
Originally Posted by
exotica17 link=board=9;threadid=11872;start=msg151829#msg151 829 date=1091942094
How can I tell if a guy is NOT worth my time, like this one wasn't?
Sit down for a brief conversation (5-10 min), and ask him if he wants a dance; if he says, "no thank you", move on.
Just because you saw a wad of cash, doesn't mean he has to spend it. Maybe you can charm him, but don't get too disapointed if you can't. It's better to get some dances from guys with less money, but who are willing to spend then keep trying to work a stingy customer with a bankroll.
You mentioned he's now on your "ignore list". I take this to mean that you see him hanging around the club regularly. Does he seem to get dances from a particular dancer, or is he just cheap with everyone?
The other day I stopped by a club to see if one of my favorites was there. Unfortunately, she wasn't there that day, so just I hung out long enough to have one soda, tip a few girls on stage, chat with a few of her friends, and then I left with a heavier wallet than normal. I guess that day, some dancer who didn't know me, might have looked at me as being a cheap customer.
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