Anyone know how to deal with those aggresive guys that are trying to hit on you & you want to avoid it. If so, how do you do it without being a bitch & letting them know that you do not want to hook up with no one at the club?![]()





Anyone know how to deal with those aggresive guys that are trying to hit on you & you want to avoid it. If so, how do you do it without being a bitch & letting them know that you do not want to hook up with no one at the club?![]()

Just do the same thing that I do when an aggressive dancer hits on me: say "No, thank you" with a smile. Most humans need to hear something several times before they take it seriously.





True. I'm just scared that he wont tip me then, lol. Oh well...Originally Posted by Dain link=board=25;threadid=12185;start=msg156973#msg15 6973 date=1092623260
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Who cares if that guy will or won't tip you... work on the ones that have a better chance with less b-s
I have a favourite saying I use and found to be so very true... "All it takes is one customer to make your night". That one customer who tips you consistently or consistently buys dances from you throughout the night... or buys a whole bundle (a real decent amount) in one hit.
All it takes is one customer.. so when you do find that one customer.. work it baby!
Remember that you won't turn 100% of the punters into your customers... more like 20%. The old "80/20" rule in business.. okay it's more a principle or guideline.
enter: E3167322D9 for your 10% discount
That will just free you up for guys like me that are far less annoying and prepared to spend.True. I'm just scared that he wont tip me then, lol. Oh well..
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Exactly. You can hold them off for a little while with "I don't go out with guys I meet here" and still maybe get a couple dances, sometimes they'll get several dances just to keep asking you out. Keep saying no, and when it gets too annoying or the money stops coming, just walk away. "Excuse me, I've got to go mingle" and walk off without looking back. There will be someone else who isn't as big of a pain in the butt.Originally Posted by Casual Observer link=board=25;threadid=12185;start=msg157055#msg15 7055 date=1092632275
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normally i'd reply to this by saying next time dance for him with a "lorena bobbitt is my hero" t-shirt...but i'd rather offer some advice.
eye contact is everything...most creeps get turned off by direct eye contact and actual conversation. i recently had a guy tell me to shut the eff up and dance....i loved it....
maintain eye contact...if they act creepy get business-like...if it continues and hands go the ass...tell the puffy chests at the door...they're getting part of your cash for a reason...
most creeps like girls that are passive or stupid....don't be passive or stupid.....
I'm a dancer! - said nomi
something's bad about to happen 'cause i'm feelin so damn good - nickelback





Somebody like that is either trying to bend you to their will, and if they can't make you do that, they're at least going to entertain themselves by giving you a hard time. If you play his little game, he wins. Just show them that you find their little tantrum quite boring, wish them a pleasant evening, then find another customer who isn't such a hard ass.Originally Posted by Vyanka link=board=25;threadid=12185;start=msg156972#msg15 6972 date=1092623044
"Oh well" about sums it up. Sometimes the oil is so hard to get to that it simply isn't worth the price of drilling.Originally Posted by Vyanka link=board=25;threadid=12185;start=msg156980#msg15 6980 date=1092624675
Former SCJ now in rehab.





Thanks for your inputs guys.
Ok another question, what kind of conversation do you have with the customers? ???




Originally Posted by GoldCoastGirl link=board=25;threadid=12185;start=msg157012#msg15 7012 date=1092628304




oops I still don't know how to do the quotes right!!!!
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