story line with excellent details.
    LMAO!!!!!
    Leanne

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    okay, so anyways, to update, yesterday he came in and was normal like nothing happened, and then when he was giving me stuff to do, he said, "Well Im glad you made it home okay last night, I had a good time at your club!" and I was like, Thats great, its an awesome bar, its not too uppity, the girls are pretty and everyones friendly.. and he was like, Yeah, too bad its in Pinellas, or I would go every week! And I laughed and said, Thank God its in pinellas! and we both just laughed and he said, "Well I noticed my cell phone didnt ring last night after I left," and I said, "Why would it have rung? The night was over.." and he laughed and said, I know, I know. I was just letting you know I noticed that. and I said ok, and then the phone rang and it was for him, and the rest of the day was like normal.

    to day hes out of town, so by Monday it will have blown over, not been forgotten about, but blown over.
    Leanne

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    He actually brought it up at your "day job"?What cahunas!
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    Equality is a decent goal to strive for, what was wrong with it?
    They tried it, decided they didn't like it after all, and went back to using feminine wiles where and when they could to maximum advantage--just like they've done for millenia.
    Idealism is fine, but as it approaches reality, the costs become prohibitive.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Casual Observer link=board=27;threadid=11748;start=msg150609#msg15 0609 date=1091805132
    Equality is a decent goal to strive for, what was wrong with it?
    They tried it, decided they didn't like it after all, and went back to using feminine wiles where and when they could to maximum advantage--just like they've done for millenia.
    What move did females make to convey that we didnt like equality? Equality was about females having the same basic human rights as men! The right to vote, the right to work, etc.!

    Do you think we dont want or deserve these rights? What exactly are you saying?

    I have seen men live off of women, using their own "masculine wiles" to dupe women, and take advantage of them in every way possible, just as I have seen women do!

    It goes both ways! I think you need to clarify your statement, if you can.
    Leanne

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    I'm glad things seemed to work out pretty good. It sounds like it will all be okay. Definitely doesn't sound as serious as some people made it out to be or maybe I have no idea what I'm talking about.

    I checked out your club and the review of it you left in the Clubs & Review, it looks very good. I especially like that it's full bikini club. I would love to work at a place like that.

    Anyways continued Good Luck with your job and dancing. Have a Good Weekend.

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    OH HELL NO.. I wouldn't use this to your advantage at all.. because he could use it to YOUR disadvantage if you ever piss him off!

    Secondly, Sexual Harassment is against the law and you should report him- there are so many women who are getting unwanted sexual harrassment and don't dare speak up because their jobs are threatened etc. I think you are making a huge mistake in thinking that if you use the misfortune of him now knowing you dance and allowing him to continue his behavior in the workplace as an advantage for you.

    Third, I wouldn't have danced for him. I do not dance for those I know outside of the club. No exceptions.

    I currently took a position in a very reputable law firm in my area, thru a regular (whom I have never danced for).. he knows what I do, and he doesn't care and although I have decided to retire, he and I have an agreement that what goes on outside of the office stays outside of the office- and such should be the case with you.

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    I'm not a dancer or a female for that matter but here's my opinion (and you know what they say about opinions):

    Dancing for your boss was probably a mistake. It's one thing to say that your boss was just another customer, in the club he's in your own domain, so hustle him for all the $20's he's carrying. However - this completely ignores the fact that you have a "relationship" (albeit a working relationship) with him and things are never as simple as that in real life.

    Dancing for him will have consequences. He may be "cool" about the whole thing and not let the fact that you were lapping him the night before affect your working relationship. However, several threads have dealt with the "public's" perception of strippers and what strippers do - most of these perceptions are somewhat negative. The fact that he has already been sexually harrassing you in the past makes things even worse. And depending on how discrete he is, every one of your co-workers may find out about what you do after-hours and depending on the people involved, this may or may not affect your daylight hours career. Again, it's one thing to say that what you do outside the office is your own business and it should have no bearing on your daytime career...and reality is a different matter altogether.

    Like it or not, dancing for your boss (especially a boss who has been sexually aggressive towards you in the workplace) will have consequences. It's not as bad as if you danced for your dad, or your brother or your brother-in-law...but these are consequences nonetheless and something which you should prepare yourself to deal with in the future.

    Just my opinion, of course.

    P.S.: I hope I'm completely wrong and that everything turns out swimmingly.

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    As you said, the line has already been crossed. Whatever does or doesn't happen next will depend on how cool your boss actually is.

    I agree with Jenna that it might not hurt to do some research into a different day job. This situation has the potential of turning ugly in a big hurry if office blabbermouths wind up informing upper management that you are a stripper and that you and your boss have crossed paths outside the office.

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    Another thing is that if your boss continues to sexually harrass you at work and things DO get ugly, the fact that you danced for him might come up and undermine any lawsuit you may bring up against him or the company you work for.

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    Quote Originally Posted by castiglione link=board=27;threadid=11748;start=msg151426#msg15 1426 date=1091895919
    Another thing is that if your boss continues to sexually harrass you at work and things DO get ugly, the fact that you danced for him might come up and undermine any lawsuit you may bring up against him or the company you work for.
    MIGHT? I would substitute that with "Most surely will".

    I find it funny that women want to "get ahead on their skills and merits" and then think that it's perfectly acceptable to use a "sex card" to help them get/stay ahead or get "preferential treatment". Then, they wonder why they have trouble being taken seriously. Hopefully, Leanne, this won't hurt your job standing...THIS TIME. But, rest assured that if you continue to rely on your "sexual attractiveness" to get you special priviledges in the office (you call it opportunity)...the other women will see it. No matter how cool you think those other women are, when they see a rat, they all go ape-shit. Especially if they believe that you are, in some way, exchanging sexual favors for your position, etc. It's the exact same mentality as "clean" strippers getting pissed off at "dirty" strippers.

    Just a word of caution and a heads up.

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    Quote Originally Posted by VenusGoddess link=board=27;threadid=11748;start=msg152030#msg15 2030 date=1091977778
    Quote Originally Posted by castiglione link=board=27;threadid=11748;start=msg151426#msg15 1426 date=1091895919
    Another thing is that if your boss continues to sexually harrass you at work and things DO get ugly, the fact that you danced for him might come up and undermine any lawsuit you may bring up against him or the company you work for.
    MIGHT? I would substitute that with "Most surely will".

    I find it funny that women want to "get ahead on their skills and merits" and then think that it's perfectly acceptable to use a "sex card" to help them get/stay ahead or get "preferential treatment". Then, they wonder why they have trouble being taken seriously. Hopefully, Leanne, this won't hurt your job standing...THIS TIME. But, rest assured that if you continue to rely on your "sexual attractiveness" to get you special priviledges in the office (you call it opportunity)...the other women will see it. No matter how cool you think those other women are, when they see a rat, they all go ape-shit. Especially if they believe that you are, in some way, exchanging sexual favors for your position, etc. It's the exact same mentality as "clean" strippers getting pissed off at "dirty" strippers.

    Just a word of caution and a heads up.
    I hear you. I am a hard worker, I love what I do (the day job, of course) , and I get better at it every day. I dont dress provocatively and I havent gotten any "special" opportunities or privileges thus far; except the ones I have worked for . I was offered the promotion I am training for when I was 7 months pregnant, so I know hes not just offering it to me to get into my pants.
    Im pretty conservative at work, I think thats why he was very surprised to see me at the night job.

    Like I said earlier, he already has a certain first impression of me, I dont think its going to change THAT much from finding out what I do at night. If anything, I can always say that I quit.

    Also, there are no other women at my firm, just him, me and two other appraisers.
    Leanne

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    wow what are the chances of that...damn

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    ^ You do know this thread is 7 years old???

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