I've heard bad things hinted and good things said about regulars...how do you feel?
STAY AWAY FROM MY MAN BITCH!
Yay! ..so and so is here
ahh....time to go to work
What a loser!
YEEEEEEUKK!!!! ..I hate that guy!!
I've heard bad things hinted and good things said about regulars...how do you feel?
I'll be thinking about this poll tomorrow when I am enjoying my private with Miss DIf the results are not in my favor I wont tell her
Ignorance is bliss
FBR
Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.
No matter how "gross" a guy is... if he's a reg who spends a lot... or ANYTHING at all. My feelings are: YAY!
If he's a reg that is known for not spending ANYTHING... but rather, tying you up for an hour talking your ear off, and not spending a dime (but HINTING that he might if you just stay a while longer)I think: ugh! I hate that guy...
PBCF you should kick those "regulars" to the curb and hook up with me
FBR
Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.
love to doll!Originally Posted by FBR link=board=8;threadid=11814;start=msg150988#msg150 988 date=1091834560
On a slow night, there's nothing like seeing a regular come in ready to have some fun and spend some cash.
Dancing is wonderful training for girls, it's the first way you learn to guess what a man is going to do before he does it. ~Christopher Morley, Kitty Foyle



there are some weird regulars there are some kewl ones so the reaction is different
I picked Yay as well. I like all of my regulars, thank goodness.![]()
In my experience most dancers would rather spend their time with people they know, it makes the job both more fun and easier, even if they might be making a little more by hustling strangers all night. Contrary to what a lot of people say here, it's not only about the money for a lot of girls. Many, perhaps most, dancers are not trying to maximize their income if it makes the job less fun.
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I've had regulars who are "high maintenance" so it was with a little groin... they had their time as I passed them onto other dancers (gradually). The ones I'm![]()
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about are the ones I get along with easily and spend decent $$ on me
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I live in Vegas so that I don't have to deal with regulars. I think that they are a pain to deal with. They usually want to have a relationship outside of the club. There is a reason why hookers make so much more than dancers. I'd rather be a dancer.
Most people prefer to believe their leaders are just and fair even in the face of evidence to the contrary, because once a citizen acknowledges that the government under which they live is lying and corrupt, the citizen has to choose what he or she will do about it. - M Rivero
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I like some of them, not so fond of some of them. Have this odd one now, I feel like I'm walking on eggshells with this guy, he always talks about how he has treated old faves and it's never good, he always sounds like he was irritated or bored with them, so I'm like "uhhh, okay, whatever - can't you just let me do dances?" 'Cept the dances too are weird, like the other day he had me stand far away and close my eyes and try to "dance like no one is around" which, uhm, didn't go so well because it was weird - "No, do this, it's more natural!" >.<
Uhhhm, sorry about the tangent, I'm not terribly fond of this guy. Regs I like: My d&d guy who usually spends at least a little money, russian student at my school, one or two others.
One thing I don't like about regs with multiple faves, when they come in, you chat a little, ask if they're interested in a dance tonight "Oh, maybe later" get dances from 5 other dancers and then are like "uhh. No."![]()
"I still have my name
I still have my face
I have not run away from home
Doesn't seem so long
If I now embrace
Every single thing I've never known"
I learned in sales that its much easier and more cost effective to get additional business from existing customers than to seek out new ones. New customers are more exciting due to the challenge and adreneline rush but are expensive and time consuming to recruit. In the meantime the existing customers can drift away if they feel neglected. Sales 101 in "regular" business as well as SC business IMO.
FBR
Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.
I've known a couple of dancers who have yelled my name when I walked into a club. Am I the only one? Hell no. Excellent sales strategery? Hell yes.
"The problem with the world is that everyone is a few drinks behind."
-Humphrey Bogart
"Sir, if you were my husband, I would poison your drink."
-Lady Astor to Winston Churchill
"Madam, if you were my wife, I would drink it."
-His reply
"If God had intended us to drink beer, He would have given us stomachs."
-David Daye
I agree with FBR...if you neglect your customers they find someone who won't. The other day I stopped in for a drink at the club and sat at the bar...my "regular" girl was no where to be found and hadn't answered her phone so I assumed she was making money seducing some guys wallet. It was very slow that day so another girl who has seen me in there before came over. She knows who I'm there for but she put on the full hustle. It turns out my favorite was in the bathroom and came right over to let me know she was just waiting for her customer to get a dance but she seemed upset to see me talking to this other girl since I usually just wait for her. But this other girl had a good game but I found later that she was a "regular" thief, she would follow my friend around to see what we liked and then cultivate them for her own needs. Later when my friend was done with business and ready for mine she told me what the girl was doing and how much it pissed her off...as she said there is an ettiquette in all business and that dancer was simply a customer poaching ho-bag. (I guess she was a little upset)
PS: have any of you had a dancer be concerned for you when a dancer they know to have an evil game or bad intentions trys to hustle you? I know my friend likes me as a regular and would hate to lose me but I kind of felt like she was protecting me from this girl.
GC the only thing she is protecting is her earnings LOL Have you forgetten that dancers are territorial and view us as property? As friendly as the relationship can get (and believe me it can get very friendly in the right circumstancesOriginally Posted by goldclubbing link=board=8;threadid=11814;start=msg158599#msg158 599 date=1092857055
) its all about business and the associated give and take...you give they take
FBR
Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.
Originally Posted by FBR link=board=8;threadid=11814;start=msg158767#msg158 767 date=1092872942
Unfortunately I have to agree. to an EXTENT. I warned a guy last night about a girl that REALLY DOES have a rep. (heard it straight from the horses mouth!) for thieving guys by tacking on x-tra dances, and even pick-pocketing. The guy didn't buy any dances from me (which ultimately isn't what I was after from him anyhow), but gave me $10 for the tip-off.
I normally wouldn't do this though, because that's just the way that girl plays the game. To each her own. I try to stay out of peoples business. But the guy was just so sweet and nice, *not to mention seemed naive to the whole strip club game* I couldn't help it. I didn't want to see him get taken.
(unless of course she "takes" him fairly...)
I wasn't worried about being taken for money, but it renews my faith that you helped this guy out it PBCF. It was more that this girl was a backstabbing bitch and in your face about it with the other girls. As far as protecting her territory FBR-that doesn't bother me one bit...I'm only in there to see her anyway. As far as give and take...I'm only giving her money...what I get in return far outways that.
I couldn't be nearly as successful without them, and I truely appreciate them for that.
If you can't get rid of the skeleton in your closet, you'd best teach it to dance.-George Bernard Shaw
GC were in agreement Im sure. I was just reminding you because I know how good these ladies are and how easy it is to forget sometimes that its just business.Originally Posted by goldclubbing link=board=8;threadid=11814;start=msg158952#msg158 952 date=1092894955
FBR
Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.
Brooke youre my kind of entertainer and I appreciate your comment.Originally Posted by Brooke link=board=8;threadid=11814;start=msg159044#msg159 044 date=1092914366
Hope you dont consider that an insult LOL
FBR
Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.
First off i want to apologize for the first or top reason of what entertainers think about their regulars in the poll.The comment "stay away from my man bitch " is making me embarrassed but it was an extreme that i thought to use at the time...sorry for the comment if it offended anyone.
Secondly the reason i made the post was this.I'll be honest and come right out and say that Dancers can be mean sometimes and i was wondering if the phrase "Familiarity breeds contempt" is common,in private,in this buisness.
sometimes ignorance is bliss
A customer can't be poached unless he allows himself to be.
I really don't like dealing with regulars and luckily haven't had to in a long time due to the nature of the clubs I've worked in.
They nearly always seem to want more and more from dancers and it just sucks up too much time and energy. Then there's of course the ones that stop coming to see you once it's clear you won't ever fuck them.
I'd just rather go into work, look foxy and turn on the charm, do my dances/Champagne room and that's that.
"She has written so well, and marvellously well, that I was completely ashamed of myself as a writer...But this girl, who is to my knowledge very unpleasant and we might even say a high-grade bitch, can write rings around all of us who consider ourselves as writers"
Ernest Hemingway on writer, aviation pioneer and horse trainer Beryl Markham
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