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    The girls I tip the most are the ones who sit down and actually have a normal conversation. I am 23 years old so I can usually relate pretty well with them. The absolute worst is when I girl just asks "Wanna Dance?". Then when you say no you get a rude glare and she walks away. One girl actually replied "No one ever turns me down for a dance." Haha yeah right sweetie! Cuz I just did! The other night a girl was actually nagging me for a good 2 hours to get a dance. I could tell she wasn't making much money. She didn't have any confidence in herself and no personality. I finally gave in and wasted my money because I didn't enjoy it. Then she came back and nagged me again because I was leaving. She said come back tomorrow, yeah right like I can spend another $300 tomorrow too. If I see a girl on stage whom I just talked and joked with I will usually tip her atleast a $5 each time she is on stage, get a dance, and buy her a few drinks.

    I am sure this has been discussed before but I am a newbie to the board


    I usually go to the same club about 3-4 times a month and I usually spend $250 - $350 per visit.

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    Some girls never get it. Most guys wanna talk a little and get to know who they are gonna spend time with.
    Hope its better for you next time... and dont give in to someone you dont wanna dance with. Its a waste of your time and money.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cosis link=board=8;threadid=11826;start=msg151101#msg151 101 date=1091847444
    The girls I tip the most are the ones who sit down and actually have a normal conversation. I am 23 years old so I can usually relate pretty well with them. The absolute worst is when I girl just asks "Wanna Dance?". Then when you say no you get a rude glare and she walks away. One girl actually replied "No one ever turns me down for a dance." Haha yeah right sweetie! Cuz I just did! The other night a girl was actually nagging me for a good 2 hours to get a dance. I could tell she wasn't making much money. She didn't have any confidence in herself and no personality. I finally gave in and wasted my money because I didn't enjoy it. Then she came back and nagged me again because I was leaving. She said come back tomorrow, yeah right like I can spend another $300 tomorrow too. If I see a girl on stage whom I just talked and joked with I will usually tip her atleast a $5 each time she is on stage, get a dance, and buy her a few drinks.

    I am sure this has been discussed before but I am a newbie to the board


    I usually go to the same club about 3-4 times a month and I usually spend $250 - $350 per visit.
    WTF is wrong w/ these gurlz? i'd rather talk to a customer than break out in a sweat dancing for godknows how long.

    the only prob is when u talk to guy too much u start seeing them as less of a customer & more as someone u could possibly go out with. i don't like blurring the lines of distinction. i develop crushes easily & its fucked.

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    the only prob is when u talk to guy too much u start seeing them as less of a customer & more as someone u could possibly go out with. i don't like blurring the lines of distinction. i develop crushes easily & its fucked.
    this is my problem! aaahh!

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    Its hard for me to get a dance when i become chummy with someone.. its like dancing for a friend... im not a hit and runner unless its so packed i have no choice.. and even then i use a little convo b4 poping the Q.

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    Pooja-it happens to the customer as well, thats why we sometimes ask you girls out. Sometimes you have a connection with someone no matter where you meet them. The problem is that when meeting someone in the SC the "relationship" starts as money and taker of money and sadly deception, probably on both sides...so its fucked when it happens to us too. Some of you women are just so fun and cute though its hard to remember the lines of distinction...oh well.

    Cosis: Dude a grand a month at 23! Go to the nearest college campus...get a girlfriend....save several hundred dollars...invest in real estate while your young. But I do agree with you though my favorites are all really good conversationalists too, its kind of like what they call a girl friend experience. Just remember its all based on fantasy though. Have fun!

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    Quote Originally Posted by goldclubbing link=board=8;threadid=11826;start=msg151438#msg151 438 date=1091899572
    Pooja-it happens to the customer as well, thats why we sometimes ask you girls out. Sometimes you have a connection with someone no matter where you meet them. The problem is that when meeting someone in the SC the "relationship" starts as money and taker of money and sadly deception, probably on both sides...so its fucked when it happens to us too. Some of you women are just so fun and cute though its hard to remember the lines of distinction...oh well.

    Cosis: Dude a grand a month at 23! Go to the nearest college campus...get a girlfriend....save several hundred dollars...invest in real estate while your young. But I do agree with you though my favorites are all really good conversationalists too, its kind of like what they call a girl friend experience. Just remember its all based on fantasy though. Have fun!
    LOL - I invest a good deal of my income in the stock market, I am just not looking for a girlfriend right now, enjoying being single while I am still young! I am trying to cut back on spending so much at the SC, I now usually only tip and get dances from the girls I am actually attracted to rather than the ones I feel bad for who aren't making any money hehe... I can't help even know I am getting hussled I don't like to see a girl who is trying hard to get rejected over and over. Hell I took a dance from this demon looking chick who I wouldn't even consider remotely attractive because she was nice and got me some free cigarettes. I couldn't even pitch a tent during the whole dance

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    Quote Originally Posted by goldclubbing link=board=8;threadid=11826;start=msg151438#msg151 438 date=1091899572
    Pooja-it happens to the customer as well, thats why we sometimes ask you girls out. Sometimes you have a connection with someone no matter where you meet them. The problem is that when meeting someone in the SC the "relationship" starts as money and taker of money and sadly deception, probably on both sides...so its fucked when it happens to us too. Some of you women are just so fun and cute though its hard to remember the lines of distinction...oh well.

    Cosis: Dude a grand a month at 23! Go to the nearest college campus...get a girlfriend....save several hundred dollars...invest in real estate while your young. But I do agree with you though my favorites are all really good conversationalists too, its kind of like what they call a girl friend experience. Just remember its all based on fantasy though. Have fun!
    the problem is... with guys, especially customers, is the thought of them givin u money never leaves their head. they keep thinkin ur only nice to them coz of the money. initially thats right but once u get to know a person, then u over-extend urself.

    in my case, theres this one guy who's been my regular for about a year & i give him extra time in a private show yet he thinks that i just want his money. its a no win situation coz of the enviroment. this is just my opinion.

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    Pooja-the money relationship is hard to get out of your head. Thats the main reason I want to see a dancer outside the club. Just to test the connection and cemistry in a different environment.

    your not in San Francisco by any chance are you?

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    Quote Originally Posted by goldclubbing link=board=8;threadid=11826;start=msg151588#msg151 588 date=1091918464
    Pooja-the money relationship is hard to get out of your head. Thats the main reason I want to see a dancer outside the club. Just to test the connection and cemistry in a different environment.

    your not in San Francisco by any chance are you?
    nah... im in LA now. but i use to dance up north. but u definitely need to take that relationship outside of the club just to test her sincerity. if she's real w/ u then she'll be ok w/ it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by goldclubbing link=board=8;threadid=11826;start=msg151588#msg151 588 date=1091918464
    Pooja-the money relationship is hard to get out of your head. Thats the main reason I want to see a dancer outside the club. Just to test the connection and cemistry in a different environment.


    Uh, yeah...

    Anyhow, here in Alaska there are a LOT of "wanna dance" chicks. But sometimes it does get pretty packed in there and since the name of the game is making as much in as short amount a time as possible, chitchat is not always possible.
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    Never, Never, Never, Never give a dancer money because she whines!! You are just encouraging her behavior, and ruining your expierence of the SC.

    I have caught myself being whiney in the past, and I have gotten pity money for it, too. I hated being on welfare! I knew that the only reason why the guy gave me money is because I all but begged for a dance he didn't want, he just wanted my whiney ass to go away. this is the strip club equivalent of standing on the corner with a sign that says "will work for food".

    You aren't doing the girl or the club any favors by giving her money for a dance you don't want. She will contine to ruin your expeirence, and drive business out of the club. But management will look at her and say "well, she's making money, so I guess we keep her on the schedule."


    Promote yourself and earn more money! This is a business that is owned by strippers for strippers. Let's make that money!


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    If every dancer decided to have outside customer/dancer relations,then we would all eventually have to go on welfare.The idea of trying to get the money aspect out of your head is counter productive.VERY.
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    Quote Originally Posted by onlythebest link=board=8;threadid=11826;start=msg151919#msg151 919 date=1091956738
    If every dancer decided to have outside customer/dancer relations,then we would all eventually have to go on welfare.The idea of trying to get the money aspect out of your head is counter productive.VERY.


    I get the money aspect out of my head after I've already made it! I sleep easier at night knowing my bills are paid rather than concerning myself with "chemistry" outside the club.
    "She has written so well, and marvellously well, that I was completely ashamed of myself as a writer...But this girl, who is to my knowledge very unpleasant and we might even say a high-grade bitch, can write rings around all of us who consider ourselves as writers"

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    Thank you Nina Daisy.You are a smart woman I can definately associate with.
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    Pooja-despite some of the viewpoints expressed here I'm glad that you seem to see a human side to your occupation beyond the money, very refreshing. My friend is the same way and its what first attracted me to her. We've met outside the club for lunch and enjoy the easy conversation. Life is short and its nice to meet someone you can laugh with.

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    I find a club to be a lot more fun when I've gotten to know a girl or two. I never waste my time with a girl whose only interest seems to be the money. Good intelligent and honest conversation is an essential part of it for me. In addition, good private dances are a pretty intimate experience, and who wants to be intimate with a total stranger? I don't need to take the experience outside the club, althought that sometimes happens. But I do need to get to know the dancer as a person and for her to get to know and trust me. And maybe that's easier for us older customers because the whole romance issue isn't there.
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    This post has good intentions but alot of new girls have to realise that sometimes the guys who want to talk will not be worth your time. The time it takes to get them to get dances takes up more time and gets you 50% less money than if you were managing your time better. Some guys expect you to spend way too much time for a single dance expecialy young guys. Don't get me wrong I don't mind chatting with patrons before I give them a dance but I won't spend more than two songs before they have to start compensating me, less than that if it is busy. You have to remember though that even if $300 is alot to you spread between 5 dancers it is not that much even though we appreciate your business we have to manage our time effecitivly. Most dancers are not paid hourly so are whole income is based on commission so we have to keep moving. If you really like a dancer and want her to stay and talk that is wonderful but you can't expect her to spend ten minutes with you before paying her.

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    Lilac, I agree with you, especially when the club is busy. Which is why I only go during off hours, typically mid-afternoon, when girls are sitting around talking to each other. When I meet a new dancer I rarely spend very much on her the first couple of times. This discourages the ones who see me only as a wallet. If she keeps joining me, then I know it isn't only about the money and I then start to spend more. I've found that a lot of girls aren't trying to maximize their income, they'd rather spend their time with people they know and enjoy. When I find a girl like that I keep coming back for more. And I begin spending more money on her.
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    Quote Originally Posted by FemmeFatale link=board=8;threadid=11826;start=msg151242#msg151 242 date=1091864160
    the only prob is when u talk to guy too much u start seeing them as less of a customer & more as someone u could possibly go out with. i don't like blurring the lines of distinction. i develop crushes easily & its fucked.
    this is my problem! aaahh!
    Holy cow.. I thought I was the only one who thought like this... I have actually had (in my formative years) men tell me, "I can't get a dance from you.. I feel like I know you now".. what a shocker!

    As time went on and I learned my hustle technique, I always remembered that response and never let it leave my thoughts.. it has always stuck with me and taught me to never reveal so much that the customer forms a "bonding" with you.



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    Aye, I see all of this. I suppose the best thing is to keep the conversations light, though sometimes I probably would be friends with them outside of the club - but I also wouldn't be happy about losing the money, ya know? Man, before this one guy went all creepy-stalker on me it was nice, always tipped me $30 for my time [even just ten minutes] if we were chatting at the club, not over email.

    anyway, so my question, is it better to be distant and try to just sell a few dances or try to develop a friendship more, possibly sells lots more dances or just have them turned off from the experience? Hmm.
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    Quote Originally Posted by FONDL link=board=8;threadid=11826;start=msg152796#msg152 796 date=1092070177
    Lilac, I agree with you, especially when the club is busy. Which is why I only go during off hours, typically mid-afternoon, when girls are sitting around talking to each other. When I meet a new dancer I rarely spend very much on her the first couple of times. This discourages the ones who see me only as a wallet. If she keeps joining me, then I know it isn't only about the money and I then start to spend more. I've found that a lot of girls aren't trying to maximize their income, they'd rather spend their time with people they know and enjoy. When I find a girl like that I keep coming back for more. And I begin spending more money on her.
    Not to be a party pooper, but don't kid yourself. These girls have just learned to play your game and do it well as a way of cultivating regulars. Trust me, it's ALWAYS about the m-o-n-e-y.

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    I agree it's always about the money, after all, you're working, this is your job and I never forget that. But it isn't always ONLY about the money. As I said before, a lot of girls don't try to maximize their income, they prefer to spend their time with people who they enjoy being with, even if they could make more by hustling strangers. Go into any club and it's obvious who is hustling and who isn't. Every time I go to a new club I'm always amazed by how many girls will just sit and talk to each other rather than come over to see if I want company. In many clubs I can sit at the bar for an hour or more without being disturbed. Actually I like that because it gives me a chance to look around and I don't like the hustle. I'd rather take my time and pick my girl rather than have her pick me. And the one I choose will be one who isn't doing any hustling. And I'll spend less than the guy with the hustler. And I'll have a better time.
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    I've seen it and I don't get it...but there are lots of girls like FONDL describes. My only guess is that they second guess their ability to work the bigger fish, so they settle for a second tier customer who may buy dances, but the better hustlers won't touch.

    But the thing is that a good hustler makes it look like she *really* likes him and is not hustling him, so what he feels may not be what it is. Also, a good hustler (and I consider myself to be a decent one) knows these types of guys and avoids them except when it's slow.

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    Long ago on the occassion I would go to a SC the women who worked there were as they should be, mysterious. Beyond the face and body I couldn't care less about the actual person. Not because I'm callous but because the women were fantasies...my fantasies for a few minutes...and that was it. Then I met a dancer who came over after I tipped her on stage, sat down and just started talking about everyday stuff...we ended up hitting it off and have been friendly ever since. Unfortunately its now really hard to look at dancers as fantasy objects. Having talked so much the mystery is gone. I kind of liked it the other way...but once pandora opens her box....

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