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    Default Do most people go to Strip Clubs alone or with friends?

    I have gone to strip clubs twice. Once I went to the Dreamgirls in Lake Station, Indiana with a friend and I had a pretty good time there.
    My second time was at the Deja Vu in Las Vegas where I went by myself. I found that I had a better time going there by myself as it seemed like more dancers approached me. Is it just the locations or is it better to go to strip clubs alone or with a friend?

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    Default Re:Do most people go to Strip Clubs alone or with friends?

    Some girls are more intimidated to approach guys in packs because lots of the time, guys can act "too cool" or just annoying. I know I approach the loners first, and then if that fails, I approach the groups.

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    I agree with Lexi. Guys in large groups are usually very cheap and they can be very rude and annoying in an attempt to show off in front of their friends. I have worked in Vegas for over a year. I think that most dancers prefer to approach guys who go into the club alone because they are there for the right reason. They actually want to buy dances. They aren't just trying to show off and see who can be the cheapest and the rudest.
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    Default Re:Do most people go to Strip Clubs alone or with friends?

    I always go alone. For me that's the whole point of a strip club, to have a place to go when you're off somewhere by yourself. If I'm with other people I'd rather go to a bar or restaurant. Plus, I agree that most girls treat you better when you're alone.
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    Default Re:Do most people go to Strip Clubs alone or with friends?

    I go alone...

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    Default Re:Do most people go to Strip Clubs alone or with friends?

    I'm a loner. 99% of my friends have no interest in going, but I don't mind because I'm pretty picky about who I will go with. I learned early on that you don't want to take just anybody to the club. I was with a friend in San Francisco, and I near 'bout hogtied him and toted him in the club. He didn't want to go, and the negativity and unease just awashed the whole experience with bad karma.

    Thank goodness I haven't been with a friend who would make an ass out of himself. I have one friend who thinks he wouldn't be able to "control himself," and I think he's right. Somebody also wanted to know if I wanted to go with a bachelor party, mostly with younger guys. I politely declined, but I thought to myself - "I'm probably perceived as being a cheapass already; I don't need the help."

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    My own guess would be that about 60% of the customers are there by themselves. Of course it would depend on the club, the time of day and day of the week. On a weekend night, the number of groups would be higher, while during the day shift on a weekday you might find that 90% of the guys are there alone.

    If a guy wants to have a good time, I definitely suggest going alone. Like others, I always approach the single guys first. With groups you tend to end up working twice as hard for half the money.
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    Default Re:Do most people go to Strip Clubs alone or with friends?

    Generally I work with the loners first then the 'couples' (2 guys).. then the group of 3 guys. If there is a group of 4 or more guys, I generally will only approach if either there is already one dancer at the table or I can find another dancer to approach the table with me.

    It isn't so much an intimidation thing more like.. 1 dancer amongst a group of 4 or more guys is spreading the available attention the dancer can give to any individual in that group too thinly in my opinion.

    The other reasons groups are less approached is because usually if one member of that group has said NO to the dancer (not a "maybe later" a definate no) then she doesn't really have a chance with the other members of the group (or 'couple&#039 because the other guy(s) will go.. I don't want her if he doesn't want her (type of thing).



    So.. what I'm basically saying is.. go to strip clubs alone as you are guaranteed company and a damn good time. Only go with one or two other people IF you know they will help aid you in having a good time.

    Strip clubs is one of the few places where going by yourself is NOT looked down upon and can actually be quite a good thing.


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    Unless I'm involved with a bachelor party or have a friend in town (and I could count those occurences on one hand), I only fly solo. I can't have another person with me whose behavior is messing with my modus operandi.
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    I'm there to see one girl, and get very intimate with her and very focused. I've gone with friends before who say that I flat out forget there even there.

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    Default Re:Do most people go to Strip Clubs alone or with friends?

    I go with friends sometimes but more often than not I go alone. I just tend to have a lot more fun when I'm alone.

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    Default Re:Do most people go to Strip Clubs alone or with friends?

    Either or. I do find that the smaller the group, the more the Dancers approach me though. Plus all it takes is for a guy i'm there with to fuck up one time and i'll never go with him again. I'm not having that guilt by association crap.

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    Default Re:Do most people go to Strip Clubs alone or with friends?

    Quote Originally Posted by Madcap link=board=8;threadid=12231;start=msg158925#msg158 925 date=1092890972
    Either or. I do find that the smaller the group, the more the Dancers approach me though. Plus all it takes is for a guy i'm there with to fuck up one time and i'll never go with him again. I'm not having that guilt by association crap.
    Very observant of you, Mad!

    After 5 years in the business, I've learned a few things.

    Groups still intimidate me because I never really know which guy to approach. I tend to have a harder time selling dances to a guy in a group, especially if no one is joining his friends. And forget about a Champagne room with one guy in a group. You get the "let me check with my buddies" crap and one of them always has to jump in with some "you're getting ripped-off" type comment. Usually this is the guy that is currently unemployed or searching for extras, but I digress...

    Yes, I've done multiple dances and/or CR's with a guy from a group, but usually the lemming mentality comes into play so much that it's a massive Herculean effort. Solo guys are my favorites, by far

    Case in point: me and Bridgette were dancing for these guys in a group of three. My guy and another were all rarin' to go to the Champagne room, ready to bust out the Platinum card, but the third guy kept hemming and hawing, but then the other two wouldn't go without the third!

    Finally, third guy says, "well I'm not paying that much for just a lap dance!" And the other lemmings followed accordingly since they didn't want to leave that jackoff behind downstairs, even though all 3 had hot dancers with them. That's why I hate groups.
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    Default Re:Do most people go to Strip Clubs alone or with friends?

    I prefer to go alone(reason stated by Mad). Sometimes I'll go with co-workers but does not help me because I'm the oldest and the girls have prefrence for the young ones. Tough life!
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    Default Re:Do most people go to Strip Clubs alone or with friends?

    They have a preference for money...age is immaterial.

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    Default Re:Do most people go to Strip Clubs alone or with friends?

    I go alone other than an occasional visit with a customer or with #2 son. I operate better if I dont have to babysit or entertain another guy. I tend to go off on my own tangent anyways

    When I see a whole crowd of guys together at a club it seems like there isnt much tipping going on but instead a bunch of hoopin and hollerin. Maybe Im missing something but it doesnt seem like a favorable time investment for a dancer most of the time.

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    I learned my lesson after the Canadian dudes...they were fun but didnt want to part with money LOL I dumped a bundle that night.

    Since then Ive made most of it back thru upping my prices but life would have been easier had they pulled out some of their own $2 dollar bills LOL

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    I'd say about 50% go with friends and the other 50% go by themselves....

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    Default Re:Do most people go to Strip Clubs alone or with friends?

    I usually go with a male friend/coworker of mine. The only problem is the ladies always assume that we are a couple (we are not), or that we are a male & female pair of cops! Because of this, sometimes the dancers approach us very apprehensively. This usually happens at clubs that we don't go to very often.
    Should I start wearing a sign that says "I'm not a cop, and I'm not involved with this guy sitting with me!"??? I think that if the ladies somehow knew I wasn't a bitchy wife/girlfriend out to ruin my husband/boyfriends evening, they wouldn't be so apprehensive.

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    Default Re:Do most people go to Strip Clubs alone or with friends?

    Always with a group of co-workers, or at least one bi female friend (very few dancers where I go will approach a couple).

    Never alone-- I tried it once, and the dancers were utterly relentless. I'm the kind of guy who likes to just sit and watch the goings-on undisturbed, and if I see a girl I like and want a dance from her, I'll let her know it.

    I know the girls are there to make money, but sheesh! The time I was there alone I felt like the gimpy gazelle who couldn't keep up with the herd, even though the club was busy.

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    Usually go with my buddy but have gone alone too. I do find that going gets you more attention from the ladies though which can be good or bad depending on your preferences.

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    Friends, it feels less initmidating..........

    plus for the girls who feel that its not as good approach guys in groups? you should.....i remember one time in school 2 girls approached me and said, hey steve, and started talking, can u handle BOTH of us? i dont think so......... and they smiled

    then my friends were like ohhh then laughed, basically the moral of the story is if u can do somethin like that, use his friends against him, hit a man where it hurts most (ego)

    u can prob get a lot out of him

    or i dunno, im just trying to sound helpful
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    My club gets more single guys than those with friends.



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    the only time ill go into a group is if i see them actually spending money

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