Results 1 to 11 of 11

Thread: First time fear

  1. #1
    God/dess Vyanka's Avatar
    Joined
    Aug 2004
    Location
    Cash-Stack-istan Island
    Posts
    14,704
    Thanks
    6,564
    Thanked 11,625 Times in 3,697 Posts
    My Mood
    Angelic

    Default First time fear

    How did you get rid of that darn awful fear when you first started dancing? C'mon, I know alot of you were really nervous as hell....LOL.

    I can't imagine what my first day is going to be like. I feel like i'm gonna crap in my pants....or should I say thong? haha

  2. #2
    God/dess verfolgung's Avatar
    Joined
    Jul 2004
    Location
    New England
    Posts
    2,143
    Thanks
    48
    Thanked 259 Times in 191 Posts

    Default Re:First time fear

    Hola! Welcome to SW....

    Here is a thread with some comments relating to your question:

    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/ind...er/t12040.html

    There may be more comments floating around the newbie section, and I'm sure the other members will provide some feedback for you as well.

    Best of luck!
    If you can't win. Make the fellow in front of you break the record.


  3. #3
    Veteran Member playboycntrfold's Avatar
    Joined
    Jun 2004
    Location
    Daygo!
    Posts
    726
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 3 Times in 3 Posts

    Default Re:First time fear

    No way around it hun. Sorry to say. It can be a real plus though. For me, personally the adrenaline really got me going, and I actually did some really cool pole stuff that I wouldn't have otherwise had the strength to do . Almost ALL the guys should show some receptiveness to your being new. I made a LOT my first day. I even tripped up onstage, but the guys gave me even MORE tips for that, 'cause they thought it was "cute" hehe.

  4. #4
    God/dess VenusGoddess's Avatar
    Joined
    Oct 2003
    Location
    Home
    Posts
    13,598
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 28 Times in 23 Posts

    Default Re:First time fear

    The only way around it is just to do it.

    Yeah, I was scared as hell. In fact, I was so scared, that I could hardly let go of the pole...I was too nervous that I would slip and fall in my shoes. LOL Now that I look back, I cannot imagine what I was so afraid of.

  5. #5
    God/dess MojoJojo's Avatar
    Joined
    Jul 2004
    Location
    Monkey Land
    Posts
    4,794
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 7 Times in 7 Posts

    Default Re:First time fear

    Step 1 - please clean your poop shooter before dancing for the first time.

    (customer perspective)
    "The problem with the world is that everyone is a few drinks behind."
    -Humphrey Bogart

    "Sir, if you were my husband, I would poison your drink."
    -Lady Astor to Winston Churchill
    "Madam, if you were my wife, I would drink it."
    -His reply

    "If God had intended us to drink beer, He would have given us stomachs."
    -David Daye

  6. #6
    Veteran Member Lurker_001's Avatar
    Joined
    Jan 2004
    Location
    Illinois
    Posts
    228
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re:First time fear

    Stop looking at me....

    (another customer perspective)

  7. #7
    Veteran Member playboycntrfold's Avatar
    Joined
    Jun 2004
    Location
    Daygo!
    Posts
    726
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 3 Times in 3 Posts

    Default Re:First time fear

    Quote Originally Posted by Audiense link=board=27;threadid=12140;start=msg156239#msg15 6239 date=1092496960
    Stop looking at me....

    (another customer perspective)
    you don't like eye contact Aud? How 'bout when a dancer looks at you like ~~~~~~>

    does nothin'?

  8. #8
    God/dess Vyanka's Avatar
    Joined
    Aug 2004
    Location
    Cash-Stack-istan Island
    Posts
    14,704
    Thanks
    6,564
    Thanked 11,625 Times in 3,697 Posts
    My Mood
    Angelic

    Default Re:First time fear

    Quote Originally Posted by playboycntrfold link=board=27;threadid=12140;start=msg156193#msg15 6193 date=1092491323
    No way around it hun. Sorry to say. It can be a real plus though. For me, personally the adrenaline really got me going, and I actually did some really cool pole stuff that I wouldn't have otherwise had the strength to do . Almost ALL the guys should show some receptiveness to your being new. I made a LOT my first day. I even tripped up onstage, but the guys gave me even MORE tips for that, 'cause they thought it was "cute" hehe.
    That's great. But me, i'm so excited to do it too that I feel like i'm gonna vomit. hahaha. ANother big fat fear of mine, is that i'm scared i might see someone I know. OMG, i'll die!!! I so keeping this from everyone. Well, a few ppl know.

  9. #9
    Veteran Member
    Joined
    Oct 2003
    Posts
    415
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re:First time fear

    You have a HUGE advantage over tons of newbie dancers..You found SW! I think most of us wished we had this before our first day on stage. I just started club dancing again after 2 1/2 years off stage and the club is 3 times the size of ones that I had danced in. I had that FIRST day excitement/fear/intimidation all over again. You may find yourself wanting to leave early. FORCE yourself to make it through one entire shift. Smile not a huge toothy smile but at least grin while your on the floor walking around look at the guys you walk by Say Hi! If you have to... REGROUP yourself in the bathroom or dressing room several times (don't hide though) take some deep breaths and get back out there. READ Hustle Hut... pick up some tips on what to say to guys. Don't worry about making a ton of $$$ the first night..get in there and do it. When I am having a nervous spell... I sit and think about the SW girls and know that a bunch of them are somewhere on stage at that very moment and dealing with drunk guys, mean guys, crummy nights. So if they are doing it..I should be too! You have the advantage that you can come back here for support...Most of us did not have that when we started and we still made it. You can too!! My earnings this time around are significantly, almost insanely better because of the ton of support and info I got right here. THANKS GIRLS.and Guys!


    "Some of the most wonderful people are the ones who don't fit into boxes." ....Tori Amos

  10. #10
    tampafldancer
    Guest

    Default Re:First time fear

    HOLIDAY, ARE YOU IN FLORIDA NOW?

  11. #11
    Veteran Member kellyallstar's Avatar
    Joined
    Jun 2004
    Location
    where there's glitter on the floor
    Posts
    700
    Thanks
    218
    Thanked 79 Times in 53 Posts

    Default Re:First time fear

    I was hell nervous before I went on stage to the point I was not going to do it, then I went on and it was explosive I don't think the nervousness will ever go away I was always a bit nervous before I went on stage.
    I'm here to make money. NOT make friends, if I make a friend then it's a bonus.

    I'd rather be absolutely ridiculous that absolutely boring

    Quote Originally Posted by mediocrity View Post
    I don't hate men. I hate everyone equally.
    Quote Originally Posted by CandySeattle
    Kelly you're so raunchy, but in a proper way.
    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    Dude, it's not her "world" it's her job. It's not some sort of Pavlovian trance that dancers go into when they smell money, it's simply how they make a living.

Similar Threads

  1. Do you fear getting old?
    By BlackSheEp3 in forum The Lounge
    Replies: 52
    Last Post: 05-02-2008, 09:01 PM
  2. Fear defeated
    By Kaylinn in forum Stripping (was Stripping General)
    Replies: 17
    Last Post: 04-11-2007, 06:00 PM
  3. Fear Factor
    By Destiny in forum The Lounge
    Replies: 16
    Last Post: 06-05-2005, 12:25 AM
  4. Fear and other B.s. emotions
    By Blade in forum The Lounge
    Replies: 27
    Last Post: 05-25-2004, 05:40 AM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •