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    okay so i did something very lame. i joined one of these ratings sites where u post ur pic up & they rate u. this site has its own forum & ive been posting there for a good six months. ive webcammed w/ a few guys here & there then suddenly... this one guy... posted a screenshot & video of my webcam sessions w/ him. yeah, i got topless & showed him my ass. its been on this porn search engine for like 5 weeks!

    needless to say, i have been branded an E-Whore by all my MSN & AIM friends from that particular forum. whats worse is, they have my real name along w/ my pics. PLUS... i have a BF & i'm scared as hell he'll find out. i know im not suppose to be upset coz im a stripper but the intolerance by society, in general is killing me. also... i feel so cheap. i feel like i gave a free private show. i mean that is possibly THE lamest thing to do online if ur gettin paid for it in real life, in my humble opinion.


    so... WTF should i do? ive been crying for days. HELP!

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    There is nothing wrong with what you did....except that you did it for someone who is untrustworthy, and you did it without your boyfriend knowing(i dont know if he'd care, but he might).

    Theres not much you can do...unless you want to take legal action....but thats probably not worth it.

    Try contacting the operators of the porn search engine...if you can find them....and ask them to remove it.

    Dont feel so bad....it could happen to anyone....im sure it will fade from everyones memories very soon. Just try and ride it out. Most likely nothing will come of it.

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    Yeah,I agree.I wouldn't do that without your boyfriend knowing anymore.
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    yeah, suing him will end up costing me more money. i guess its a lesson learned. ill just let it go & hope time will erase the memories. and no, im not tellin my bf that ive been cam whoring. LOL!

    he would totally sh1t if he found out!

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    Not much you can do.

    If you can give me an IP addy, i can, uh, do somethig... But even that won't take things down from the internet. Once something is up, hun it's up. There's no taking it down.

    Oh, and no-one with sense thinks you are a slut. You have potential friends here.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Madcap link=board=1;threadid=11785;start=msg150462#msg150 462 date=1091794583
    Not much you can do.

    If you can give me an IP addy, i can, uh, do somethig... But even that won't take things down from the internet. Once something is up, hun it's up. There's no taking it down.

    Oh, and no-one with sense thinks you are a slut. You have potential friends here.
    U ROCK!

    im glad i got advice from this place. *sigh* now i can sleep better.

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    damn this happend to me, and my pics ended up on TWO websites, I was bored in seattle ok drinking a bit to much red wine haha! Anyway a friend spotted the pics on one site and emailed me and then I emailed the webmaster gave her some identity and she was nice to remove them straight away. The other website damn I had to get my step father involved they ignored my plea so he got hot and heavy with them and the removed my pics. So go straight to the webmaster girl.., or do as madcap says . I know there are always going to be more pics out there, but I like to say prove it thats just some chick that looks like me haha.
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    Kelly has the right idea.

    EDIT: PM me an IP addy.

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    Most web masters will take something like that down if you request it. There are so many girls out there willing to show their "thang" that, honey you're replaceable if you are that much trouble.

    Something simular happened to a friend of a friend. Some person had taken pictures from one site, and posted them on another site with a whole lot of story telling.

    I told them to send a note to the webmaster account, the administration account on the domain registration, and to the ISP of the web site stating this was a violation of copyright law.

    Let me tell ya, a site operator will listen to their ISP saying "You need to get this resolved or we are cutting the line" far faster than an angry father or even a lawyer.

    As far as the boyfriend - I'm sorry, but you were cheating and you have the potential of being busted badly.

    As for the other people - the best you could say is "I hope you never have a confidence broken by someone you meet. Let what happened to me be a lesson to you." Just stop interacting with them if they are going to be mean to you.

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    Go to netsol.com
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    Results will show domain holder and an email account

    Determine a site's ISP

    Do a traceroute (or tracert on windows) to the website in question

    For example:

    traceroute stripperweb.com

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    10 pos1-0.cr02.ash01.pccwbtn.net (63.216.0.86) 91.334 ms 51.992 ms 52.509 ms
    11 carpathiahosting.ge4-1.2.cr02.ash01.pccwbtn.net (209.8.161.42) 53.416 ms 51.78 ms 68.267 ms
    12 ashb.ge-0-1-1-0.edge1.cirn.net (66.117.32.77) 65.114 ms 50.714 ms 54.27 ms
    13 66.117.44.7 (66.117.44.7) 59.756 ms 51.754 ms 57.525 ms
    14 goluna.ve.carpathiahost.net (66.117.45.170) 64.601 ms 52.363 ms 54.591 ms

    Carpathiahost.net is the hosting service of stripperweb.

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    One thing i don't get: You showed off your tits, pooja, how does that make you a slut???

    That's some shit i din't get. Maybe because i'm a guy. I dunno. I don't think you are a slut though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Madcap link=board=1;threadid=11785;start=msg150480#msg150 480 date=1091798143
    One thing i don't get: You showed off your tits, pooja, how does that make you a slut???

    That's some shit i din't get. Maybe because i'm a guy. I dunno. I don't think you are a slut though.
    the forum was a cultural forum specifically for desis. (indian/pakistani people). i'm indian. there are unwritten rules in my 'culture'. its like i live in 2 worlds. so i decided to live out my new found sensuality (thanks to stripping) by camming w/ guys. it turned really bad. i went from trusted friend to E-Skank.

    its hard to explain. where my rents r from, a girl must remain a virgin up until her arranged marriage. anything more than holding a guy's hand is considered 'intimate'.

    it sux.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Deogol link=board=1;threadid=11785;start=msg150478#msg150 478 date=1091797410
    Most web masters will take something like that down if you request it. There are so many girls out there willing to show their "thang" that, honey you're replaceable if you are that much trouble.

    Something simular happened to a friend of a friend. Some person had taken pictures from one site, and posted them on another site with a whole lot of story telling.

    I told them to send a note to the webmaster account, the administration account on the domain registration, and to the ISP of the web site stating this was a violation of copyright law.

    Let me tell ya, a site operator will listen to their ISP saying "You need to get this resolved or we are cutting the line" far faster than an angry father or even a lawyer.

    As far as the boyfriend - I'm sorry, but you were cheating and you have the potential of being busted badly.

    As for the other people - the best you could say is "I hope you never have a confidence broken by someone you meet. Let what happened to me be a lesson to you." Just stop interacting with them if they are going to be mean to you.

    Appendix A:

    Finding the domain administrator

    Go to netsol.com
    Click Whois
    Enter domain name
    Results will show domain holder and an email account

    Determine a site's ISP

    Do a traceroute (or tracert on windows) to the website in question

    For example:

    traceroute stripperweb.com

    ....
    10 pos1-0.cr02.ash01.pccwbtn.net (63.216.0.86) 91.334 ms 51.992 ms 52.509 ms
    11 carpathiahosting.ge4-1.2.cr02.ash01.pccwbtn.net (209.8.161.42) 53.416 ms 51.78 ms 68.267 ms
    12 ashb.ge-0-1-1-0.edge1.cirn.net (66.117.32.77) 65.114 ms 50.714 ms 54.27 ms
    13 66.117.44.7 (66.117.44.7) 59.756 ms 51.754 ms 57.525 ms
    14 goluna.ve.carpathiahost.net (66.117.45.170) 64.601 ms 52.363 ms 54.591 ms

    Carpathiahost.net is the hosting service of stripperweb.
    WOW, thanx! imma do it right now. crossin my fingers that it works.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pooja link=board=1;threadid=11785;start=msg150790#msg150 790 date=1091819545
    the forum was a cultural forum specifically for desis. (indian/pakistani people). i'm indian. there are unwritten rules in my 'culture'. its like i live in 2 worlds. so i decided to live out my new found sensuality (thanks to stripping) by camming w/ guys. it turned really bad. i went from trusted friend to E-Skank.

    its hard to explain. where my rents r from, a girl must remain a virgin up until her arranged marriage. anything more than holding a guy's hand is considered 'intimate'.

    it sux.
    Thats rough...

    Its like a girl i know who is egyptian...shes not allowed to date at all...let alone someone who isnt egyptian/muslim..this doesnt work out with what i had planned

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    Quote Originally Posted by kellyallstar link=board=1;threadid=11785;start=msg150467#msg150 467 date=1091796078
    damn this happend to me, and my pics ended up on TWO websites, I was bored in seattle ok drinking a bit to much red wine haha! Anyway a friend spotted the pics on one site and emailed me and then I emailed the webmaster gave her some identity and she was nice to remove them straight away. The other website damn I had to get my step father involved they ignored my plea so he got hot and heavy with them and the removed my pics. So go straight to the webmaster girl.., or do as madcap says . I know there are always going to be more pics out there, but I like to say prove it thats just some chick that looks like me haha.
    :o LOL!

    i was thinkin of tellin people that it isnt me. imma just say im a 50 year old fat guy posting pix of some random gurl. thanx for the advice.

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    just send a lettter to the websites...and all other porn sites if you can...saying you're so and so, here's your phone number (make it clear not for publication) and if they have pics of you (attach one) they should remove it or face legal action. they WILL take you down/

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    First demand the pictures be taken off any sites you know of. Web masters will do it! Also, you can always (if the urge hits again) do shots with no face showing.

    I have and am all over the net doing everything, but because i CAN now. I had trouble with one website i posed nude for, and requested my pics. off. He said no, it was his site, i simply contacted an internet lawyer made conversation on his toll free number, he found the site owners IP, po box and real name.
    That was all i neede to scare him. My pictures came off. But again, unlike you hun, i just don't give a shit anymore. It's my life, and i'm going out with a bang!

    Good luck,

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pamela link=board=1;threadid=11785;start=msg150816#msg150 816 date=1091821836
    First demand the pictures be taken off any sites you know of. Web masters will do it! Also, you can always (if the urge hits again) do shots with no face showing.

    I have and am all over the net doing everything, but because i CAN now. I had trouble with one website i posed nude for, and requested my pics. off. He said no, it was his site, i simply contacted an internet lawyer made conversation on his toll free number, he found the site owners IP, po box and real name.
    That was all i neede to scare him. My pictures came off. But again, unlike you hun, i just don't give a shit anymore. It's my life, and i'm going out with a bang!

    Good luck,

    Pamela
    man, i wish i knew an internet lawyer. those fuckerz still havent
    taken that thread & my pix down.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AinNY link=board=1;threadid=11785;start=msg150793#msg150 793 date=1091819925
    Quote Originally Posted by pooja link=board=1;threadid=11785;start=msg150790#msg150 790 date=1091819545
    the forum was a cultural forum specifically for desis. (indian/pakistani people). i'm indian. there are unwritten rules in my 'culture'. its like i live in 2 worlds. so i decided to live out my new found sensuality (thanks to stripping) by camming w/ guys. it turned really bad. i went from trusted friend to E-Skank.

    its hard to explain. where my rents r from, a girl must remain a virgin up until her arranged marriage. anything more than holding a guy's hand is considered 'intimate'.

    it sux.
    Thats rough...

    Its like a girl i know who is egyptian...shes not allowed to date at all...let alone someone who isnt egyptian/muslim..this doesnt work out with what i had planned
    Reminds me of a girl I was working with. I was like "We should go out" cuz she is a hot asian with big boobs, employed, and actually intelligent.

    She said "No... my mother is very conservative. I bring a white man home, she will ask "Why you date that white devil?!?! There many good vietnamese men here!"

    I wanted to say "That ain't conservative, that's racist" but just smiled and held my tongue.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pooja link=board=1;threadid=11785;start=msg151271#msg151 271 date=1091867918
    Quote Originally Posted by Pamela link=board=1;threadid=11785;start=msg150816#msg150 816 date=1091821836
    First demand the pictures be taken off any sites you know of. Web masters will do it! Also, you can always (if the urge hits again) do shots with no face showing.

    I have and am all over the net doing everything, but because i CAN now. I had trouble with one website i posed nude for, and requested my pics. off. He said no, it was his site, i simply contacted an internet lawyer made conversation on his toll free number, he found the site owners IP, po box and real name.
    That was all i neede to scare him. My pictures came off. But again, unlike you hun, i just don't give a shit anymore. It's my life, and i'm going out with a bang!

    Good luck,

    Pamela
    man, i wish i knew an internet lawyer. those fuckerz still havent
    taken that thread & my pix down.
    Its gonna take time, it is the weekend.

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    Wish I was an e-slut.
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    Hi hun,

    I started here, they answered my questions free, and sent me a few more sites where i hooked up with a very nice "sex law" lawyer who helped greatly. EDIT: forgot the link, here you go.

    Good luck.

    Pamela

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    when webcam became popular I tried it out 4 fun.... I'm a bit of an exibitionist, I guess thats obvious since I strip ....lol but I'm glad I wore some sunglasses to help protect my id...... at that time I wasnt aware of how easy it is to record & reply or print images from cam play but I was aware that u never know who is on the other end, so I took some precautions.

    There's nothing wrong w/ doing cam play and it can be fun 2 but its best to take some time to protect ur id.... u can change isp or email address easily enough but its a bit harder to change what u look like...... I suggest anyone doing cam play 4 fun alter their look w/ something as simple as sunglasses or a wig or a zorro type mask or something like that.

    Sorry that happened to u but at least u have learned something useful..... Like everything else in life... have ur fun but remember to take safety precautions

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    So...ummm...can we get the URL?
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