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    Default I start tommorow and my only worry is...

    Im starting dancing again tomorrow, and to be honest there is only one thing that im real worried about and its how the other girls will take to me!
    I have danced before but it was with a friend and we came as a pair in whatever club we danced in, and now im on my own im worried, i dont think i have ever had many girl friends i usually enjoy my own company hang with guy friends or the occasional chick friend.
    Can anybody offer reasurance for trying to fit in?
    I have been trying to get the attitude of "im here to work not to make friends" but it just doesnt seem to fit with my persona!
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    Default Re:I start tommorow and my only worry is...

    Although I'm new to this, I say just be yourself and not try to act like you don't want to make friends. The other girls may pick up bad vibes from that and end up not wanting to tlak to you anyway. If you are friendly, chances are that you will make at least a few friends with whom you can talk to at work. Watching the girls at the club gives me the impression that most are pretty good friends because they openly talk to eachother and have fun on their breaks. The girls who don't fit in seem to be the ones who talk shit about the other dancers then try to be all sweet to their faces.
    The worst thing that can happen is you won't make any friends....but you will still make money...and you won't make any enemies either. Good luck and just be yourself!

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    Default Re:I start tommorow and my only worry is...

    Just be yourself. Don't kiss up, be polite. Most girls can be bitchy, but screw them. You just focus on looking good and making money. Usually they are just jealous. They'll get over it.



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    Default Re:I start tommorow and my only worry is...

    If you make tons of money, you might not make a lot of friends where you work.

    Which do you prefer?

    At some clubs the girls are supportive of one another regardless, but those are few.
    Let your indulgence set me free. - Shakespeare

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    Default Re:I start tommorow and my only worry is...

    Not to be blunt but .... You can't eat friendship and friendship doesn't pay the bills. It would be nice if everyone got along .. but its not a necessity.

    "Rejoice O young man in thy youth."

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    Default Re:I start tommorow and my only worry is...

    I think the girls will most always initally dislike you (especially if you are gorgeous) mostly because you're new and they don't know you. Here's what I did:

    Listen to the girls here! They know what they're talking about and won't try to give you bad advise because here, no one's competing for money. Keep to yourself, but smile at people (even if they are glaring at you) usually flashing them a simple grin will do.

    Don't try to get into peoples conversations, unless they invite you in by intiating a chat. Speak when you're spoken to, but don't go out of your way to make your presence known.

    When you're "keeping to yourself" don't give off an un-approachable bitchy aura. A lot of the girls I work with take frowning-scilence as bitchiness. Just do you're own thing.

    Personally, after a month the girls warmed up to me. I made a few friends and in turn, the ice queens who are friends with THOSE girls warmed up to me too. (I guess they saw that I was nice, and generally to be trusted.)

    good luck! you'll be great.

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    Default Re:I start tommorow and my only worry is...

    Just go in with one thing in mind: Making money. I was always on good terms with the other girls at my club...but I didn't go out of my way to make friends...I was more concerned with making money. Just be yourself...concentrate on making money, and eventually they'll accept you.

    Good luck! Let us know how your "first" night goes!!

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    Default Re:I start tommorow and my only worry is...

    I am new to the game too, but honestly i could give a hot damn what the other girls think of me, but right now i am known as the sweet and funny one in the group but a couple of the girls know that i am street and can be if needed.

    So do you sweetie, make that money!!!!

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