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    I don't think it's ever been a fantasy for me, that aspect of it really doesn't interest me at all. I travel a lot and sometimes I'd rather sit in a strip club than in a regular bar, which are about the only choices (other than gyms and movies which I sometimes do too). The reason I prefer the strip club is because I can usually find some pleasant company, which is preferable to sitting alone. And I want the girls like Emily who are looking to make the big bucks to ignore me, so it all works out just fine. Which is why I usually end up with younger inexperiencd dancers. And Emily is right, there are a lot of girls my type out there, girls who are interested in more than just my wallet, I rarely have trouble finding one.
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    FONDL-I guess I'm young enough at heart, and age wise, that after a day of being around attractive girls wherever I go having a place to see young naked women is a fantasy all in itself. Plus, I can still remember the thrill of looking at my first playboy...gosh our society has moved on dramatically from those innocent days of the mid seventies, I still remember getting excited looking at the sign for the old Condor Club which had two story Carol Doda with flashing nipples. I waited anxiously for the day I could go there when I passed 18...I still try and remember that feeling when I walk into a club. Wow, live naked girls!

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    Emily, I think the answer is that a lot of these young girls are making 2-3 times what their friends are making waitressing at the Outback down the street, just by sitting around talking to their friends and regulars. These girls have money to do everything they want to do, so why bother hustling, it's hard work. I've found that to be a very common attitude among young girl-next-door type dancers. I enjoy spending time with the girls who are like that because they are mostly looking to have fun. The real pros turn me off. That's just not my thing.
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    FONDL, trust me, the girls you describe are playing your game and that is all. In their way, they ARE hustling you, they have just learned how to make it seem like they're not. They pretend not to be trying to maximize their income, all the while looking for the tip they know you're going to give them in the end. They are there ONLY for the money. If not for the money NONE of us would be there. Not me, not your fave "non-huslting" girls, not the ones who are always "there to party", NONE.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FONDL link=board=8;threadid=11826;start=msg155046#msg155 046 date=1092325111
    enjoy spending time with the girls who are like that because they are mostly looking to have fun. The real pros turn me off. That's just not my thing.
    Trust me, those girls you like so much ARE pros. They know how to work you and they do it well. Enjoy it for what it is.

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    I'm definately there for the money but also because I actually would enjoy doing this over being a waitress (or working in Hospitality period) anyday! There is more to it than just the money but it does definately factor into why I do this as a type of employment.

    Just wanted to say that whilst money is a motivating factor in doing this job.. it isn't the only motivating factor.. hence you can't say it is ONLY the money. I agree with FONDL .... sorry Brigette.


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    Sadly I agree with Bridgrette. Eventhough I "feel" like I have "friends" in the club, even my favorite, I never forget that its about the money like any occupation and job. Sure its fun to hang out and have fun with someone when its slow but that in itself is a hustle...here comes so and so now I have someone to talk to. Maybe you buy a drink, thats a hustle too. Money may not be the only motivation but intangibles such as giving a girl compliments when she is new or having a bad day can make you endurable until the paying clientelle come in. As my friend says imagine getting all sexed up and have to perform for an empty room, and then your no money but full of compliments friend comes in, it pumps you up for the guys you don't know...thats the hustle...your taking his time and attention and emotion and using it for your advantage.

    Luna: I still believe its better to cultivate "friend" clients because it usually makes then "feel" better about you and the money they spend. Some guys don't give a fuck and just want to see some ass....but some guys just want a break from what bugging them, to escape....and that can go on for a long time. Think about how long some people go to therapists. If I was a dancer I would definitely cultivate some slow day clientelle. Just be careful its easy for guys to take things the wrong way when a girl is being nice to them...just be sincere and it can work out fine for both of you.

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    I agree it's always about the money, after all, you're working, this is your job and I never forget that. But it isn't always ONLY about the money. As I said before, a lot of girls don't try to maximize their income, they prefer to spend their time with people who they enjoy being with, even if they could make more by hustling strangers. Go into any club and it's obvious who is hustling and who isn't.

    FONDL - I disagree. I have noticed that the girls who spend time sitting around and talking to customers for extended periods of time do so b/c this is the only way they can get dances. The ones who struggle to get by often use this approach.

    And there are lots of dancers who don't like to hustle hard just for what it entails. So they use this approach to make money. It's still about the bottom line.

    However, it seems like you're having a good time anyway, so that's all that matters.
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    I agree it's always about the money, after all, you're working, this is your job and I never forget that. But it isn't always ONLY about the money.
    I'm with MCWM on this one. Unless she gives you a reason to believe it's about more than the money--as in concrete OTC activity--assume it is only about the money.

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    The Girl I tip the most tends to be the one who can smile, at me or herself as she dances on stage. The girls that seem so serious or depressed dont get noticed.

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    he doesnt spent 250
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