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    Its been a slow day and all of sudden a regular comes in to see YOU! But when you sit down to get in the groove in comes another regular to see YOU! What do you do in this situation? You can't be in two places at once and some guys hate lack of focus.

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    Well if a regular get's jealous that your with another customer he is probably a nutball I mean it's your job to make money right?

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    Default Re:Multiple regulars at once

    Quote Originally Posted by goldclubbing link=board=8;threadid=11850;start=msg151444#msg151 444 date=1091900335
    Its been a slow day and all of sudden a regular comes in to see YOU! But when you sit down to get in the groove in comes another regular to see YOU! What do you do in this situation? You can't be in two places at once and some guys hate lack of focus.
    That's what I call a "shit happens" situation. It's nobody's fault, and if one or both guys have a fragile ego, there's little that a dancer can do to not upset at least one of them.

    Nonetheless, without either patron making a previously scheduled appointment (like with a firmly set start time), the rule of "first come, first serve" ought to be adhered to.

    The second regular should have the courtesy to wait or come back another time (even if he is the bigger fish). He may want to also consider the benefits in scheduling his playdates in advance. Similarly, the first regular should have the courtesy to let the dancer take a break to go tell the second regular (and any other interested parties) that she may be awhile.
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    DC- exactly. common courtesy should prevail, unfortunately unattractive jealosy usually prevails.

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    This is what I call a strippers wet dream..multiple regulars. This just happended Wednesday nite when I was hanging out with Miss D. So happended that several regulars showed up at the same time along with me. Of course I took priority LOL but I remember Miss D stressing how she was going to take care of those other gents. She left the table a couple of times to talk to them. That was fine with me...she always came back rapidly. She was gone only long enough to placate those guys.

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    What does she tell them about you when placating them? I've always wondered myself, why bother asking though?

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    GC knowing Miss D she probably told those guys thats she had a pain in the ass guy she had to take care of. Remember, strippers say what they have to say in order to maintain their money income. Of course, when she came back to my table she talked shit about those other guys. Its a game they play...whoever they are not with at that moment gets dissed. I fine it very funny.

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    I find it the worst part of the whole experience. I understand it though.

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    If, like me, you're a regular with a popular girl, this happens frequently. The key is honesty and courtesy, both by the customer and the dancer. She should tell the person she's with that someone she knows just came in and that she needs to say hello, excuse herslef for a minute, go say hello to the newcomer, give him a rough idea how long she expects to be tied up, then quickly return to the first customer. He, in turn, should offer to shorten his visit so the other guy doesn't have to wait too long and so that the dancer won't lose the other customer. Unfortunately neither the dancer nor the customer usually acts this way. When I begin seeing a new dancer and this situation arises, I explain to her that this is how I think she should handle it. And if she doesn't I find a new dancer.
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    What FONDL said, or if the customer I'm with is planning on hanging out for a while before doing dances, I might do a room with the one who comes in and then go back to the first guy.

    Jay, regulars who don't get dances confuse the whole issue. That guy might have given her $200 for her time in conversation, or she might have been hustling him to buy her boobs or a new car. I have customers who pay me for time and attention. Usually they expect me to focus exclusively on them. Altho I have one guy who comes to see me and sits with me all night. He tips me throughout the night usually when I've left him and come back - I go on stage and come back, he gives me forty bucks, I go do a couple lapdances and come back, he gives me forty bucks. It doesn't make sense to me, but I go with it and leave him as often as possible.

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    I only go clubbing during off hours, typically mid-afternoon, when the girls have time to sit and talk, because that's what I enjoy. But I always end up buying dances and she knows that. If I'm new to her I'll tell her so in advance. But usually I'm with someone I know, so she already knows how I plan to treat her. I'm not a big tipper but I'm not a cheapskate either. I've found that the kind of girl a like enjoys a guy who comes in regularly and treats them well without going overboard. Particularly if I only come in when the club is dead, they really like that and it shows in how they treat me. I've made some good friends that way.
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    Yeah I also like to stop in an shoot the shit during the day...grab a drink or some food...hang out and converse. The place is usually dead and the girls are bored...but I've had other customers come in at this time too and seek out my favorite to sit and talk and hang out with...my inclination is to have us all hang out together since both of us guys have something in common..her...but then I don't know. If I wanted to have a drink with a guy I don't know I go to bar with a coworker.

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    I've had that problem twice, where another customer and I would be there at the same time for the same girl. The first time I finally introduced myself to the other guy and asked if we could work something out. She and he both almost died at the thought. It didn't work. She ended up quitting and I ended up handging out with another dancer who ended up being my ATF. (The other guy, who was madly in love with the first girl, stopped coming to the club. I felt sorry for him.) The second time (long after my ATF retired) I said the hell with it and stopped going to that club. In neither case did I think the girl handled it very well. It cost them both a lot of money. Further proof that I don't think most dancers try very hard to maximize their income. Contrary to popular belief, it's not just about the money.
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    My friend has many regulars who come in during the day to hang with her and I have gotten to know some by name because she talks to me about them, so when I see a guy come in that I know is there to see her I say isn't that so and so and depending on how much he spends on her or if she has a game she is playing with him I go back to work or home...I know I'll see her again when she has time to hang. When I first got to know her she used to say things like I have to go to the bathroom or go on stage or something like that and then go and greet the other customer...it kind of made me jealous then but i called her on it and our relationship matured...if you say your my friend then act that way and the favor will be returned a thousand fold.

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    I will add to my previous post that at times I get a little looped in the club and my good judgement fails me....I get jealous when I see "my girl" with another guy...especially when she's described him as a jerk or asshole. It really doesn't make sense, but I guess thats why I'm not married to a stripper. The whole experience in the club with this particular dancer is sometimes simular to a junior high dance when another guy gets to "your girl" first.

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    Unfortunately tequilla and vicodin in combination disconnect the part of our brain which manufactures common sense. On several occasions I've felt like smacking another regular for what I percieve as disrespect on his part towards her. I'm pretty level headed but....

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    GC, you've pointed out exactly why I am very careful how much I drink in a club. The only time I've ever come close to getting in trouble in a club was once when I had too much to drink. I usually only have one beer, or if I order a second I almost never finish it. And in fact I prefer juice bars where there isn't any alcohol. There's a time and place for drinking but strip clubs aren't it - you can make a real ass out of yourself much too easily. You can also spend way too much. If I want to drink a lot I stay home.
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    As someone who had an ATF who had well over a dozen regulars, I just tried to show up when the other guys weren't there. She gave me a pretty good idea of who was going to be there when. She always took us in the order we showed up. So if I knew a guy was not a large spender and would be gone in half hour or an hour I'd wait. Guys that spent hundreds over several hours would cause me to leave. Sometimes when she was with me and another regular came in she would tell them to come back in an hour or so. Once a guy showed up with a really intent look on his face while she was dancing. When I went up to tip her she asked if I minded to wait until this fellow left. I said ok. She proceded to take him to a VIP room ,$150 the half hour during the afternoon, and he was walking out in ten minutes. She told me he only had 15 minutes for lunch. I laughed at that "interruption". Incidentally this girl was very smart and knew how to make a buck dancing. Unfortunately after seeing her for about a year she went on to better things. We still talk via email once in a while.

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