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    I stopped dancing back in June b/c my boyfriend didnt want me to do it anymore. I want to get back into it BUT he threw ALL my clothes/shoes out . I dont really have much money to buy a new one so...any ideas? ???

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    Brittani.. what size are you in shoes and clothing? PM me.


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    Get a new boyfriend, then we might take you more seriously.

    "She has written so well, and marvellously well, that I was completely ashamed of myself as a writer...But this girl, who is to my knowledge very unpleasant and we might even say a high-grade bitch, can write rings around all of us who consider ourselves as writers"

    Ernest Hemingway on writer, aviation pioneer and horse trainer Beryl Markham


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    If you're a prostitute, and your boyfriend wants you to quit....I can see that. If you club seals over the head for profit (or fun) and your boyfriend wants you to quit....I can see that, too. But beyond things like that, you should not change yourself for anyone. You will always need to make SMALL concessions (such as putting the cap back on a tube of toothpaste)... but the point of having a long term relationship is that two EXISTING personalities are compatible.

    i.e. - what Nina said.
    "The problem with the world is that everyone is a few drinks behind."
    -Humphrey Bogart

    "Sir, if you were my husband, I would poison your drink."
    -Lady Astor to Winston Churchill
    "Madam, if you were my wife, I would drink it."
    -His reply

    "If God had intended us to drink beer, He would have given us stomachs."
    -David Daye

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    Throw out the boyfriend...unless he's buying you new clothes and shoes...

    i.e. - what Nina and Mojo said

    Why do women continue to stay with guys like this?


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    Why do women continue to stay with guys like this?
    I've always wondered the same thing. Topaz pointed out her own negative feelings regarding men in general and relationships as a result of having too many experiences with the stereotypical male personality. I honestly cannot relate to those types. I was raised to be an individual and to appreciate everyone else's individuality. My relationship is one where we encourage the other to be their own person. If I were to suddenly attempt to put restraints on my wife's personality, tendencies, and likes - I can guarantee you the resulting explosion and fallout would leave me a wrinkled burnt crispy critter on the side of the road.

    ....but then again....she is Irish...and German....and Native American....good Lord, what was I thinking? No...I do not win many arguments.
    "The problem with the world is that everyone is a few drinks behind."
    -Humphrey Bogart

    "Sir, if you were my husband, I would poison your drink."
    -Lady Astor to Winston Churchill
    "Madam, if you were my wife, I would drink it."
    -His reply

    "If God had intended us to drink beer, He would have given us stomachs."
    -David Daye

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gynger link=board=27;threadid=11899;start=msg152327#msg15 2327 date=1092009402
    Brittani.. what size are you in shoes and clothing? PM me.
    Im a size small in clothes and 7 in shoes

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    Quote Originally Posted by AinNY link=board=27;threadid=11899;start=msg152656#msg15 2656 date=1092053695
    Why do women continue to stay with guys like this?
    and we now get back into the nice guy vs. not so nice guy flaming dickwad debate...

    As per other suggestions, do the following:
    1) assess damage from bf
    2) kick not nice guy bf to curb
    3) buy new clothes
    4) start dancing
    5) get yourself a "nice guy" who respects you and your job
    6) and for the love of god, please do not repeat steps 1-5!

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