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Take a shower before you go to the SC.
Bring some breath mints or some gum with you. (If gum, try to keep from smacking away.)
Don't ask a dancer, "Is that your real name?"
Don't ask the dancer if she's married or has a SO.
Don't ask a dancer where she lives, phone number, etc. (in fact best to just keep away from questions which make you sound like a stalker).
Don't try to ask one dancer for personal information on another.
Don't get offended and take it personally if you find out later on that wasn't her real name, she doesn't really go to that school, she doesn't really live in that neightborhood and/or she's not really single.
Don't try to ask a dancer out on a date.
Don't ask a dancer, "Are those real?"
Don't ask a dancer, "Is that your real hair color?"
Don't tell a dancer how pretty her kitty is.
Try to make an effort to at least make some eye contact with the dancers. (But try not to just stare at a dancer like some kind of psychopath.)
When turning down a dance, a simple "No thank you" will suffice. (Don't keep telling a dancer "maybe later" when you have no intention of getting a dance from her.)
If leaving the tip rail in the middle of a set to go sit with or get a dance from another dancer, throw at least a $1 to the girl on stage.
Don't bad mouth one dancer in front of another.
Don't bring your wife, girl friend, SO, or another woman into the SC if all she's going to do is give the dancers dirty looks and make rude comments instead of having a good time.
Only throw a money shower to dancer who's on stage alone.
In general, don't crinkle or ball up the tip money and throw it on stage. If you are going to ball up your tip, make it worth it for the dancer to unravel (ie: $5, $10, $20, etc.).
Don't ask the dancers for change. If you're actually going to be cheap and pay $15 for the dance instead of just giving her the $20, than have the exact amount on you.
Don't expect the dancers to be impressed or hang out with you all night just because you bought the bottle of Cristal or Dom. when you have no intention of getting any dances.
Respect the idea that she's there working.
Don't get jealous if a dancer is hanging out with another customer, she's doing her job!
Understand that the dancer may have to attend to other customers who showed up before you.
If you would like a dance from a particular dancer, don't be affraid to get off your ass and ask her for one. As long as you're not interupting her time with another customer, you don't have to wait for her to come to you.
ASK (DO NOT ASSUME) what the club's rules are in terms of contact.
ASK (DO NOT ASSUME) what the Dancer's rules are in terms of contact.
If you know you're going to a club with contact dances, wear appropriate clothing. (ie don't wear break-away warm up pants and avoid rough materials like denim or things which will jab like a big ass belt buckle).
If a dancer does a great job, whether on stage, during a private dance or in a champagne room
DON'T BE AFFRAID TO TIP MORE.
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